Kamene Goro has a way of eliciting strong opinions from my still-beating heart. I was minding my own business, trying to find out when my next classes are going to start when I came across a statement she made about relationships and love…
When she held a True os false game session on her Instagram account, a fan said she missed being in a relationship to which Kamene Goro’s reply was, “False… I do miss being in love though” and this got me thinking for a hot second before I realized she would make a terrible partner for any serious man.
You see, Kamene Goro seems to have forgotten that in order to make relationships work, one has to forego a lot of whims and fleeting emotions. Relationships only work because of hard work. And they are the natural progression of that “ïn-love” feeling.
However, Kamene Goro isn’t alone in being in-love with the process of falling in-love. It’s called “infatuation”. Usually this is a fleeting fancy. Boy meets girl, he falls for her and pursues her. The culmination of this pursuit is she falls for him. After that brief period of their dalliance, the heat and passion of that infatuation eases up. For a lot of people, this is the point at which they bid their friend sayonara and fade into mist.
The problem with this is it leaves one heart broken and the other person evolves into a serial monogamist. Somoene adept at the hunt but little else. She might actually be one of these people. And it makes for a bad time for anyone foolish enough to try and pursue a relationship with her.
These are usually the people who get into relationships and are soon looking for any excuse to ditch it. But because the emotional high is what they are seeking, they quickly jump into the next relationship. Or perhaps Kamene Goro is the type to always instigate drama in her relationship. She injects all the ups and downs of being pursued, chasing off that partner, inviting them to pursue again thus turning the entire affair into something similar to a roller coaster.
Or maybe I am just jaded from listening to some interesting rants from my mentors about their interactions with women who were similar in nature to this trait she has alluded to having. All I know is that the pursuit of only falling in love os something that would make Kamene Goro a terrible partner for anyone looking for something serious. One night stands seem to be better suited for her or short lived cuddle buddy arrangements.