Anerlisa Muigai is not over Ben Pol and is doing the most to try and make it appear she is and that is precisely what tells her she is not over the man. Vicious cycle.
‘Real men don’t beg, they provide:’ Anerlisa Muigai hits back at ex husband with cryptic messages following exposè interview (Screenshots)
You see, when Ben Pol finally decided to file for divorce, we had already begun to notice that the marriage was in its death throes as the two were operating like single people.
What are some examples of what I am talking about? Well, Anerlisa Muigai was nowhere around when Ben Pol decided to convert to Islam. It was like he had made up his mind and she was an afterthought.
And similarly, he was nowhere around Anerlisa Muigai when she resumed her life in Nairobi, miles away from their hearth and home in Dar es Salaam.
And now she is busy sending herself flowers and love notes that are “anonymous” yet there is someone at hand to videotape the entire incident that was impromptu at her business meeting? Only a fool would believe that.
But the most telling thing is the fact that ever since Ben Pol rejected her and said he did not want to remain married to her (by initiating the divorce), she has been spewing alot of diatribe against her former beau.
It is clear that given her nonsense relationship background, one could bet the house that she had no business being in a marriage before she had undergone therapy. Add to this the fact that Anerlisa has engaged in a prolonged one-sided war of words and you understand that this entire fallout was simply path of the course for her.
She is hoping to hurt and humiliate a man who refused to talk about her after their divorce and only did so recently to clear the air after months of being painted like a leech and half a man. I find it hilarious that Anerlisa knew her man was from a poor background but it is only now that this has become an issue she wants to broadcast.
And then she has taken to referring to him as “not a man” which shows me a lack of clear thinking on her part -she was sleeping with a man she knew was “not a man” and even agreed to marry him yet she is now trying to shame him?
All of Anerlisa Muigai’s words tell more about her than they ever could about her former husband and the biggest thing they tell us is that she is not over the failure of her marriage and given the way both parties have conducted themselves post-divorce, she was the clear problem in the union.