Amberay recently revealed that she is her husband’s community manager and she handles his social media accounts. At first I laughed at this notion because it should be the inverse given she was a
Then I realized she was serious and it was a couple of weeks too late for her statement to qualify as an April Fool’s joke. And this got me thinking that indeed, it is more than just an example of how unfair modern relationships are but also a statement of how insecure this socialite is.
She seems acutely aware that given the circumstances surrounding how their relationship started, she could very well be replaced by a woman as enthusiastic in her new hubby as she was. And this all amount to Amberay mate guarding her man.
You see, she knows she needs to protect her
meal ticket man. And who can blame her? She is being proactive about protecting her guy from someone like her especially because he has shown he has very little patience and attention span for long term relationships and when he finds a willing woman, he might very well wife her up.
But with all things said and done, whether or not she controls his social media profiles inorder to police his DMs (direct messages), this is a losing proposition that depends entirely on all Jamal’s suitors approaching him on social media rather than by calling him or cold approaching him on the streets of Nairobi.
It is a rather ironic and hilarious self-awareness to know that she must stave off competition from women like her but there is actually a fool-proof way to ensure she maintains the happiness and joy she is currently enjoying with the new relationship energy:
Just live your life Amberay. You see, there are more women out there who are more attractive than you and who have better bodies without the burden of coming with some other man’s
bastard love child. Add to this the fact that father time and mother nature are not on your side so you can actually realize that policing your man’s DMs is a loser’s game.
Instead, Amberay should focus on ensuring she creates a peaceful environment for Jamal. She needs to maintain her physique as much as she can and also keep their relationship fun. That way, when the next social media bimbo catches his eye, he will still come back home. Because at the end of the day, she will not out-think hundreds of women who spend their free time dreaming up ways to approach a man like Jamal.
At the end of the day, she chose this battle when she decided to chase after a high-networth man so she has to make peace with the fact she cannot police his DMs nor his loins and actually focus on what she can control: her behaviour.