Tag: Jamal Marlow

Now that Jimal Roho Safi has come to a divided house -a situation we had already forewarned him about, with his wife, Amira publicly feuding with his new wife, Amberay, can he salvage the situation in his house?

Where Jimal Roho Safi went wrong in managing a polygamous family

You see, the way he started his polygamous family has been erroneous and flawed. As a result, he has had to endure both his women, his wives, going onto social media to air the drama and between them and his failings.

And because Jimal Roho Safi who is also known as Jamal Marlow is a clown of a man, he has been unable to keep his head above the fray and he has sunk deep into the drama, seemingly taking sides and uniting with his socialite wife to humiliate Amira.

We were right, Amberay is ruining Jimal Roho Safi’s family

And now, as his homestead lays smouldering, I find myself wondering whether he can successfully salvage his family from ruin. Why? Because his children, his legacy sprung forth from Amira and not Amberay.

And they are sitting and watching their father, Jimal Roho Safi, humiliating their mother and trust me when I say that they have more reason to take Amira’s side than they do their father’s side.

“Amira is facing oppression and violence from Jimal” Friend speaks up after late night drama

And I spoke to a mentor of mine on whether he can see a situation in which this great businessman actually fixes his family and both he and I are of the opinion that there is none for along as Amberay remains in his house and for along as he refuses to reign both women in.

What do I mean by that? Well, Jimal Roho Safi needs to tell his wives to stay off social media for atleast a year. But he lacks the authority to actually see through such a demand. And they do not respect him enough to honour such a demand.

“Mie ndo mke mwenzio” Amber Ray openly mocks co-wife Amira weeks after fighting over hunk, Jimal

And seeing as he cannot actually back such a demand, we cannot say he is in control. We cannot say that Jamal Marlow would actually be in a position to save his household. The collapse has begun and it will not stop.

On the one hand, this is a strong example of why you must never accept a Jezebel spirit into your home. And secondly, why you should honour your main wife. And keep her above the din and clash of drama.

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Jimal Roho Safi, for those of you who might not be familiar with him, is a socialite and successful trollop Amberay’s new husband. The couple has been trying to segue from being clandestine lovers into becoming a successful polygamous family without success.

A house divided: Amberay will destroy Jamal’s household

You see, Jimal Roho Safi, also known as Jamal Marlow, was already married when he began having a dalliance with Amberay. His wife is a lady called Amira and she is not amused about the open disrespect her husband has showered her in.

So understandably, Jimal’s family is crumbling and he and his new femme fatale, Amberay, are oblivious to the fact. A reason for this as one of my mentors pointed out is like the story of Solomon and the two mothers who fought over the baby, only the real mother was unwilling to have her baby torn asunder.

Why men are offering Amberay money for her sister

What that essentially means is that Jimal Roho Safi needs to realise that the fact Amberay is perfectly at peace with tearing his world asunder to have a piece of him tells him she is not the Stepford wife he believes her to be but rather a succubus…

“Amira is facing oppression and violence from Jimal” Friend speaks up after late night drama

Anyway, right from the get-go, he did a terrible job of setting himself up for a polygamous marriage and we are going to delve into why I have made that assertion and will be sticking to it -other than the fact that I am right:

#1. He was not honest and upfront

No woman would agree to you changing the terms of your engaging with her midway through your marriage. Jimal Roho Safi is an example of why men who know they would eventually like to pursue polygamous marriages or relationships need to be upfront about that fact. If the lady you’re pursuing decides to leave when you tell her your intention, let her go. It is her prerogative.
Far too often we see men who have zero cojones and have a scarcity mindset instead opt to lie and cheat on their partner rather than be direct, preferring this approach so they do not lose the girl. And this always ends badly. As we can tell from Amira’s reaction.

“Mie ndo mke mwenzio” Amber Ray openly mocks co-wife Amira weeks after fighting over hunk, Jimal

#2. He vetted poorly

Why would any man decide to marry a well-known trollop who was formerly married in a similar polygamous union but nearly burnt that household down to the ground with her pettiness? Jimal Roho Safi is a clown for accepting to pursue a marriage with Amberay rather than keep their affair secret.
For starters, she is not the type of woman you can pull up with where other high-value men are and expect to be respected for your choice of a partner. Secondly, she is a known agent of entropy. She already failed spectacularly at being a wife, why give her a second go?

#3. Jimal has a scarcity mindset

Jimal has never known abundance when it comes to women. That is why when the first hot woman (let’s be honest here, Amberay is still attractive despite having hit the wall and her attractiveness having diminished somewhat due to her weight gain) he could seduce who agreed to be with him is who he is currently destroying his marriage for. He doesn’t believe there will be others and he is too scared of rejection to keep exploring. He has no idea that he could get a younger, hotter more submissive and cooperative wife who would come sans bastards and baggage from previous relationships.

#4. Jimal Roho Safi lacks game

You see, when you’re poor, game gets you the girls. When you’re wealthy, game protects you from damage from women. My mentor pointed out that when you have nothing to offer a woman’s hypergamy, game is what gets you the wet crevices. When you have wealth, all the women you deal with are out to sate their hypergamous instinct. Game is what keeps them in line and in check to avoid you getting ripped off by gold diggers or even divorce and alimony.

#5. Jamal Marlow has no mentors

How else can we explain away the fact that no one was around to guide this man through the pitfalls that the rest of us onlookers can see so clearly in his failed attempt at establishing a polygamous marriage? Where are those same uncles of his who came to sanction this union? Either Jimal chooses to surround himself with clowns as all clowns do or he only wants yes men around him who can fondle his ego. What he really needs are men who have successfully established polygamous unions to guide him but instead, he has Instagram fans.

#6. Jimal Roho Safi is not seeking to improve as a man

If our boy were really seeking to improve as a man, his women would realize he is above their petty drama and actually try to give him peace because at any one point he would tire of the banalities of their fights and chase both women away and start again. Can you imagine a Jimal Roho Safi who is working to improve his mind, his body and his business? he would be the captain of his ship and his first mate and first officer would be trying to make things easy for him to steer the ship. Instead, we have a Jamal Marlow who…

#7. Involves himself in female fights

I do not understand why Jimal Roho Safi keeps involving himself in his women’s fights. He should be above the pettiness. Instead, he is on Instagram like a petty socialite showing the world how he lacks control over his domain.

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Amberay and Amira had a fight recently that was captured on candid camera and while I hate to be one of those people, I have to do it nonetheless and let you know that we were right about the type of venom the clown of a man, Jimal Roho Safi is for inviting this type of venom into his household.

Why men are offering Amberay money for her sister

You see, while what a man needs to establish a polygamous marriage is financial means -he has to be wealthy- not all men are capable of maintaining a polygamous household and we are seeing that now.

To be much, much more clear about things, what we are seeing is that Jamal Roho Safi is not the type of man who can sustain a polygamous marriage. And that also stems from the fact that he chose to wife up a trollop like Amberay.

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One has to wonder where his friends and mentors were when he started having delusions of grandeur regarding this socialite. Why didn’t they advise him to keep their affair strictly a secret?

Could it be as I had earlier postulated that the man is hard of hearing because of his financial clout? Or could it be that Amberay is just that good a siren and she lured him despite all the advice he was given? Or has he simply surrounded himself with “yes men”?

What we should learn from Jamal Roho Safi, Amberay and Amira

It is really fascinating to see how everything that can go wrong in a polygamous family is unfolding right in front of our eyes and we get the benefit of learning from a lesser man’s mistakes.

Amberay, on her part, as I had pointed out much earlier, is on her second polygamous union and even in the previous one, she was a very big part of why it did not last. She was married to a failed politician cum business tycoon, Zaheer Jhanda and while with him, she nearly razed his marriage to the ground.

Why Jamal Marlow aka Jimal Roho Safi decided to pursue her for marriage is beyond me. It is even more interesting to note that he has decided that defending this union against his former wife is the hill he is going to die on even though she has borne him heirs to the kingdom he is building while Amberay comes with her own son whom he shared little else in common other than her lady bits… He came out of them, and he, Jamal is ensnared by them.

A house divided: Amberay will destroy Jamal’s household

Things will only get worse because while Amberay is lying to low IQ women that she is the victim of Amira’s hostility, we evolved species can see that she is the literal cause of all the issues and drama in Jimal Roho Safi’s homestead and will continue to be a sore wound.

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Jamal Roho Safi, Amira and Amberay are playing out a very destructive scene. The trio is playing out their drama in such a toxic fashion, you cannot help but feel bad for all the children involved.

A house divided: Amberay will destroy Jamal’s household

But we aren’t here to commiserate with all the hurt hearts, we are here to see what we can learn from the matter. And the first thing we are going to look into is the fact that Jamal’s family ain’t shit if they haven’t yet stepped in to set him straight.

Where are these clowns families? Where are those uncles that Jamal Roho Safi introduced to his second wife? Where are his aunties? Or perhaps they are scared to say anything because he is the most financially successful member of the Marlow family.

Jamal Roho Safi shows us how not to start a polygamous marriage

But then we must also ask where his friends and mentors are. Does he have any or does he simply surround himself with yes-men? People who are mere cheerleaders and chorus dancers and it troubles me that this man has immersed himself in an echo chamber.

And then there is the manner in which he is handling the fights going on between Amberay and Amira. There is the fact that he has not built with Amberay. She came with what she had, she came as the socialite trollop she was. However, he has built with Amira. And his scarcity mentality does not allow him to simply put his foot down.

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This shows that he has no control over his household. he is not the man in his family. He might be high networth but he is not high value. that is why these two women are not under his control and guidance. they are busy destroying each other and him online and all he has the power to do is to hold his cojones and watch their drama unfold. He is limp.

As for Amira, we get it, she is fighting for her family. But sometimes it is easier to just remain silent and focus on the children than engage with a woman who knows what it means to be nasty. She needs to sober up and temper how she is responding to the provocation. She basically has to learn to shut up.

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What Amira thinks she is accomplishing by fighting for her family is actually counter to what she wants. let Jamal Marlow do his thing and you focus on building up a business. We have seen that he was the one who pursued Amberay which means she is a symptom of the problem and she needs to focus on the actual problem and keep their fights offline and in the confines of their bedroom.

As for Amberay, I have nothing to say to a trollop. Yes, you might have money but you can’t buy class. This is the second time you have been married as a second wife and you will eventually have to answer for the chaos you kick up. And trust me when I say your son will also introduce chaos to your life because all you have taught him is entropy.

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Amberay and Jamal Marlow or Jimal Roho Safi would be well advised to open their Bible’s and learn from the wisdom of Moses/ Musa because in his wisdom, he said in Exodus 21:10 If he marries another woman, he must not deprive the first one of her food, clothing and marital rights.”

Amberay is right, she is not your role model

I am ofcourse referring to the fact that Jimal Roho Safi is actually a man who was previously married to a lady by the name of Amira. According to their faith, Islam, he is allowed up to four wives but he has to get his first wife onboard for that to happen. And she claims he didn’t.

But Ozymandias, I hear you asking, doesn’t he still provide financially for his first wife and their children together? Well, that he most certainly does but the truth of the matter is that men do two things for a family and their wives: they provide and protect and he has failed in the latter function.

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Amberay has made that abundantly clear as she has gone out of her way to attack Amira and be both immature and catty. She is acting like she doesn’t understand why a married woman would react with hostility when her husband introduces a new wife to social media before he introduces the two of them to each other.

Add to this a more important fact: Amberay is the type of femme fatal to ruin marriages. She has done so before when her former husband, Zaheer Jhanda attempted to introduce her to his family as a second wife and she kept attacking his first wife. She has formed something of a habit of doing so.

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Jamal doesn’t seem to understand why it is important for him to actually have studied his new wife’s past. And that is why I say he has turned his castle into a house of cards when he invited her into his family.And it is she who will huff and puff and blow it all down.

Amberay is the type of woman many a man is warned about. She just needed to approach her new position as a co-wife with humility and some sense but she didn’t. She chose violence. And the truth is that Jamal seems to have backed the wrong horse. And unless he wakes up and smells the coffee, when his chips are finally down (and make no mistake, they will be sooner or later with Amberay being the cause), we would all forgive Amira for taking her pound of flesh and repeating this dreaded phrase,

Talaka. Talaka. Talaka.

Amberay’s hubby Jamal Roho Safi is proof not all men can handle polygamy

If this businessman has any mentors or friends he heeds, they need to tell him to step away from his social media and actually mend fences with his first wife who has been with him before he was anything or anyone of renown.

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