“Marriage is not an achievement” Maryaprude expresses regret for marrying ex husband at age 23 years

Is it just me or Willis Raburu’s ex wife, Maryaprude is still not yet over the Citizen TV news anchor? Okay….before anything else i would like you to note that its been almost 3 years since they parted ways and Maryaprude still hangs on to her pain or memories making it hard to get past her life with Raburu.

Maryaprude and Willis Raburu exchanging vows

Well, since you can’t teach the heart to unlove someoene – Maryaprude is making her feelings for Raburu so obvious thanks to her posts where she throws shade or shares her regrets. So far all i know is that she could be battling mixed feelings towards her ex and him also being the father of their late daughter – it must really pain her.

The lass proved this once again in a post shared on her Instagram but deteled after a while…and i am thinking – she must have really been botter about something hence her shaddy post. Incase you missed out on it, Maryaprude wrote;

Maryaprude weightloss after divorce

I woke up this morning with so much to do in my mind and I just remembered I got married at 23, yes yes! Mind-blowing ???? 23! Idk what the fuck i was thinking.

Regrets

Judging from her tone, seems like Maryaprude is blaming ex husband for dragging her life behind; as she says if not for the marriage she would have achieved so much by now.

Okay….maybe, maybe not. I mean many women have been in her position, others worse and still managed to pull through the difficulties because earth is hard. You either pull yourself out or drown yourself in a pity party.

Anyway expressing her regret, Prude went on to add;

I would be so far rn if I wasn’t busy serving society and other humans their expectations of me as a married woman coz I would be doing most of what I’m doing rn to catch up.

And lastly….

Alafu pia marriage isn’t an achievement ok bye…

Willis Raburu opens up about divorce from ex wife, MaryaPrude’s – says he tried everything to save marriage

Willis Raburu and ex wife Maryaprude are legally divorced after 2 years of marriage. Their divorce however came as a big surprise since it happened only a few months after Maryaprude gave birth to a still baby.

With the whole grieving process, looks like both Maryaprude and Willis lost the passion and love they had towards each other hence settling for divorce. The media personality confirmed this through a recent interview where he opened up about his divorce from Marya.

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tbt: Maryaprude and Willis Raburu

According to Raburu – divorce was the only solution to his marriage with Maryaprude. This is because before deciding to part ways, he tried talking, therapy, going to church but still it did not work. And for the sake of their mental health – divorce then became the last option.

Speaking during recent interview with a vernacular TV station Willis said;

It was very difficult because when you decide to settle on divorce, it means you have tried so many other things like talking, therapy, tried going to church…But when it reaches a point where all your misunderstandings are pointed towards hurting your partner then it’s better to just stay as friends.

Toxic relationship?

Although he did not make it obvious, something about Willis Raburu’s statement says his relationship with Maryaprude was slowly getting toxic. And being the man in the relationship – Willis was forced to bottle up emotions which later came out and as you can see – it didn’t end so well.

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Ex couple; Willis and Maryaprude

Bottling a lot of issues in marriage is not healthy. Men are told they need to be strong and not cry but in reality, I was sad and crying on the inside. When I left the house I used to cry as well.

Adding:

You can only be strong for so long as it is assumed men should be. But it reaches a point when you have had enough and can’t take it anymore. And when you reach the end, you start to be resentful towards your partner as they are towards you.

And if you thought divorce is an easy process where you pay up lawyers and let them handle the whole process on your behalf….guess what it’s actually a nightmare that Willis Raburu says he cannot wish on his worst enemy.

Divorce and child loss is something I wouldn’t wish even upon my worst enemy,

Maryaprude hints why marriage to Willis Raburu was extremely toxic

Maryaprude’s healing process seems to be slowing down; now that it is no secret that her ex husband already moved on so quickly.

Barely a year after they broke up – Willis seems to have forgotten what they shared and even has a child with new girlfriend; when Maryaprude who had been his wife for 2 years; has nothing to show from the relationship after losing her child during birth.

MaryaPrude flaunting baby bump

Well, it must be hard for the two of them but truth is, life has to move on with or without the pain; and hopefully this is something most fans are wishing on young Ms Prude who is still hurting.

Toxic relationship

For the first time in a while; Willis on Wednesday 18th shared a couple of videos having a good time with his new girlfriend; a move that seems to have triggered Maryaprude’s latest post.

Exes: Marya and Willis

From the videos, we observe Willis and Ivy Namu having the time of their lives while bowling; and although they are allowed to move on – the hard part is that Maryaprude on the other hand is yet accept the harsh reality.

Just to prove this, the lady shared a new post I believe explains her marriage to Willis Raburu. Her post read;

I remember when people used to gaslight me. I would;

  • Question my sanity
  • Apologize for things that weren’t my fault
  • Wonder if I got things mixed up
  • Blame myself
  • Trust others more than myself
  • pretend to agree
  • Force connection
  • Ask other people if I imagined things

And the last point which explains her current mental breakdown read;

  • Soothe the person who hurt me because they were mad that I was upset.

Clearly, Maryaprude is yet to accept that her relationship with Willis is over; and problem is, being bitter about it – won’t help her mental health either.

“You made my life special” Maryaprude changes tune after months of bashing ex husband, Willis Raburu

Maryaprude was definitely bitter about Willis Raburu and although we cannot put a finger on what led to the breakup; all we know is that Maryaprude has been playing victim since the break up.

Mary Ngami known as Marya Prude

So far she has not only hinted that ex husband Willis Raburu cheated on her; but has asked fans to stop linking her to the Citizen TV news anchor. And with such stunts we can only conclude that Willis played the wrong card with his 27 year old – now ex wife.

Anyway, thanks to her Christian traits it seems that Maryaprude is finally learning to forgive everyone that wronged her in the past. This was seen in a new post shared on her page saying;

I’ll never regret someone that I had an amazing time and experience with. Even if we fall off. You made my life special at a certain time. We grew grew together, even if we grew apart. Thank you.

Maryaprude

Finally Moving on?

This is a good sign coming from Maryaprude who was clearly bitter with ex husband, Willis Raburu; but now that she is letting go of the pain – means she is also moving on!

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Anyway, let’s hope these two will make peace in due time; but at least Maryaprude will not protect her ex husband – by not spilling more details about their her breakup.

 

 

Kwani Willis Raburu ulifanya nini? Maryaprude’s advice to young couples thirsting for marriage

I like to believe that marriage is beautiful. It’s like going to jail but with the perfect life partner who you wouldn’t mind spending each moment of your life with. However, MaryaPrude is starting to make many think otherwise – about this ‘marriage thing.’

Willis Raburu’s ex wife

So far she has admitted that Marriage is nothing but a scam; meaning she no longer believes the whole family concept teachings most women are taught while still young.

This comes after her failed marriage to Willis Raburu; but the only problem is that we do not know what really happened between these two. But judging from the posts shared by Maryaprude; it’s evident that Willis may have hurt the lady somehow. When asked by a fan why she did not fight for her marriage, Marya responded by saying;

No!!! Issa scam

MaryaPrude

Marriage advice

As seen on a new post shared on Maryaprude’s page, she talks about the importance of finding yourself; before deciding to share your forever with someone else.

Although the quote is from singer Beyonce, we have every reason to believe Maryaprude relates to it; hence the repost.

“Make sure you have you have your own life before becoming someone’s wife”

Maryaprude’s advice 

 

It is well! Willis Raburu’s ex wife unveils never seen before photo rocking her baby bump

On 31st Willis Raburu and ex wife, Maryaprude marked one year since they lost their daughter. And with such experience I can promise you that life has never been the same.

This is because the pain pushes the couple away from each other as they both mourn differently; and of course we can now see how things turned out between Willis Raburu and Prude.

Willis Raburu’s ex, Marya Prude looking brighter after nasty breakup

Although fans feel that there is more to the breakup; as for now all we do is assume that losing the baby affected their relationship forcing them to part ways.

Baby bump

Unlike most celebrities who like to parade their baby bumps on social media; Ms prude made sure to keep hers on the low until she was due.

Unfortunately for her and Willis things did not work out as planned since they had a still baby. Either way, this does not mean that Prude is not a mum…she is and so is her ex husband a dad.

Below is the beautiful photo shared by Prude as she marked one year since losing her baby girl.

Happy Birthday My Love ♥️

MaryaPrude flaunting baby bump