Alfred Mutua on losing his ex wife to another man, regrets choking the life out of their relationship

Former Machakos County Governor Alfred Mutua says he never saw his breakup with ex wife, Lilian Nganga coming – mainly because he was too focused on his work life forgetting he has a partner who also has a life of her own and dreams she wanted to achieve.

It happens. I mean – most marriages go through different challenges but when there is no communication- the relationship starts to slowly break and by the time you realize all is not well…the damage is usually irreversible.

This is the same case that happened to Alfred Mutua’s relationship and for the first time – he admitted having ruined his own marriage by not putting his ex wife first not forgetting the part where he also forgot to show support in her interests.

As seen on a screenshot from a newspaper piece he shared his thoughts on, Alfred Mutua wrote;

I look back and k realize that we unintentionally impose our visions onto our partners. Never asking what they wanted and deciding whether we can meet it. In my quest for ultimate success, I slowly but surely choked the life out of us. I gained the world, but I lost us.

Mutua Regrets losing wife

On a different paragraph he however mentioned that maybe seeing her act reluctant and not wanting more contributed to his behavior towards her;

Alfred Mutua’s birthday as he marks 51 years

It bothered me that she didn’t want to expand her boutique. It was doing well, but I am the kind of man who doesn’t know when to stop. I want the world. But at some point you will have to stop and let your partners be. And that if you must proceed, you’ll have to do it alone.

Reading the whole post will make you understand how much he regrets losing Lilian Nganga; but like the swahili say maji yaki mwagika, hayazoleki and maybe sharing his experience will help others stuck in the same situation.

Lilian Ng’ang’a reveals how ex, Alfred Mutua recently tried to buy her love with expensive gifts

It’s now official that Lilian Ng’ang’a wants nothing to do with Machakos Governor Alfred Mutua. Like it’s over and there is no way she is willing to get back with him.

Exes Governor Mutua with Lilian Ng’ang’a

Of course this is obvious since she already has a new man, Juliani who seems to have brought out the sunshine in her. With the new found love, it’s clear to see that both Lilian and Juliani are walking on cloud 9; or rather tiptoeing since the Governor refuses to accept defeat.

According to Lilian Ng’ang’a she hasn’t had it easy for the past few weeks thanks to her ex, Alfred who has been threatening both her and lover, Juliani.

Also read: “We have had issues over the years” Lilian Ng’ang’a shares news details as to why she dumped Governor Alfred Mutua

In a new post shared on her Instagram page, Lilian made it known that there have threats made towards her life and if anything was to happen to her – then Mutua should be blamed.

Tactics used to lure her back

In yet another different post directed to those claiming Lilian Ng’ang’a was a materialistic woman, she goes on to list some of the expensive gifts offered to her by the Governor as he hoped to win her back.

Nganga says that the Governor recently offered her some expensive gifts which she turned down, a perfect example which proves that she isn’t materialistic as many things. Ms Ng’ang’a wrote;

Also read: Alfred Mutua Responds To Lillian Ng’ang’as Accusations

Governor Mutua with ex girlfriend, Lilian Ng’ang’a

and for all those whose only attack line is material things;

  1. Alfred bought me a new car 2 months ago. I returned it to the dealer.
  2. He offered to buy me a new house, support me financially, get me a job etc. I declined.
  3. He offered me a white wedding. I declined.

Value yourselves. Attack people when you have truths.

Enough is enough: Lilian Ng’ang’a savage response to fan who referred to her as ‘twerking KQ hostess’

Lilian Ng’ang’a leaving the Machakos has left her facing trolls everyday; from fans who feel entitled to her personal life.

So far she has been accused of playing the Machakos Governor with Juliani; that is way before she announced her breakup with the politician.

Lilian Ng’ang’a posts new photo alongside, alleged lover Juliani

Also read: “I have chosen to be with Juliani” says former Machakos 1st lady, Lilian Ng’ang’a

Probably because the two had been spotted together on several occasions; and out of the blues – they announced to be in a relationship. Well since then, some fans on social media have made it their mission to make Ms Ng’ang’a’s a nightmare; and it’s not about to stop anytime soon.

Lilian Ng’ang’a versus Fan

Well just a few hours ago Lilian Ng’ang’a shared a post taking about the importance of appreciating those around us in tweet where she wrote;

When people die,we flood their pages with so many praises. I ask, did you let them know how much you appreciated their love; friendship etc when they were alive? Let’s flood each other’s pages with praises and appreciation when we are alive – not when we are dead.

Also read: Lilian Ng’ang’a head over heels in love with Juliani (Photo)

However one particular fan took it up upon himself to remind Ng’ang’a; why she should practice what she preaches by appreciating the Machakos Governor in a comment where he wrote;

Start by appreciating Governor Mutua first.

According to the guy, Mutua is apparently the reason why Ng’ang’a has made it in life; since apparently he upgraded her from a twerking KQ hostess to thee lady she became. He went on to add;

for bringing you from a twerking KQ hostess up to when scavenger musician snatched you from him.

And this comment for some reason brought out Lilian Ng’ang’a’s savage side to a point she got vulgar. She hit back saying;

Grow the f*uck up

Well, I guess Lilian Ng’ang’a had every right to react this way – especially with everyone picking on her. No?

 

Violence! Former Nairobi Governor takes a swipe at Alfred Mutua’s failed marriage

At this point, serikali inafaa kupatia Sonko kazi! Having been relieved off his duties as the Nairobi Governor – Mike Sonko seems to have too much time in his hands; hence his activities on social media.

Alfred Mutua’s birthday as he marks 51 years

About a week ago the former governor was among the first people to advise Alfred Mutua; on the importance of fixing his family problems in private.

Although his message made sense – reading in between the lines; its obvious that Sonko was also mocking politician Mutua. But, as you already know – there’s a very, very thin line between clowns; and Politicians in Kenya.

Sonko riding on Mutua’s failed marriage

With everyone talking about this failed marriage; Mutua and Lilian this past weekend pulled a not so smart PR stunt that fueled the failed marriage.

Of course by now fans are aware that Lilian Ng’ang’a’s body language not only confirmed she is uninterested; but the photos paved way for  Sonko to do what he does best – Mockery.

This was seen in a new post where Sonko wrote;

Birthday iko karibu kwisha. Kila mtu ataenda kivyake Ama what will be next yoooh?

Sonko to Governor Alfred Mutua

Judging by the photo Sonko shared, it’s clear tho see that he isn’t such a big fan of his Kamba mate, Alfred Mutua; but since they both want to keep acting like Nairobi socialites – who are we not to stay entertained.