Time and time again we have heard people say marriage is not easy. Mst celebrities including Nameless and his lovely wife, Wahu have admitted to this and now Kawira husband has come forth to reveal that his union has not been a walk in the park either.
Speaking to eDaily, pastor Ephantus Wahome says that he faced a few problems with Kawira aka Joy since he was expecting her to be a submissive wife, whose place is in the kitchen. However according to him it was impossible for Kawira who was working at that time.
Pastor Wahome goes on to add that when he settle with Kawira, he was still a village man who expected his wife to follow everything her husband says.
Joy and I really struggled, we could not agree on anything. I am that guy who is a hardliner and I expected my principles to be followed after all the man in me and the ego, thought a woman’s place is the kitchen. I expected her to submit fully and I wasn’t willing to change.
He however says that things have changed since they tied the knot in 2014. He is thankful for the pre-marital classes they both underwent as they helped him grown to understand that his wife is his companion and not someone to order around.
Even after losing their jobs (Kawira also lost her radio job) they are more united and happier as man and wife.