Sam West, a “relationship expert” whose own marriage to a single mother ironically failed, says, “Single mothers make the best wives. They are mature, responsible, and very experienced.”
Here are seven tips to keep in mind when dating a single mother:
The child comes first. You cannot date the mother without also being involved in the child’s life.
Build trust with her. Trust is earned, so be careful what you say and do.
Don’t give unsolicited parenting advice. Unless she asks for your advice, don’t tell her how to discipline her child. This is especially true if you’ve just started dating.
Be ready for commitment. Single mothers are not interested in playing games. They know what they want.
Don’t rush things. Even though she may seem open to it, take your time and make sure you’re both on the same page. If you rush things, one of you may feel pressured to stay in a relationship that’s not right for you.
The baby daddy will be in the picture. If the child’s father is involved in co-parenting, be prepared for him to be a part of your life. Be patient and understanding, and allow the child to have a relationship with their father.
Don’t assume you’re coming to rescue her. Just because she’s a single mother doesn’t mean she’s weak. Let her be herself and don’t try to control her.
Motivational speaker Sam West has advised Kenyans to practice celibacy, as it comes with many benefits, including peace, healing, and a closer connection to God.
West has been celibate for two years and says that it has helped him to heal from his past relationships and feel more connected to himself and his spiritual beliefs.
He believes that engaging in premarital sex can make people feel impure and create soul ties that can lead to emotional problems.
“Engaging in sex makes you feel impure. It also creates soul ties.
Your mind is never at peace, your emotions are affected and you end up becoming emotional for nothing.
Sometimes things happen to you and you cannot pinpoint why they are.”
The Bible says that intimacy is a spiritual mystery, hence sometimes things happen to us and we can’t explain them.”
West encourages Kenyans to consider celibacy as a way to improve their lives and relationship.
From Vivian’s side of things, she believed that certain fundamental aspects of their relationship required thorough exploration and understanding.
“I had informed him about my concerns after a friend dropped a hint, but I sensed that there were experiences we still needed to share and aspects of each other to discover. It’s crucial to be on the same page. I felt like there were so many things that we had not discussed,” she said.
Kenyan singer Vivianne has opened up about her tumultuous marriage with businessman and content creator Sam West in a recent interview.
Vivianne revealed that she had doubts and reservations about their whirlwind romance, and that she wasn’t adequately prepared for the institution of marriage when their relationship began. She stressed the importance of both partners being in harmony regarding the decision to settle down, and said that she had significant hesitations about taking that step, believing that there were essential aspects of their relationship that demanded exploration and understanding.
She also revealed that her hasty decision was partially fueled by societal expectations and pressure from close friends and family. She expressed regret for succumbing to these external influences rather than following her inner voice and instincts.
Vivianne went on to say that Sam eventually decided to end their relationship, acknowledging that she could not fulfill certain expectations he had. She said that she had stopped being his ideal woman, and that the biggest challenge is expecting someone to be something they are not.
The couple has been living separately for nearly two years now.
Vivianne’s interview has sparked a debate on social media, with some praising her for her courage in speaking out, while others criticizing her for airing her personal grievances in public.
Vasectomy is a controversial topic in Kenya, where having many children is often seen as a sign of virility and social status. However, with the rising cost of living, more and more men are considering vasectomy as a form of family planning.
Sam West is one man who is not interested in getting a vasectomy. In a recent interview with Mpasho, he said,
“I would never undergo a vasectomy. You might get to an age where God wants you to get another child, what would happen then?”
West’s comments reflect the traditional Kenyan view of vasectomy, which is often seen as a form of castration. However, there are many misconceptions about vasectomy, and it is important to remember that it is a safe and reversible procedure.
In addition to his views on vasectomy, West also spoke about blended families. He said that he and his ex-wife, Vivianne, were often pressured to have a child of their own, even though they both had children from previous relationships.
“People tend to think that when you bring another child he/she will bring unity to the relationship,” West said. “But the truth of the matter is that the union of a relationship depends on whether the couple wants to be together or not.”
West’s comments about blended families are a reminder that family is not always about blood relations. It is about the love and commitment between two people.
Whether or not you choose to have a vasectomy is a personal decision. However, it is important to be informed about the procedure and to weigh the risks and benefits before making a decision. If you are considering vasectomy, talk to your doctor to learn more.
Sam West, the ex-husband of singer Vivianne, has declined to discuss the reasons for their divorce with any media outlets. In a statement posted to his social media accounts, West said that he does not want to demean his ex-wife by discussing what went wrong in their marriage.
“I am receiving a lot of calls from media houses requesting for an interview to share my side of the story,” West wrote. “Let me make some things clear:
I never discuss my private life in public.
I will never disrespect people I have dated before by tarnishing their names in the media.
So just know you will never hear my side of the story in public.”
West’s decision to not discuss the reasons for his divorce is a rare one in the world of celebrity gossip. Most celebrities, when faced with a divorce, are quick to share their side of the story with the media in an attempt to control the narrative. However, West has chosen to take a different approach. He has decided to focus on his privacy and to protect the privacy of his ex-wife.
West’s decision is admirable. It is refreshing to see a celebrity who is willing to put the needs of his family ahead of his own need for attention. It is also a reminder that even celebrities are entitled to their privacy.
A day after bringing the internet to a standstill with a flashy ‘wedding’ ceremony, turns out that singer Vivianne and her husband Sam West’s marriage is going South.
Barely 4 years into marriage, the singer has come out to admit that things have not been easy and their union has since ‘taken a kick to the stomach’.
Quick flashback, Sam West and Vivianne’s engagement was one big event that at least 40M Kenyans got to witness through one of the country’s biggest TV shows.
Vivianne opens up on their rocky marriage
4 years later, today, the songbird, in a long post, opened up “today I want to be very candid.. nataka niongee wazi..”
Vivianne and Sam West not in good talking terms
“This post is for you, who understands that what society has labeled as marriage is one of the hardest things to exist in. We are two humans who have learnt the hard way,” she started off.
Admitting it has been a month since she posted her husband on her timeline because of marital wrangles.
Comedian Sam West
Believing it is time they spilled the truth to fans. Because social media’s illusion of a perfect marriage is not a reality.
Confessing that what has been looking like a perfect union on social media, has been dark and tough behind closed doors.
“Expectations and control took over our relationship,” she spilled.
Vivianne and Sam West not in good talking terms
“We are in a tough space. And to be honest we are hoping we will overcome the current challenge,” she painfully wrapped up.
From his end, Sam West cryptically penned: “Marriage is a product of God and when it mal-functions it should be taken to an authorized dealer.”
Both pleading with fans to remember them in their prayers. Well, there you have it.
Popular Kenyan songbird, Vivianne almost lost her cool after getting it rough from fans following her recent attack on TikTok sensation, Azziad Nasenya.
The babe was trying to promote her new track Simpo Simpo featuring Stivo Simple Boy, bashing Azziad for asking for payment just to promote her jam online.
Her unfiltered remarks on the 20-year old dancer received massive backlash from netizens who called out Vivianne for misusing talent in the name of ‘exposure’.
Internet sensation, Azziad Nasenya
Since then, the mother of one kept her timeline packed with motivational quotes and Bible verses; that hinted that not all was well in paradise.
Vivianne opens up
“Light up every room you walk into!” she recently urged her fans but yesterday, after much await, the musician revealed she had finally made peace with the fact that not everyone will be her friend.
Speaking during her photoshoot session in the gym, Vivianne wished all her ‘enemies’ well because she holds no grudge against them and it is only God’s will that she lets the past off her shoulders.
Her cryptic post seemed to point fingers at her recent clash with the public and individuals who disguised themselves to her as friends only to turn out as the contrary.
Vivianne’s beef with Azziad
Late August 2020, the Chum Chum singer clashed with Azziad after requesting her to promote her collabo with Stivo Simple Boy, only to ask to get paid to promote the song.
Vivianne who was not willing to deep into her pockets, instead went on InstaLive with Jamal Gaddafi to slam the Internet sensation for being too proud despite her young experience in the industry.
Singer Vivianne
Unfortunately, her blunt remarks did not sit well with netizens who instead defended Azziad and took on Vivianne for failing to know the ropes of marketing.
The CEO of Hero radio Sam West has opened up about his personal life; revealing that he lost his brother to depression a few years ago.
Sam West talks about his brother’s struggle with depression
Through his Instagram page the fella went on to share a well detailed post advising those who have been struggling with depression; but never get to talk about it. He went on to open up saying;
As someone who lost a brother through suicide I needed to weigh in and speak to someone who is contemplating on suicide at the moment.
According to Sam West so many people struggle on the low but never push themselves to committing suicide; because every situation in life is temporary no matter how painful it is!
Choose happiness! Sam West advises fans
No matter how much pain you’re experiencing right now, you’re not alone. Many of us have had suicidal thoughts at some point in our lives. Feeling suicidal is not a character defect, and it doesn’t mean that you are crazy, or weak, or flawed. It only means that you have more pain than you can cope with right now. But with time and support, you can overcome your problems and the pain and suicidal feelings will pass.
He went on to add;
Some of the finest, most admired, needed, and talented people have been where you are now. Many of us have thought about taking our own lives when we’ve felt overwhelmed by depression and devoid of all hope. But the pain of depression can be treated and hope can be renewed.
Sam West with his wife, Vivian
There is always a solution
In Sam’s post he makes it clear that a person has the power to choose or not choose what he wants to even when depressed. However death has never been an answer; therefore it is important to face whatever life throws at a person.
No matter what your situation, there are people who need you, places where you can make a difference, and experiences that can remind you that life is worth living. It takes real courage to face death and step back from the brink. You can use that courage to face life, to learn coping skills for overcoming depression, and for finding the strength to keep going.
He then concluded by reminding people that pain and unhappiness is part of life; but is always temporary!
Hero Radio CEO, Sam West
Although it might seem as if your pain and unhappiness will never end, it is important to realize that crises are usually temporary. Solutions are often found, feelings change, unexpected positive events occur. Remember: suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Give yourself the time necessary for things to change and the pain to subside.
Kindly share this widely, someone on your TL needs it.
Singer Vivian counts herself among the lucky women to have bagged herself a hardworking and supportive husband like Sam West.
Singer Vivian
So far the two have been together for years and after their traditional wedding; many men were left heartbroken since Vivian had chosen Sam West to be her better half for life! Well, even after years of living as man and wife Vivian can’t stop praising her man for everything he is and will be in the future.
Just recently the singer went on to share a new post where she wrote saying;
Vivian and Sam West
It’s better to have a partner than go it alone. Share the work. Share the wealth. And if one falls down, the other helps. But if there’s no one to help, tough! ➖Ecclesiastes 4:10Swipe for Sweetness ???? #vibes #newmusicsoon #mapenzibilamasharti
Mapenzi bila masharti
This post was shared just a few days ago before the release of her new song dubbed Mapenzi bila masharti which talks about unconditional love.
Singer Vivian
Since it’s not everyone who has had the chance of experiencing what true love is; singer Vivian has painted it in her song which will not only speak to couples but singles dreaming of the same type of love.
Hero Radio CEO who is also dating singer Vivian is back with season 2 of his Comedy show dubbed Sam West Comedy.
Sam West’s comedy show in Nakuru
He ventured into comedy back in 2018 and judging from his posts then, we can confirm that Sam West was ready to take over the comedy industry after years of Churchill running it!
So far we understand that has not only had a successful career as online influencer but also an entrepreneur with several businesses in the country.
Dominate Nakuru by Sam West
Sam West comedy back with a bang!
His first show went down in Nakuru earlier today and judging from the photos; we can confirm that he did had a successful start! About 700 people showed up for the event which was also graced by his wife, Vivian.
Fans show up in huge numbers for Sam West’s comedy
Among the invited guest is Titus Hug, an American who owns a big construction company called HUG CONSTRUCTION. He is also happens to fund over 100 university students in Kenya through campus; and is passionate in mentoring young people.
Titus Hug
Vivian’s music
Singer Viviane with hubby
The couple are known for their hustle hard motto and despite having 2 kids; they also find time to spend with their kids apart from focusing on their different careers.
Vivian on the other hand is also set torelease her first 2020 project dubbed Masharti as seen on her Instagram page. Well, with all the that talent, I bet the lady will not let her fans breathe with her upcoming projects that will blow many off their feet!
Singer Vivian and her husband Sam West finally got to open up about their relationship as a married couple almost one year since their tradition wedding which was held back in March, 2018.
Speaking to Betty Kyallo during her Up Close show, the Hero Radio CEO cum comedian and wife singer Vivian opened up about their family and some of the challenges they have been facing ever since their union.
Sam West and wife, Vivian
According to the couple, raising kids from their previous relationships has been one of the toughest things to do.
This is because their kids were used to different lives before — and now are forced to live under the roof as siblings making it hard to connect. Sam West went on to open up saying;
“One of the key things with blended families, you have to understand who you are. You are different species, it is not a normal family. Because one you are trying to connect with your partner as two individuals and now you also have other people as well. You have a child, she has a child and the two of them also have to integrate.”
Vivian speaks
Singer Vivian on the other hand went on to add that parenting someone else’s child is hard especially when it comes to disciplinary matters. The singer went on to say;
Singer Vivian
“We have different ways in which we were used in bringing up our children differently, so that is also an issue because maybe there is something he will see maybe me and Natalie and he will be like why don’t you try this and it’s easy to take offence with that. And maybe I will do the same with him and Ty and it’s a girl and a boy, so also their behaviours are completely different,”
The recent past weekend gave us a share of leaked conversations between Sam West and wifey, Vivian but Sam West´s advice to men is to lay low and trust your woman.
Contrary to Sam´s sentiments, the video went online come Monday and he actually appreciates the woman in his life, Vivian, as he surprisingly shares:
https://www.instagram.com/p/Bw1nmQdnlKS/
He does share a video clip of the new jam soon after its release and goes ahead to urge men in his position:
https://www.instagram.com/p/Bw6aDoQppyk/
A fan shares:
How I wish they understand this
However, another is still trying to come to terms with it all:
….hapo kwa winning arguments????????????????????
According to Sam West, women need to have their own spaces too.
When love is present, submission flows in therefore it would be a waste of time and resources to actually compel your woman to submission.
Seems it is a lesson he has learnt over time and emphasizes that a woman deserves her man´s attention, listening ear and presence as well as gifts.
Background check
It was saddening for Kenyans after female secular artist, Vivian leaked private conversations between her and hubby feeling she was going too far and acting immature.
The entire saga came as a result of the new jam ¨Cheza Chini¨ that features Naiboi, Savara [Sauti Sol] and Vivian.
Before it´s release this Monday, Sam West had requested that the video´s clip where Vivian and Naiboi were getting a little intimate, be rubbed off.
However, the group was left in shock and unable to determine the way forward on the same so Vivian felt the need to share the chat´s screenshots for fans´ views.
After the ¨Cheza Chini¨ video release, Sam deleted his online posts that might have left questions to many but made a comeback with wifey´s video link.
Feedback
This must have come as a shocker to many who actually might have expected to see Sam West bash Vivian for her so-called ¨immature¨ move.
However, it is all love and fans make fun:
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But hii ngoma b4 irileaziwe ilikuwa na beef mob btn viv n her????????????????????????
@thenaiboi tucheke ama tucheze chini????????????♥️♥️♥️
Wapi ile part ilikufanya utoke group?
Sam West´s move has actually had couple of fans appreciate the new jam:
I don’t know what’s worse between Vivian’s new collabo with Savara and Naiboi dubbed Cheza Chini or the terrible publicity stunt that she pulled on her fans days before she released the song.
Give me a chance to explain myself before you brand me a hater. You see, I am a huge fan of Vivian just like you. Without a doubt, she’s one of the most gifted female singers in Kenya. Her gift is her golden voice. She has this rare voice that is so sweet to the ears.
Perhaps this explains why she has a huge following. Well, she is also very beautiful. However, I feel like she is more known for her voice. Anyway, this is a story for another day. Isn’t it?
Vivian
The point is, Vivian is known for her vocal prowess. She also has a loyal legion of fans who are always looking forward to listing to her latest music. I occasionally see her songs on music TV shows which means she’s getting good airplay.
As such, I don’t understand why she had to do a publicity stunt days before releasing her collabo with Naiboi and Savara dubbed Cheza Chini. To make matters worse, the publicity stunt was so terrible.
On Friday last week, Vivian shared some screenshots of a WhatsApp group chat on her Facebook page and I believe that they were just stage managed just to hype the new song before it was released.
Apparently, Vivian’s husband, Sam West, was unhappy with how Naiboi was holding his partner in the video so much so that he asked them to re-edit the video before releasing it on April 29.
Sam West and Vivian
After all that drama, you would think that the song would be worth writing home about when it was finally released. It’s really not. It’s so lacklustre. Naiboi and Vivian’s parts just seem off. I was so disappointed when I first heard it.
However, Savara really did a good job on the hook. He almost saved this song. The hook, goes like “Cheza za chini usichome picha…kamejipa, cheza za chini usichome picha…kameshika.”
Savara
Be that as it may, the song has a decent beat. It was produced by the one and only Cedric Njega, alias Rixx, The video, which was directed by Sammy Dee, is also good. The transitioning from one scene to another is also good.
Incase you are wondering, Naiboi and Vivian are still seen getting close in the video. The 2 in 1 hitmaker occasionally holds her around the waist.
Singer Vivian, while speaking in an interview with Massawe Jappani, opened about one of her most embarrassing moments which happened while she was on stage.
According to the singer, she had to cut short her performance after her zipper bust open leaving little to imagination. Lucky, her fiance Sam West, came on stage and helped her out.
“I once had my zipper torn while performing and had to stop my performance and go make it. Sam came on stage and made it for me, a great challenge of managing female artiste. It was the most embarrassing thing on stage,” she said.
Wedding
Vivain also shared that they are currently planning a white wedding after their ruracio. The two had their ruracio ceremony early this year after Sam, who doubles up as Vivian’s manager, proposed to her last year during an interview on live TV.
“The wedding arrangements are in progress. It is easier to date him because he was and is still my manager and music is all about lifestyle. Your exposure is big and therefore you need someone close to you every time.” she said.
Regarding having kids, Vivian, who is a mother of one, said:
“I don’t know if I want to get babies but if they come, it is okay with me. Although it is not right to put pressure on getting a baby. You have to have embraced the decision of getting kids. When babies come, they come with a lot of responsibility, which every woman has to be ready to adapt to.” she said.
Vivian is lucky to be dating a comedian, Sam West has to make him laugh first before he goes out to crack jokes to the general public.
Sam West reveals that Vivian doesn’t just laugh to his jokes because they are dating. The comedian says it takes an international comedian to make Vivian to laugh, but he has somehow managed to make her laugh.
“She never laughs at dry jokes. She is very hard to crack. Anyone who can make her laugh is an International Comedian #Panari #SCE3,” wrote Sam West.
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Sam West’s ability to make Vivian laugh has inspired him to excel at his work of making people laugh. The comedian hosts his comedy show this coming Friday 17th August and he is confident the audience is gonna love every minute of the show.
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The comedian first launched his own eponymous comedy show on February 16th this year and it was a great success. Churchill Show’s MC Jessy, YY, Eddie Butita, JB Masanduku were among popular comedians who were in attendance at Sam West’s first comedy show.
Vivian’s fiancé Sam West finally launched his comedy show ‘The Sam West Comedy Show’ over the past weekend. Churchill Show comedians were among celebs who turned up for the new comedy show in town.
Sam West launched his eponymous comedy show at Kenya National Theatre last Friday night. At least 15 comedians performed on the The Sam West Comedy Show.
Star-studded affair
Churchill Show’s MC Jessy, YY, Eddie Butita, JB Masanduku were among popular comedians who were in attendance.
Nameless and his wife Wahu also turned up at the National Theatre for Sam West’s comedy show. The event was packed to capacity.
Sam West’s new comedy show is aimed at giving comedians a platform to launch their careers. Sam West, who is also a standup comedian, has lined up 15 humorists for the launch of his comedy show.
The Sam West Comedy Show will debut on Friday February 16th. Several comedians including former Hapa Kule news actor David Babu ‘Makulukulu’ is slated to perform at the Sam West Comedy Show which will be held at the Kenya National Theatre.
Sam West
Meet the comedians
Brian Onjoro
Brian Onjoro is a standup comedian, script writer and creative director. He got his break in comedy after winning ‘The Last Laugh’ comedy competition by KBC in 2014.
His style has been described as intellectual, edgy, urban and hilarious with some fans calling him the ‘third world Chris rock’ due to his skinny frame and his hard hitting style.
Brian is also the founder of Nairobi comedy club which provides a platform for new urban comedians in Nairobi. He is currently working on his next one man standup comedy show and documentary that he plans to tour around the world.
George Waweru:
George Waweru is a 26 year old Kenyan standup comic who got his break performing at a Talent Show dubbed Talanta Mtaani. George is known for his satirical twist on most issues and often does not mince his words on stage.
He specializes in observational humor, deadpan, self-deprecating humor among a majority of others. He is currently a member of the Nairobi Comedy Club that performs regularly at most urban Nairobi joints.
David Babu:
David Babu is a comedian, actor, creative content developer, film maker, corporate events mcee, YouTuber etc. David is currently hosting Comedy Arena, standup show on KBC which airs on Sundays.
His jokes entirely rotate on observational jokes, current trends, satire, culture, impressions/Impersonations, gender, social life, love etc.
MC Kogi:
MC Kogi aka Jamlick Kogi is a renowned MC, standup comedian and storyteller. He is an engaging corporate speaker and trainer.
He is the founder and CEO of Training, Coaching and Mentoring Africa (TCM Africa) that offers bespoke consultancy in capacity building and event planning. He is also a director at Keijei Entertainment and founder of Kogi Live show.
He has previously performed at Kenya Kona (2012), Laugh out loud-LOL (2012 on K24) and Sigana Moto Moto (QTV) shows.
Tom Daktari Comedian:
Andrew Wambua popularly known as Tom Daktari is a stand up comedian, professional actor and a script writer. He is currently a contestant in the Ultimate Comic Show which airs on Maisha magic East.
Tom Daktari formerly worked at KBC on the comedy show ‘Comedy Arena’.
Chief Okuzo:
Chief Okuzo is a stand up comedian, creative director and an actor who has been featured in several TV shows including Real House helps of Kawangware, Auntie Boss, Jameni etc.
Savior Comedian:
Saviour (Arnold Asamba) is a Law student at Mount Kenya University. He is a promising upcoming comedian who has created waves with his unique way of standup comedy. He is currently a comedian at Comedy Arena (KBC).
MC Abakramer:
MC Abakramer is a stand up comedian, actor, script writer, director and a journalist. His first appearance on TV dates back to 2015 when he started working on KTN’s Jameni.
His style of comedy is basically the fusion of circular and real life-related jokes.
Wifi Comedian:
His real name is Benard Mosoti – a Computer Science student at CUEA, an actor, poet and a professional stand-up comedian. He is also a content developer and Script writer. Comedy is his passion, WiFi comedian is currently featuring on KBC’s Comedy Arena.
Sammy Kioko Comedian:
Sammy Kioko is a standup comedian, MC, actor, creative writer, a teacher by profession and a commercial model who has been featured in TV adverts such as Chapa Dimba na Safaricom etc.
Sammy has also been part of comedy shows across the country and now currently on Maisha Magic’s Ultimate Comic as a contestant.
Lumumba Comedian:
Brayo Lumumba is a stand up comedian, actor, writer and a public relation practitioner by profession.
Nazz Comedian:
Nasra Yusuf Ahmed aka Nazz is an upcoming standup comedian, she is currently a contestant on Maisha Magic’s Ultimate Comic.
Beast SeS:
Ses is a comedian hype MC, an actor and a creative director. He has been featured on KBC’s Vioja Mahakamani and Comedy Arena.
Felix Omondi
Felix Omondi started out as a comedian on Jalango with the Money before he got other gigs like Comedy Arena on KBC.
Sam West is giving Churchill a run for his money. The Hero Radio CEO who is also dating singer Vivian has decided to reinvent his career in comedy.
Sam West has had a successful career as online influencer and entrepreneur. He has led online campaigns for renowned brands such as KQ and SportPesa.
He also founded Hero Radio five years ago when he was only 23. Sam West is now on a mission to put his name on comedy’s wall of fame.
Sam West Comedy Show
Sam West is a stand up comedian, he has featured in several shows in Kenya and amateur ones in Brisbane, Australia where he pursued a degree at Griffith University.
Vivian’s fiancé is now launching his own comedy show. The Sam West Comedy Show will debut on 16th February at Kenya National Theatre.
Sultry singer Vivian has finally opened up about her predicament dating an abusive man. She came up with her new song after healing from the toxic relationship.
For starters, Vivian is engaged to Hero Radio CEO Sam West who also doubles up as her manager. West proposed to Vivian on Citizen TV in March 2017.
Vivian and Sam West
Monster ex boyfriend
Before hooking up with Sam West, Vivian was dating a monster. The singer says her ex boyfriend used to abuse her in every sense of the word.
The ex boyfriend would beat her up when he brought other girls to the house. Vivian says her ex would also kick her out of his car and make fun of her music.
“I came up with the song #chingichanga after healing from a very toxic relationship. Before i met Sam West, I found myself in a very abusive relationship. The idiot would beat me up, throw me out of his house after bringing in other girls into the house. He once angrily kicked me out of his car and would make fun of my music as I had just began receiving attention from the public,” said Vivian in part.
The songstress also reveals that her ex would verbally abuse her, he used to call her derogatory names.
“He called me names like “slut” “lose” when i decided to move on and look for happiness. There are so many girls out there who aren’t being treated well by their men. There is hope. Fear to Faith. #chingichanga comes from the deepest part of me. The song drops this weekend.”
A few days ago the social media was awash with news that Hero Radio had shut down operations after a fake memo surfaced purporting that the popular radio station was letting go its entire work force.
“In every journey there must be stop overs. Unfortunately Hero radio has come to one. We have decided to break so many beautiful hearts who have worked tirelessly to ensure we remain afloat but the tide has proven to be stronger than us,” The fake memo read in part.
Hero Radio CEO Sam West dismissed the memo and explained that the popular Nakuru based radio station was only rebranding and had not sacked its employees.
Ghafla! has also learnt that Hero Radio has since started advertising job positions at the station. Sam West confirmed the station was in search of new talent to join the rebranded station.
“As part of our rebranding activities, Hero Radio is keen on improving its content and giving new opportunities to new budding talents. Are you confident enough that you can entertain the public with good vibes, great voice and content. Then we are looking for you.
Sam West and his fiancee singer Vivian
“A fresh breath of music. All we ever wanted is to remain true to our slogan. As we re-brand we fell that the only better way of doing this is to offer new opportunities to the youths of this country. Hero radio has therefore opened its doors once again to new talents. As the re-branding process which is in top gear takes over, we want to give our die hard listeners a fresh breath of music, new content, shows and events. We are a hype radio station and we will continue living to the real hype.
“Our hiring window will close on 23rd of August 2017 after which we will unveil the new face of hero radio. We promise to bring back the days radio was radio. We call upon all out followers, clients, partners and fans to get ready for an exciting new journey,” Sam West said.
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Last weekend, Singer Vivian was a guest on Citizen TV’s 10 over 10 show which is hosted by Joey Muthengi and Willis Raburu.
What transpired on 10 over 10 made mouths wag for days – Hero Radio CEO Sam West went down on his knees and popped the big question.
Before Sam asked Vivian for her hand in marriage, he had to go through a painstaking process of composing the most romantic words that he would bombard his sweetheart with on live TV.
“I knew Vivian for more than a year ago but I knew her before then. We have been working as a team and today I feel like there is something I should tell her. The girl in front of you is a queen and she needs a man who can build a palace for her. She is more than a queen, she’s an angel… she needs someone who can bring heaven for her. Today Vivian there is there one thing I want to tell you…I have a gift for you.” Sam West flirted with Vivian before he went down on his knees and proposed to her.
Sam West and Vivian
But the romantic words alone meant nothing without a ring – Some West had to put a ring on Vivian’s finger and this is where he part with enough money to buy a secondhand Probox.
Sam West had been planning to propose to Vivian for a long time, he however didn’t know how and when he could do it. Vivian’s interview on Citizen TV was eureka moment for Sam West who had already bought a ring.
The Hero Radio CEO spent a whopping $3,670 or Kes 378,927 to buy the ring that he put on Vivian’s finger when he proposed to her.
Watch the video below just in case you missed the moment Sam West proposed to Vivian:
