As allegations and counter allegations continue to roll in on the events that led to the end of Tonto Dikeh’s Marriage continue to unfold, Olakunle Churchill has taken his time to speak up against allegations of domestic violence by his ex wife.
He did this in a response to a follower that asked why his ex wife had to mention his name his name in her rift with Azuka Ogujiuba, the Journalist who accused her of lying against her ex husband and why she is claiming that Churchill’s dad was Obasanjo’s gardener.
The conversation bellow…
”Why is this woman still there claiming what is not and trying to mislead people, if she has a problem with Azuka must she mention your name? She just be really pained, why is she also claiming your dad was Obasanjo’s gardener, is Jesus not the son of carpenter???’ The poster wrote.
Churchill however replied thus…
”I’ll take time out from my very busy schedule to address these lies quickly.
King’s mother had him through CS operation … it wasn’t a natural birth. Her healing process took 3 months and the doctor strongly advised against copulation for the said period.
We lived together for only six months and with 3 months without copulating a 4 months pregnancy that got terminated by domestic violence is an impossibility which clears me of the claims of being a murderer and causing her to lose the said pregnancy that was a figment of her imagination to make the false claims believable”.
Tonto Dikeh
”Secondly; the gold pedant she had on in the pictures showing her scars I bought from Switzerland and I handed that to her 1st December 2016.
Just 2 days after the incident at my mum’s house she held an event where she fixed roads for the disabled colony without make up and she had no facial scars; dec 22 2016 which backs up my claims that I never raised my hands to her through out all the damage she wrecked; also the last time I saw this woman was in December .Google is free and you can graciously use that medium to confirm that what i just said is the truth and nothing but the truth.
About being the son of a gardener; my mum’s pictures are on the internet,she had being living in the U.K before I was born. Does she look like a gardener’s wife?
So what if my father was a gardener? Which he apparently wasn’t, our Lord Jesus was born a carpenter’s son. Where you come from should never determine the limits to your greatness in life.
My father wasn’t a gardener; that’s very untrue
I never raised my hands against my ex wife.
She was the one who violently attacked me with knives and weapons at every altercation.
I am a man of few words and I do not my fight at all neither can I cause bodily harm to any human.
I was raised better than that.
Scornful people will stop at nothing to taint people’s image but it is God’s work to vindicate a man.
People need to stop getting bamboozled by lies they read on social media; any one can lie about sensitive matters to get public sympathy but it takes real eyes to recognize real lies.
When things don’t add up from too many lies a person tells just to sound believable because they are aware they have become a persona non grata on the internet and a laughing stock in the society at large. 6 months of marriage is too short for all these testimonies and claims.
As for domestic violent there should be at least witnesses, her younger sister stayed with us and nanny, where is the doctor that treated her?
Does that she look like the kind of woman that you can beat and go to sleep, she will stab you before the next morning, and she doesn’t joke with evidences, if she doesn’t have one she rather sends you a false text message that you won’t understand as evidences without your replies, then she posts up.
The most painful part of all this is that I was warned by everyone not to get involved with her and look at what I get for giving her benefit of doubt.
The only good thing that came out of that relationship was my King so I just take it all as one of those things that life throws at you”.
In December 2016, Mumma Gee’s husband of six years spoke out on how the singer abandoned their three months old baby ”and ran off to Abuja with God knows who”.
He wrote…
Well, Mumma Gee has finally spoken up to give her own side of the story in an exclusive interview with Punch News. She said she was a dedicated housewife for six years and she suffered violence during this period. “For me to have taken a break (from entertainment) for six years, that’s enough to tell anyone I was really dedicated. I gave the marriage all my life, all my time, but if the persons involved are restless a bit, you can’t be in control,” she said.
“It is exactly one year ago that I separated from my ex- husband. But then, he gave the impression that the issue happened in December 2016. I put in my best as an African woman to ensure the marriage lasted. Because of his antecedent, I had almost called off my wedding. I had already done the traditional marriage. The sign that I saw then would have made me to call it off. I didn’t go ahead to do a court wedding after the church wedding. This is just the singular reason.
I saw what was coming. But I tried for six years to make it work. I gave up my career; I gave up all I had built over the years to become a full time housewife. It is enough sacrifice for somebody to say thank you. If I weren’t a good, submissive housewife, you would have long heard the story. It’s quite unfortunate that he decided to carry out a campaign of calumny against such a person that gave up her career just to build a home with him in the sight of man and God. If knees could peel based on prayers, mine would have had sores because I prayed ceaselessly for my marriage to work. I thank God I am not barren. God gave me three kids,” she added.
On allegations of abandoning her newly born baby to Abuja, Mumma Gee said she had to fend for herself and her children as her husband was no longer providing for the family. She said she left the baby with her mum who was with them at the time and at the time she returned from her one day trip, her husband had already left which wasn’t the first time they will be leaving them.
The singer spoke of all the atrocities her husband had committed in their marriage and how she held on and kept taking him back whenever he came back because she wanted to keep her marriage. She said the actor proposed to different women while they were still still married and that he slept with upcoming actresses in Nollywood. The last straw that broke the camel’s back was when he beat her and held her neck. She said “I would have still forgiven him as I always forgave him each time he walked out of the marriage and came back after a couple of months. But this last time, he held my neck tightly and said he was going to kill me. I was holding my two-month-old baby. He gave me a dirty slap and the baby was thrown out of my hand and the baby’s head hit the bed. It wasn’t the first time he would grab my neck and torment me.
He had beaten me a couple of times. But the last beating came with, ‘you are finished!’ he said he was done with me…I loaned him N500, 000 and when trouble started and I needed money to feed the kids, I asked him for the money. That was when he beat me, held my neck and said he was going to kill me and that I was finished. When he released me, I told him he was not God and that I was not finished. He packed out of the house and checked into a hotel.”.
Muma Gee said she had no regrets in putting her carrier on hold, adding that she wanted to shut down her old brand and build a new one, a plan she says she’s currently executing.
In an interview with Okey Bakassi on Channel TV’s The Other Side, Monalisa Chinda shared her thought on domestic violence.
The actress advised women to quit provoking their men into punches and slaps.
In her words, ”what I’m saying is that, much as I don’t like, most of us don’t like domestic violence, women should quit provoking their men into punches and slaps and all kinds of things… I always research when stories when fresh stories come up, I always dig in to see what and half the time, it’s always the women. You know, our mouth, God just gave us this very running Okra mouth, we talk a lot… women, don’t fight with people who are stronger than you”.
The Rivers State born actress has always voiced out to speak against domestic violence having suffered violence herself in the hands of her ex-husband whom she had said in the past treated her with disgust.
she said actresses don’t talk about their sexual harassment experiences over fear of stigmatization. “They keep quiet about it because of their careers. Apart from that, the society stigmatises these women. So you just swallow your pride. When you are outside the shores of Africa, women are heroes for coming out to speak about sexual abuse, but not here.” she added.
The actress noted that she does not like to talk about her experience concerning Domestic Violence.
The Other News, a satirical show hosted by comic-actor Okey Bakassi on Channels TV.
