¨If you don´t ever hear from me next year, take it I served you a black rose discreetly¨ Zari Hassan declares

Image: Zari Hassan makes public declaration

Ugandan socialite, Zari Hassan might seem to have it all figured out; right from her kids to her businesses to her social circles but that is a blatant lie.

She is human. She breaks down couple times and needs some real affection, true love and a shoulder to lean on – valuables that masses ignored.

The Boss Lady came out to send a warning to all who thought she is a charity home – something she leaves behind in 2019 because come 2020, she is so done being ´Mother Teresa.´

Rant

In a long Instagram post, probably the longest in a while, Zari started off:

NOTICE ALERT!!!!!!!! That feeling when you know everything toxic, un-developmental, unfruitful, ungrateful unbearable, unworthy, unpleasant, unnecessary, unwanted, ….(pls add some words) is being left in 2019.

Mama Nillan went ahead to explain to the world the kind of individual she is, away from the Gram.

Let me tell you something you dont know about me off social media.
I’m that friend everyone can always run to, financially, emotionally, shoulder to cry on you name it. I am always here for my people.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B6fzIzuHJyd/

However, looks like she got pretty hurt in the process, with those she cared about, being nothing short of ungrateful to her and her letter to them reads:

But damn, that shit of playing mother Teresa is so done. They all can run to me but when i needs them, i can never see any, and I mean any of them. So, 2020 is all about me. Its not being selfish, nah! Its doing whats best for me Zari, my soul and my well being. I realised i need to protect my soul 1st.

Quits

An emotional Zari Hassan seems to have just had enough of the back and forth and has now called it quits.

I cant keep breaking my back and sharing bread with people that aint helping mix the dough.

News flash to her fans, friends, family, colleagues…etc:

If you dont ever hear from me next year, well take it i served you a back rose discreetly (listen to black roses by Trey Songz). Whether its family, friends, business associates you name it. I’m done!!!

Instead, her energy and love can be better utilized and appreciated elsewhere:

Will take all that energy to my charity work, they need me more than parasites.

Diamond´s baby mama went on an aggressive rant screaming:

All you do is suck blood outta me, how y’all expect me to keep functioning if you aint reaching out to a sister.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B6Cx6xsHRBi/

Her needs

What saddens her most is the fact that masses expect her to carry the weight of the world on her back while no one is there to even take care of her or just show her some good love.

My mom passed, my dad (story of another day) yet i still need to be both mom and dad to my kids and run 2 of the biggest educational institutions in South Africa, take care of my family back home least i forget my personal and social life (since i don’t have a private life)….. damn!!!!

So now, she has decided it is time to stop her acts of charity and instead take care of her own damn self.

When I’m out here taking care of everyone and their needs, the million dollar question remains, WHO takes care of me? (don’t bring my man into this)
Ya, that’s my point….. y’all think she good, she got it together. I’m human and i break down too.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B6dSGGPnMCR/

It´s the simple yet least unexpressed gestures in life that matter most to her; that put that smile on her face and gladden her heart, yet it is what she lacks.

Told Bae yesterday sometimes i just need a hello, how r ya, how’s the kids kinda texts or a random card or flowers, box of chocolates etc from my ‘so called people’. The simple things in life…..
Been taken for granted for long……

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Gloria Katunge