“He could have left, but he didn’t” Diana Marua admits Bahati had a hard time first 2 years of their marriage

Diana Marua is not shy to admit that despite having been older than Bahati and more experienced in the dating scene; she still gave the guy a hard time as a young wife – I mean, age is nothing but a number, right?

Anyway with hubby busy with his campaign – Diana Marua continues to handle their YouTube channel where she recently shared a video about her marriage; and from what she says is that – Bahati had it rough.

The mum of 4 revealed this on a post where she wrote;

Diana Marua opens up about first two years of her marriage to Bahati

Our first two years of marriage with my Hubby were the most challenging weeeeeeeuuuuuuhhhh!!!!! Tulipitia lakini @BahatiKenya ndio alikipata ????????????????????

This comes days after Bahati’s interview on Mseto Eas Africa where he shared an example of what he had to put up with, the first year they got married. He wrote;

  The first year she would move out when we disagreed, it was one of the toughest. You had to go for her at her home, you start at zero again. She walked out 2 or 3 times, stabilizing a relationship takes time.

It was just bad – Diana Marua

Well – since she was the one acting up, Diana Marua went on to even reveal that till date – she continues to wonder why Bahati never left her cause back then – Wueh!

Bahati weds Diana Marua

I’m wondering why he never left me then I remember, true love exists coz this man loves me genuinely.

Anyway having realized that fans actually follow up and look up to her family (The Bahati’s) Mama Heaven went on to address her followers saying;

To hear that out marriage inspires some of you out here, it’s truly humbling. Today on #COOKANDREVEAL I met Christine and to know that we’ve impacted her life in someway, is heart warming.

Take notes: Diana Marua shares secret to her successful marriage (video)

Although many secretly wish they could have what Bahati and Diana Marua have; most fans prefer to show hate than love towards these two.

Just a few days ago these two left many bitter after learning that they faked a breakup to promote a new song; which already has 1 million and counting views on YouTube.

Indeed, their strategy worked well – but what angered most fans is how they played  their fans; by making them believe that they too had marital issues. I mean, if Bahati was really talented like he claims, would he result to cheap stunts?

Diana Marua’s secret to successful marriage

Anyway now that all clout chasing phase is over and insults on the Bahati’s have reduced; Diana Marua has come out to reveal what makes her marriage stay glued together.

As seen on a video shared on her Instagram stories, the mother of 3 goes on to reveal that the secret to her successful marriage is controlling her husband. Yes she said it and with no regrets, husband Bahati who was also featured in the video also seemed to agree with  this.

Marua is heard saying;

Niliwaambia nini….mwanaume ni kukaliwa…you’ll have a happy marriage

However what she doesn’t know is that most Nairobi men are not like her Bahati; who can be controlled like she wishes.

But looking at the age difference between these two, fans can understand why Marua seems to be in control when it comes to their marriage.

Meet Bahati´s hot video vixen threatening to replace Diana Marua (Photos)

It looks like the gospel industry was not making enough money for gospel kid, Bahati who has now decided to slowly jump into the secular world, following his new release.

It started with the father of 3 working with gengetone artistes, Boondocks gang who are known for their uncensored content, typical of the secular world of music.

Bahati was wise enough to use a church setting, to confuse his fans regards whether he is now a secular or gospel artist.

Boondocks shooting Taniua with Bahati

So now, Bahati is out with a new track dubbed Wanani [Toto si Toto], which can only confirm that he is slowly losing track of the gospel world of music.

This is exactly how Willy Paul started before he officially dived into secular music.

Away from that, Wanani is a love song dedicated to this flawless lass who has stolen Bahati´s heart.

Bahati with Diana Marua´s best friend, Phoina

There is nothing wrong with the award-winning artist shifting into secular music, what has surprised many is how Bahati decided to pick Diana Marua´s best friend and stylist to be the vixen.

Also read: Bahati´s new demonic hairstyle paints Diana Marua as a failed wife (Photos)

Rocky marriage?

They say, best friends are your worst enemies and when it comes to relationships, this phrase has only been confirmed the more.

Fans are worried the hot vixen will soon be replacing the singer´s wife if she does not watch out.

Bahati with hot video vixen, Phoina

Some went ahead to question whether Diana was really aware about this video project in the first place. Others wondered why it had to be Phoina and not Marua, considering that both ladies are look-alikes.

Bahati´s wife, Ms Marua

The hidden intention behind Bahati´s choice has only left fans worried that their marriage might be headed for the rocks.

Uproar

Check out the comments below:

_l.a.v.y.25 Aaai baha Diana aliaccept hiyo video ????????

 

miss_v7922 i feel like diana should be the one

 

aurens.kitchen Diana wewe ndio ungekua vixen????

 

mirrihsm254 @diana_maruaHaukusikia vibaya? ????

 

paulahwawira the video vixen is Diana’s best friend she’s called @phoinahaircollection

 

teddiegodwiller this is business, ukileta wivu kwa job utakua Mawe? ????

 

_poetic_rasta Hivi ndo mtu huachwa????????

 

muthoni6454 Soon utakua motivational speaker huku????

 

mwangi3537_maggie Never ever trust a woman over your man….never be careful ????????????????

 

thekanambo It will end in tears????????????

 

__.candybar.__????????????????chunga usichome
l.overr_@diana_marua Are you seeing this????????
jennysean3 Akyyyyy Diana utanyaganywa bwanako ukionanga tuuuuu na machoooo,,,,,,huyu Dem n????????????????????????????????
redemtahmelissah D ungefanya better than that lady,,,,u are much better than her,,,,,
ivyritah6 Baha looked for a vixen that looks a lot like you????
hotea_cultured Haiya chunga bwana asiende????
For others, Bahati should have picked Phoina to be his wife from the word go, because their chemistry is a different tale.
captmarlowa King Bahati and Queen Phoina????????????
faychibae Niliwatch wa kwanza YouTube ???????????????? phoina ameweza????
nana_luisa_0_0_1 ???? You look good together ????????????????????????????
tessiebaiby You two look amazing ❤️????…
Bahati with Diana Marua´s best friend, Phiona

Diana reacts

It eventually caught Diana Marua´s attention that if she doesn´t secure her man, she will be headed for the streets shortly. She penned to Bahati:
Aki Mpenz…. Naskia napata ulcers ????‍♀️ Niambie mimi ni #WANANI basiiiii @BahatiKenya ????
Diana Marua
To which he posed:
Babe Umekula Lunch Kwelie?
Only for the singer´s wife to admit:
 Hata sina appetite ????

“Things have not been easy for me” Diana cries out after Bahati’s late night tantrums

Bahati throws tantrums at Diana and house help

Do some of these characteristics come with age or is it the stress of siring more babies? Because Bahati has lost it.

In the latest Bahati Reality TV show, the family man came home from a long day at work only to start raising his voice at their house help and his wife.

We probably have no problem with him raising his voice, I said probably. But what actually made him raise the voice is what I find petty.

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The gospel star got home and had his dinner served by the house help, Irene, only for him to turn it down because he wants it served by Mama Heaven – his wife.

All the house help was doing, was her job. But hardly did she expect such kind of reception.

Aaii. Ako wapi Mama Heav? Mimi ni mtu nimetoka huko nje nimechoka and I just want mama Heav to serve me. Irene, please do not be coming in between my marriage. Mara you’re serving me. Just cook and let my wife serve me the food. I married one wife and she is the one to serve me. Just leave! Do not question me. You’re just a house help I am the man of the house. In fact put this food away I’ll eat in the morning.

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Speaking in response to much more that goes on in the couple’s life, a weary Diana expressed:

Huku kila mtu na duty yake. Let us not even get there. To be honest, things have not been easy for me, they are not okay. He will walk here at 2 am. He is never home, he is always doing shows.

But who was Bahati to even listen and digest that for a minute or two? He meets the bills accordingly and wants things done his way.

I am wondering why is Irene serving me food and you are here. I have hired Irene to hold the baby. Is it you or Irene I married. I want to come home and feel appreciated.

Comebacks

However, seems Diana had had enough of his selfish ways and had her comeback well prepared:

Give me time to heal and for the baby to at least grow. What kind of questions are these you are asking? It is now your turn to be with the baby.  I have been with him all day and I am tired. I have not even showered.

Now a mother of two, but still a mother who just delivered barely a month ago and whose responsibilities have since then piled up.

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Even after the confrontation, Bahati’s ego could not allow any of it, responding that he is too tired to hold baby Majesty, and could probably faint.

Well, Diana played her cards right, coming in:

Walahi just faint, I will pick you up. I have not just been sitting and sipping juice. Today it is your turn. I can’t even shower? Remove those chains and clothes that are full of dirt from Loitoktok and stay with the baby all night and feed him. I have already pumped milk.

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It is not a surprise to see such acts unfolding between the young couple since Diana has previously raised concerns on Bahati’s absence from their children’s lives.

The gospel kid promised to change and pay more attention to the young ones but looks like that was just cheap talk.

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