¨Be sensitive to people´s feelings because you never know what they have been through¨ Willis Raburu addresses child-bearing pressures

Kenyan media personality, Willis Raburu is a happily married man to his wife, Mary Ngami but Kenyans are questioning their intentions of having any children.

Like every other married celebrity couple, the pressure to conform to society´s demands to bare children, is inevitable.

Fans have put the duo under pressure to start a family they can proudly call their own but neither of the parties has time for such trolls.

Media couple, Willis Raburu and wifey, Mary Ngami

The couple that is known to lead a private life, recently addressed the trolls with Raburu expressing:

One of the greatest things my wife has taught me is to be happy at whatever state we are in. So we don´t really pay attention to pressures.

Raburu´s plea remains one, people go through a lot, especially couples, and the world needs to be sensitive on how we address them.

However, I will say this, society does put a lot of pressure on people to bring forth children and it´s okay. But we all have to be sensitive to people´s feelings because you never know what they have been through or are going through. We must, therefore, articulate our desires with a dose of sensitivity.

Dreams

However, they have not said ´no´ to siring children. If anything, he looks forward to being called ´daddy´ by an adorable look-alike.

I am looking forward to the day I will hear a little angel call me daddy. My father has taught me so much and I have had such an example from him, so I am eager to one day build on that with the help of God to be the best father I can be.

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Yes, his prayer is to become a father but marriage comes with its own challenges. Patience, humility, respect and an open mind are key.

The biggest lesson I have learnt so far in marriage is to listen. Sounds easy, huh? But we have to listen to not just each other´s voices but hearts as well. You have to know what your partner needs and to be sensitive to their needs. You have to communicate and grow together.

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Gloria Katunge