Renowned and accomplished Ghanaian Playwright, James Ebo Whyte, best known as Uncle Ebo Whyte has opened up on very intricate things about his marriage and inability to produce biological children.

Uncle Ebo, who simply defines himself as a storyteller in an interview on Ghanaweb’s ‘People

and Places’ admitted that despite although reports from doctors confirms that nothing was wrong medically with both himself and his spouse, they have, for 35 years been unable to have their very own children.

He is however unruffled about the situation stating that he sees the best of every situation and

turns it into a blessing for everyone else around him.

It is for this reason he decided to impact the lives of some individuals who are at the other side of his experience.

He has however adopted several children who have for a reason or the other been deprived of having biological parents.

Being the firm believer of Christ, he has chosen the pathway of faith. As long as there is life,

Uncle Ebo said, he will, together with his wife, keep hoping for a miracle of a baby.

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“I do not think we have even accepted that we can’t produce children, even now, we’ll keep trying to see if it happens”, he stated.

“We went through the usual, we go see specialists, we go do all kinds of test and the

report comes, both of you are okay, there’s nothing really, medically wrong with

you, then we decide let’s live our lives, let’s not panic over this, let’s not be upset

about this, and let’s just have fun, let’s make our childlessness a blessing to us and to other people”, he added.

For Uncle Ebo Whyte, the onus falls on every man to stand as head of the family and defend his

wife in events where there is childlessness in marriage.

To ‘kick’ society off he maintained, one has to protect and speak on behalf of the family and

defend his wife regardless whose fault it is.

“It is the one area that destroys marriages, the outside influences come, and they begin to push you.

The lesson there is especially the men, stand by your wife, be the one to defend her, don’t leave her to herself and once society gets to know her man is behind her, they’ll back off”, he advised.

Watch full interview from below:

Source:Ghanaweb.com

Prolific author, James Ebo Whyte, popularly known as Uncle Ebo Whyte has urged persons planning on getting married not to do so without pre-marital counselling sessions.

According to the CEO of Roverman Production, counselors don’t teach people about how to marry. However, they serve as persons we can call on when there are problems in the marriage.

Hence, his advise to all those who are planning to walk down the aisle.

“The counselor is not going to teach you how to marry but he becomes somebody who you could go back to, to call both of you to order. So, when you go for counselling you’ve held yourself accountable to somebody.” He said, defining the role of the counselor before and during marriage.

The esteemed playwright and marriage counsellor also advised people in abusive relationships to “run” before it’s too late, adding that, ‘you don’t need to take it”.

According to him, once you notice your partner has a violent temper in the early stages, call his or her attention to it and call it off if the person is not able to deal with it.

He also added that people shouldn’t be afraid to end relationships as that is not marriage.

“Unfortunately, we tend to have this tendency in Ghana here that once a relationship begins we don’t think its an option to call it off, we don’t realise that when we are dating we haven’t as yet married. So, at any point in the dating, I can decide that you are not quite who I thought you were…so let’s go our separate ways,” he noted.

Uncle Ebo revealed that for the 10th year anniversary of Roverman, he will stage a one-man comedy show this September.

This, he said is to introduce Ghanaians to a side of him most people don’t know about.

Credit: Ghanaweb.com