“You will not heal by going back to what broke you” – Dabota Lawson

“You will not heal by going back to what broke you” – Dabota Lawson

Ex-beauty queen and beauty entrepreneur Dabota Lawson shared a message for the heartbroken yesterday the 14th of February. The valentine day is celebrated by lovers, friends, and families all over the world but especially dedicated to lovers. she wrote:

You will not heal by going back to what broke you . Don’t send that text and don’t make that call ,Love yourself and Ignore the pressure of today. Happy Valentine’s day

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Dabota Lawson Slams Men that Try to Impress her, Says her Baby Daddy Already Raised her Standards

Ex beauty queen, Dabota Lawson has lashed out at men that think they can impress her by showing off to her. According to her, her male friends have already spoiled her so much that she is no longer moved by such men.

Noting that her baby daddy spoils she and her child silly, she says the ones that want to drag her emotionally are worse. She is not in a rush for marriage, she says.

Dabota Lawson says her admirers should f**k off.

She wrote;

Dabota Lawson says it isn’t a crime to bring your problems to social media

Dabota Lawson says it isn’t a crime to bring your problems to social media

It can be recalled that Ex-beauty Queen Dabota Lawson said that her greatest regret is her marriage to billionaire ex-husband, Prince Sunny Aku. Now the actress stands in support of Ehi Ogbebor who called her husband an occultic beast. In response to Ehi’s critics and trolls, Dabota has shared this piece of advice. She wrote:

“People are saying “ DON’T BRING YOUR MATTER TO ?NSTAGRAM “ . Please go and sit down somewhere . Gone are the days where the media will give you a false identity and you can’t do anything about it .
If you’re hurt , in pain or going through hard times . SPEAK UP, PLEASE SHOUT LET THE WORLD HEAR !!! Don’t go and die for nothing in silence in the name of “ how will it look?” MY ANSWER: It will look how you want it to look or how ‘they’ want it to look if you don’t do something about it …. “
what will people say? “ MY ANSWER : ‘They ‘ will say whatever they want to say regardless, most times not in your favor, so say your own ,…. “ what about tomorrow “ , well honey ,tomorrow is Saturday.. It’s not easy to keep up with each and every person in our lives these days. The economy is tough , no one has time to be looking at your face wondering if you’re happy or not .
Truth is Some people just want to bask in the joy of bad news about you , sis let them know.
It’s unfortunate how even people close to you will never go and defend you publicly, they are seeing , reading , watching you go through it all, yet they do nothing. It’s strangers that will jump on your matter and fight for you publicly . So If you don’t stand for yourself who will ???”

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Ex beauty Queen Dabota Lawson regrets marrying billionaire Prince Sunny Aku

Ex-beauty Queen Dabota Lawson regrets marrying billionaire Prince Sunny Aku which she revealed in a new post on Instagram

One of many regrets that beauty Queen Dabota Lawson has is having married the businessman billionaire, Prince Sunny Aku. The marriage which was dissolved in 2015 happened in 2014 and the Dabota was the envy of her peers. Hardly, can one think that she would regret her actions which she revealed on Instagram.  She also advised people to be careful with their choices.

She wrote;

“This weekend I spent a lot of time thinking and talking about past events in my life . My friends kept saying Dabota everything happens for a reason and you are who you are today because of all that has happened. But I said to them and myself NO!! I’m not soooo thankful, I wish I made better decisions and was careful before getting involved with certain things and certain people . I wish I could see the future of how some of my poor decisions will stay hunting me , because they actually do ? Every time I win or do better it’s because I chose to and I took a right turn , not always because I’ve learned a lesson. The only thing I know is my mind and heart is just stronger, too strong for my own good, I’m almost not in touch with reality and strictly focused on pursuing goals and making sure everyone and everything around me is fine.

I miss being care free and the softness and innocence I used to have. I hate the fact that I have major trust issue and assume everyone has an ulterior motive around me . I mostly regret ever getting married in 2014 ( please keep all that lessons and whatever you think I got from it talk ) I hate the fact that I did !PERIOD!

The only I did right that keeps me going was making the decisions to go through with my pregnancy and have my child . My daughter is only thing I’ve done right in the world over 25 years of my life . That’s how I feel.
Be careful the decisions you make in life . This is a very stern warning , everything you do has a consequence that only you will experience in way only you can understand . BE VERY CAREFUL !
HAVE A GREAT WEEK !”

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It’s Okay to not Forgive a Cheating Partner- Dabota Lawson

Ex beauty queen, Dabota Lawson, has given some tips on how to get over a cheating partner. This was in a long note, posted on her Instagram page, to address the issue of cheating in relationships.

According to her, being cheated on is an awful feeling. The way one handles it, however, gives tone to a person’s recovery process. She therefore highlights some points to consider when one wants to get past a cheating episode.

Dabota Lawson explains how to get over a cheating partner.

The ex beauty queen however, noted that there are no right answers to questions, when a person’s partner cheats. It is okay to not forgive, she concluded.

Her words below;

Being cheated on is an awful feeling, but how you handle it can have a big part in your recovery process. Whether you try to rebuild the relationship or you decide to end things.

Here are some ways you can deal with the SITUATION;
1 Decide if you want to re-establish trust.

You may also need to ask yourself these questions • Is your partner truly sorry? • Has this sort of behavior happened before, or has he or she promised to not do it, and it has continued or gotten worse? • Is your partner willing to take steps to mend the relationship such as counseling. • Do you truly feel you want to trust this person again? There is no right or wrong answer for this. This is entirely up to the person who has been cheated on.

It’s also important to Understand the nature of your partner’s cheating. People cheat for many different reasons and it is not always about sex. Sometimes people cheat because they are seeking an emotional connection

Request that your partner cut off all communication with the third party.
If your partner is unwilling to cut off contact with the third party, it may be a sign that they are unwilling to stop cheating. In this case, you may not be able to repair the relationship.

Forgive on your own terms. Your partner may be extremely apologetic and desperate for you to say that you forgive them, right then and there. But true forgiveness and healing will likely take time.

Lastly , It is OK to not forgive. Cheating is a deep wound, and sometimes is fatal to a relationship. How did you deal with a cheating partner ?”.

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“Mind your Business”- Dabota Lawson Tells Troll who Accused her of Butt Enlargement

Ex beauty queen, Dabota Lawson, has had her own share of the recent trend of face offs between celebrities and social media followers.

This is coming after an opinionated follower insinuated that she had her butts enlarged. After showing off her butts in a picture, the follower felt they were a recent development. That isn’t the Dabota they knew, the follower insisted.

Dabota Lawson claps back at follower.

The follower also went further to state the part that annoys her about celebs that opt for butt enlargement. She doesn’t like that they deny it instead of being proud of it, she said.

Responding to the follower, the ex beauty queen asked the follower to mind her business. She however, added that she doesn’t owe her life to her followers.

Screenshot of the conversation below;

Dabota Lawson

These trolls need to chill sometimes.

Dabota Lawson may have to explain who the father of her daughter is

Do you think Sunny Aku is the father of Dabota Lawson’s daughter?

Ex beauty Queen Dabota Dabota Lawson will be getting a lot of attention as regarding her child’s paternity. Dabota Lawson won Miss Nigeria United Kingdom in 2010 and in 2016 she married billionaire Sunny Aku.

In 2016, the ex beauty Queen left the marriage, accusing Sunny Aku of infidelity. Some months later, Dabota Lawson revealed a new relationship and gave birth to a baby girl. But the ex beauty queen refused to share a picture of the child which she dedicates her time too.

On the 8th of October 2017, the beautiful mother celebrated her daughters birthday in a Moana themed party. she shared photos of the birthday but did not share any clear picture of her daughter. However, Linda Ikeji’s blog shared a picture of the child from a snap chat video of guest at the birthday party.

The shocking thing about the picture of Dabota’s daughter is the uncanny resemblance to her estranged husband Sunny Aku. The picture depicts a feminine image of Sunny Aku.

Who is Dabota Lawson

Who is Dabota Lawson

So is Sunny Aku, the father of  her child or this is just a kind of biological mistake.