Singer Akothee AKA the president of single mothers didn’t have time today for her usual wisdom quotes. The popular and controversial singer is on her way to London where she’s expected to perform in different clubs as she kicks of her European tour.
Happy or sad?
While At the airport, Akothee shared a rather funny clip that has her daughters bidding him goodbye. What’s funny about the clip is how they cry when she announces it’s now time to leave.
Their cry leaves Akothee confused not knowing whether they are happy for her or sad.
What will the world be without Akothee wisdom? The singer has been taking to her Instagram once in while to share uplifting advice especially to women.
Free wise words
Akothee has shared yet again another long post asking women to invest in themselves instead of hoping a man will change their lives and make them richer.
“If I sat down in a corner sympathizing with myself , I would still be broke and sad, nobody would have liked to associate with me,for bitter people are worse than witches,” said Akothee.
“Capital doesn’t have to be liquid cash, physical labour is capital on its own, get up and look for something to do. You are healthy with some brains , success will never come knocking at your door. Success is earned through hard work working smart consistency and discipline.
“Success is not hereditary, that why you see women dating rich men has only a lifestyle but with no investments, if they are thrown out or dumped they always start from zero, and even if they get half of the wealth, they won’t sustain it for long because it wasn’t their brain or sweat. Good day.”
Akothee posts on social media have always been unpredictable. One minute she’s posting twerking photos the next, she dishing out advice on how to achieve financial freedom.
The singer, who recently released her latest jam, “Oyoyo” featuring McGalaxy, spoke on how parents need to start giving their girl child pieces of land unlike what has been happening in the past where.
“I think it’s high time parents consider dividing land for a girl child just in case things don’t work out ! I Esther Akoth Kokeyo has divided land for my 3 daughter’s Each one of them has 3 acres ! As their birthday gifts as they graduate from being children, they can build their homes and develop the rest,” she said on social media.
She doesn’t want to spoon feed them
The singer also added that she won’t do much another than that because her daughters need to learn to make a living for themselves.
“I will not build houses for them that’s spoon feeding which is dangerous , I am investing in their education so that they get good background of having an independent mind ,get employed or self employment , save and build their homes ! Independence is the most expensive gift one can have!”
Nelly Oaks’ father, Job Okuna Oyugi, is against Akothee’s relationship to his son, a thing that has left him fighting with stress and mental health.
According to TUKO, Job Okuna’s mental health has deteriorated because of the relationship since Akothee is almost 40 years, with five kids, while his son is barely 25 years old. The source further claimed that Oaks’, whose real names are Nelly Oyugi Okuna, was just a primary student in 2008 at the prestigious school St. Andrew’s Turi. By then, Akothee was already a mother of three and hustling hard in Mombasa.
“In November 2017, I was at their rural home in Rongo. Akothee’s place is also not very far from Nelly’s home. The woman confused him and the dad is not very happy man,” said the source.
Rich kid
Oaks is a rich kid having been born into a well-off family. His grandfather is a former internal security principal secretary, Ezekiel Nelson Oyugi and his dad stays just opposite Kileleshwa police station.
Akothee and Oaks started with an employer-employee relationship but things took and an unexpected turn after the singer announced the two were more than just working but also getting cozy under the sheets.
Singer Akothee started from the bottom and hustled her way up to the lady she’s currently now. It was not easy.
The singer recently took to social media to share a very emotional post of how she struggled and almost lost hope but kept on hustling. In the post she asked Kenyans not to give up but keep going and grab any opportunity that comes.
I learnt to grab any opportunity that landed on my door step
Now that she has money, she wanted her fans to know that she hasn’t changed and still the same person she was back then.
Read her post:
“NOTHING HAS CHANGED SINCE 2010 JUST MORE WISDOM AS WE GROW I AM STILL THE SAME ESTHER AKOTH KOKEYO Behind every smiling woman there is broken little girl ! With this pregnancies I chased the owners till I got tired !when I woke up from my dreams and realised that I use less energy to chase my dreams than chasing men ! Trust me ! I gained my strength and stood on my feet
I learnt to grab any opportunity that landed on my door steps , where you are right now I know you are broken , you feel like the end has come and you should just die ! Don’t hold God’s hands you will get tired and drop him Let him hold your hands He never gives up, He is the Living God remind him of your troubles and worries, He knows what you are going through now, But he allows you to go through so get ready for the bigger plans ahead !
Akothee with her kids
She added:
“Trust me if God showed me whom I would be today in 2009! The world would have been folded ! Don’t give up my darling ! He is teaching you to patience ! he wants you to learn from experience so you have a taste of both lives, lest you forget the less fortunate. Things that comes easy don’t last, that’s why you wonder when rich people die they only leave a legacy but all the wealth vanishes , simply because , the wealth they left behind ,lands in the hands of people who dint sweat or toil for them ! Be patient ,God is teaching you to be humble Goodnight my darling and when God remembers you also let us know of the miracle of THE LIVING GOD . Some of us would have been long Gone if it were not living by faith SOMEONE TYPE AMEN”
Akothee has been forced to change her mobile number after she accidentally exposed it while shooting a video on Instagram.
The controversial singer sent a post on Instagram alerting all her clients and associates saying that she has changed her business line. She was shooting an Instalive video when it all happened.
New line
People started calling her for all kind of reasons forcing her to get a new one.
“Came home to spend quality time with my family , accidentally my business line went viral! Please family friends & business associate delete this No 0790516475 from your contact list , it’s no longer in use ! Email me & will contact you as soon as I have a new line thanks,” she posted on her Instagram account.
Things between Akothee and her first Mzungu baby daddy seem to be heading south. A few weeks ago the singer revealed that her baby daddy had tried to take their son since the singer was now involved with Nelly Oaks, her manager.
According to Akothee this left the guy, Marcus jealous and the only way he could hurt her is by taking the boy, Ojwang away.
However, this seem to have gotten out of hand as the two are to battle for the boy’s custody. Akothee says that the baby daddy’s reason of taking the boy away is because he is now living with a stranger (Nelly Oaks) in his mum’s house.
Akothee spills the beans!
Many have always assumed that Akothee gained a lot of her Mzungu baby daddy but seems like this is not the case. She may have lived with him but her life was quite empty.
The fella Marcus apparently disappeared for about 3days after she went into labor with their son. While she was in the maternity, he abandoned her girls leaving them with nothing in the fridge to eat. She said;
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This is going to be one hard case but fans have been encouraging the mother of 5 to stay strong.
Mother of 5, Akothee has opened up about one of her Caucasian baby daddy’s that put her through hell. According to her, the fella by the name of Markus threw her out when she was 9 months pregnant without a care in the world.
This comes a few weeks after she revealed that the same guy tried stealing his son from school. However this time around she put it down in black and white exposing the baby daddy like never before.
In her detailed post Akothee says that Markus has no time for his son and prefers not having any responsibilities at all. When he recently visited Kenya, Akothee says that he chose to keep it a secret and even went ahead to tell her friends not to alert her. She wrote saying;
Well I always breakdown anytime my son ask for his father’s where bouts, I don’t know how to explain that his father has no time for him! Am happy he finally filled his case in court under matter of urgency ! But my question is , what does Markus really want ? Is it true he really want to see his son ? Or he wants us as a package? Is this not the same man who threw me out 9 months pregnant and denied the child? Is this not the same father who took his son at 3 years to Switzerland and brought him back after 3 months saying he has no time and he wants to enjoy his life ?
Markus abandons on with Oyoo’s father
According to what the singer wrote, Markus is the father of her youngest son, Ojwang. But unlike most dads he has no time for his baby. Akothee reveals that he once abandoned his son at Oyoo’s dad’s house.
Is this not the same father who cane back again after 4 years took his son to a German school in Switzerland; and came for holiday in Kenya leaving his son with papa Oyoo whom he calls a stranger now. I had no option but to go assist my son as papa Oyoo only speaks French So he could not help much with homework ! is this not the same Markus who said lats week he has no time for his son during the school breaks but only in summer time ? Is this not the Markus who arrived in Kenya early December and told my friends not to tell me he is around !
Akothee planning to go to court
In conclusion the singer went on to say;
And only calling my employees to ask which man is in my house ? What should I go to do in court! What should I go to do or answer in court tommorow ? Because he wants to see his son at his convenient time ? Because I should not date or move on with my life !He claims his son has been living with people unknown to him !is he being fair to humanity ? Today Markus calls Dominic a stranger who has been there for his son since the boy was 2 weeks ! So where has Markus been since 8 years of his sons growth that now he feels the life of his son threatened?
Should I give him his son ? But then will it last before he brings him back! He once said if he is forced to pay upkeep he will run away with my son!Oyaa I am not asking him for any peny am happily taking care of my son , he says I travel a lot and he fears for the life of his son , well Dominic has always been there for me and the children any day and even now ! I am expected to be in court tommorow but wondering to answer what ? SHOULD I GO OR NOT , why are lawyers not telling this muzungus truth
