When a man tells you he is not ready to commit whether relationship or marriage wise – believe him! Men fear committing for a number of reasons we have explained below.
However it’s also good to remember if a man is not growing and working on his issues; chances are, he will continue making the same mistakes over and over again with woman after woman!
Below are just a few reasons why most men find it hard to settle down or rather committing.
Also read: Why most young men are dating and settling down with older women
Nagging girlfriends/wives
Okay yes, 99% of women are generally nagging and annoying. However if a man is indeed ready to settle down or commit, then he would quickly ignore this by learning how to live with it; however most men are not up for this.
Financially unstable
Most will not tell you that money is the reason they choose not to settle down; but for the wise ones, they see it’s better not to drag somebody else’s daughter into poverty by starting a family. At least with this, a man can weigh himself pocket wise and decide whether he can or cannot support himself and others.
Also read: Effects of dating a Mama’s boy that no one will tell you about!
Lack of maturity
Mamas boys will definitely have a hard time trying to settle down. This is because they already have a lifetime partner (mummy) who will easily provide and prefer everything for her dear son.
Loss of freedom
Also read; Why you keep dating the wrong partners
Settling down means quitting all the side pieces and sometimes it gets hard for a man to let all these go! For this reason most would rather stay wireless than have someone following up with them all the time.
Lack of direction
Just like the subheading, most men from this generation lack the sense of direction. Most who have aged and should already have families prefer roaming and jumping from one woman to another. Call it laziness or lack of direction but they all still sound the same.
