Lillian Muli is finally dating again and we are happy to see it. She seems happier and more confident and what has shocked many is the fact that she is currently dating a Ben10 which is something alot of single women are hoping to emulate in their own lives. However, while this might seem like a step up for her, we have a word of caution for anyone who will try this.
You see, Lillian Muli dating a Ben10 is definitely how Stella got her groove back but Stella had to pay her way through the relationship and Lillian Muli definitely has to do the same thing. What do I mean? Well, ask yourself why a young man who has the ability to get any woman would settle for dating an old woman… It smells of the Oedipal complex and he needs to be compensated for his time.
Aside from that, which attractive, healthy young man do you know with his pick of the litter when it comes to the ladies would opt to date an old lady? Think about it. A young man would willingly tether himself to an old lady out of love? Come on, we aren’t in some Disney flick.
Then too, there is the fact that such a relationship has an expiry date right from the very beginning. So you know it is all about fun times. Why? Because there is almost no advantage for a man dating her outside of the fact that she will allow him to drive her car and also give him pocket money but you know you cannot rely on your Ben10 when real life decides to invite itself into your life.
But, assuming Lillian Muli is foolish enough to pursue an actual relationship with her Ben10… Then she will spend the rest of her life fighting off other women’s attention and acting as if she were some deranged obsessive partner. Every little interaction her man has with any other woman will be up for scrutiny. Any small conversation will be seen as flirting. Ad nauseam.
And add to this the fact that her insecurities will be ramped up to the nth level. Is she young enough for her man? Can she start a family with him and sire his children? Can Lillian Muli be as fun as other women his age? These are the type of insecurities some I have seen in situations such as these. Constantly bugging your partner to give you reassurances to put your mind at ease. And newsflash, it always ends up badly.
However, one thing that I am sure she is happy about is the fact that she has acquired a brand new fanboy. Someone who grew up watching her on TV and is probably constantly fawning over her. Not to mention the fact that he doesn’t come with half the baggage men like Jared Nevaton come with.