“I wish I could just call them” DJ Soxxy’s wife remembers late parents in emotional post

Grief is something that everyone will have to deal with throughout their lives, and it’s important when celebrities speak out about it in a bid to reassure us that we are not alone.

Talking about it can inspire and motivate others to share their heartbreak and help them in their recovery process. For this same reason DJ Soxxy ‘s wife also known as Ciiku Wa Soxxy recently went on to mourn both her late parents.

Celebrity couple, DJ Soxxy and Anne Waichigo with their two children

In an emotional post, Ciiku went on to remember her parents as she also talked about some of the lessons grief has taught her. Although it’s not easy to accept and move on after losing a loved one, Ciiku went on to write saying;

One lesson I have learnt: You cannot distract your grief away. I thought if I “lived more” my grief wouldn’t feel as heavy or if I made myself as busy as possible that I wouldn’t have to be alone… But grief finds a way to creep back in…

Missing them

According to the lady, if she were given just a chance to call and check up on them, then she would do this in a heartbeat. Through her IG, Mrs Soxxy went on to add;

DJ Soxxy with her late parents

It will be bumping into someone with their daddy or mummy or something happens and I wish I could call them to have a laugh or as I pick my shoes and I see her shoes on the shoe rack.. Or just a memory of them creeps in…You can’t distract grief away, pull a seat let it sit and plan a way of walking together.

I miss my two favorite people.

DJ Soxxy and wife narrate son´s painful battle in ICU soon after birth (Details)

Words can never be enough to explain the emotions that engulf a mother when their child is in pain, when their child is about to loose their life, when their child is fighting to live and you just cannot help them.

Mothers, they say, are exceptional beings, the only creation that was bestowed the ability to give life, to birth a new creature, to carry a child in their womb for a whooping 9 months and still live to nurse this little, beautiful creation.

Well, for some, this short journey becomes long, becomes gruelling the minute your child has to fight for their life. The minute your child has to depend on life support machines to get fully formed and able to lead a life on their own.

Kenyan gospel deejay Jackson Kamau better known as DJ Soxxy and wife Anne Waichigo have struggled with infertility issues as they tried to build a family.

DJ Soxxy with wife Anne Waichigo

Days they would look forward to holding a baby in their arms, only for the body to resist and deny them that golden chance.

At times they gave up, lost hope of ever having someone call them ´daddy´ or ´mommy´ but they eventually got blessed with two children: a daughter Eliana Wairimu and a son Ethan Kamau.

Son in ICU

What many don´t know is the story behind their son, Ethan Kamau. Their last born child who had to spend long days and nights in the ICU because his lungs were weary, soon after birth.

Celebrity couple, DJ Soxxy and Anne Waichigo with their two children

Sharing finer details, Mrs Soxxy admitted she almost gave up on the life of her son, just before he looked up and assured his mom that he was born to live and fight.

And just like that, the little boy bagged himself the name ´Ethan´.

Showering his little boy and celebrating his life on Instagram, Anne penned:

I have this little boy who stole my heart and he calls me mama.. We named him @ethan_kamau Ethan means Strong, firm in hebrew. When Ethan was born, his lungs did not pick up and we thought we would lose him, he stayed in the NICU for a few days. And just like his name, he was strong to fight for his little life.

DJ Soxxy´s wife, Anne Waichigo with son, Ethan Kamau

Adding:

I can’t promise to fix all your problems but I can promise that you won’t have to face them alone.

Like they say, what a mom!