21 things men should avoid on a date according to Joro Olumofin

21 things men should avoid on a date according to Joro Olumofin

Joro Olumofin gives this nugget to men.

1 Men shouldn’t look at their phones more than the Lady while on a date
2 Dont Talk about your Bank account or how much your father has ; this puts ladies off (Bragging)
3 Smelling Bad ( Mouth or Body Odour is a No. No)
4 Don’t ask ” are you a virgin?” 5? Don’t ask her how many guys she’s been with ( Body Count)
6 If she’s going to pay for the movie or dinner let her know in advance ( no unexpected ATM failures, I forgot my wallet at home)
7 When your phone rings on a date and you’re asked where you are? Don’t give a degrading response eg ( I dey with that big ass babe, I dey with tolu big Breasts, I dey with that weekend chops I teh u about”
8 Don’t insist on a “come to my house first date” or come to my friends house first date
9 Don’t leave your date to talk to another Lady for more that 2 minutes
10 Don’t buy her too many gifts she may think ure trying to “buy” her
11 If for any reason someone else needs to be in the car, don’t put her in the back seat
12 Don’t compare her to your Ex
13 Don’t talk about her weight or hair in a negative way eg ( some guys may say : ure about to burst out of that dress, your hair should be due by now ?)

14 After the first sex always call as a courtesy (whether the sex was good or bad)
15 Table manners ( don’t make sounds with ur mouth while eating, don’t talk while there’s food in your mouth, don’t use fork & knife for icecream)
16 Focus your eyes on her eyes not her breast or ass. ( don’t look at any other lady asides her on a date)
17 Projecting yourself as someone youre not (Ladies can spot fake confidence, or a fake in general) Don’t borrow ur friends car and say it’s yours, don’t lie your friend’s apartment is yours)
18 Don’t be too touchy & feely on a first date
19 Don’t be rude or nasty to the waiter or waitress to impress your date
20 Don’t ask her for money
21 Don’t ask for pictures unless she offers

ALSO, READ: “I was rejected from birth by my father” – Chika Ike

Ladies Should Ask for 500k, Land, Instead of iPhone- Joro Olumofin

Joro Olumofin disapproves of ladies who ask for money for petty things.

Relationship expert, Joro Olumofin, has again taken to social media to speak against women who demand stuffs from their men. According to him, he is disappointed in ladies who ask their men  for iPhone, hairnet and stuffs.

Even though he disapproves of demanding money from guys, it is better to ask for valuable things, he said. He therefore concludes that it is better to ask with a purpose.

He wrote;

I don’t approve of Ladies asking Guys for money. I believe men and women are equal, feminists even advocate equality between sexes but I’m very disappointed at the requests a lot of ladies make on their Boyfriends or Suitors. Most ladies make requests of items that won’t change their status quo or current state permanently.
For example (1) Hair (2) Iphone (3) Dubai Ticket (4) Makeup kit (5) N50,000 / $200 (6) Hair Net (7) Underwear
These items won’t change your life or make you reach your Self Actualized State.
Please ladies from now on, if you’re the TYPE to ask guys for Things.
Please ask for (1)Land (2) 500k Loan (3) Employment (4) School Fees
(5) Business Capital or Partnership
Ask with a purpose if you’re going to ask for anything at all, don’t ask to remain the same, ask to change.

Relationship expert, Joro Olumofin says ladies should have a backup boyfriend

Relationship expert, Joro Olumofin says ladies should have a backup boyfriend

Heartbreak, depression and women are words that seems to go together in our world. Relationship expert Joro Olumofin has advised women to have a back up plan in the case of heartbreak and depression.  Read his message below to know if you agree with him.

“With the level of heartbreak and depression amongst ladies who just got out of relationships, I believe it’s time for ladies to have a “CONTINGENCY BOYFRIEND” ; a backup boyfriend. Who is a contingency boyfriend? A contingency boyfriend is a guy who fits all your criteria of a husband material but is your platonic friend ( no sex involved). You talk to him often, you hang out with him and involve him in your daily activities, he’s aware of your boyfriend.

A lot of ladies are facing emotional hardships in their breakup and being rebounded by at least 5 Guys risking high body counts till they find another boyfriend. I strongly suggest that every lady in a relationship should have a backup boyfriend who she can marry 6 months after her breakup in other to avoid Depression and the rebound / waiting syndrome. #ThinkLikeAMan 90% of men have Contingency Girlfriends. That’s why after a breakup men get married 3 months later.'”

Also Read: Toke Makinwa has a strong message for ladies.

“The Value of Men have Gone Up Because a Lot of Ladies Attach Marriage to their Success”- Joro Olumofin

Joro Olumofin says men now manipulate women with M&R.

Popular relationship blogger, Joro Olumofin, has again touched on the pertinent issue of marriage and the way women carry themselves to this regards.

The blogger, while advising women on this, states that men now control women using Marriage and Ring (M&R). He stated that men are now aware of the fact that women need them to make them feel accomplished.

Things have changed, the Value of men has gone up. This is only because a lot of ladies have attached marriage to their success and happiness in Life.
Men are now fully aware that most ladies need them to feel accomplished. A lot of ladies have their fixed wedding dates & Aso ebi colors without boyfriends.
Men now use the M $ R words (Marriage & Ring) to manipulate and control women into sex and making downgrading compromises.
Ladies, Dictate the terms of your happiness, don’t lose focus when you hear the word Marriage.

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Don’t Think of Marriage if you Earn Less than 150K Monthly- Joro Olumofin Cautions Ladies

Joro Olumofin shares tips to successful marriage.

Nigeria’s popular love doctor, Joro Olumofin has advised ladies to focus more on being financially stable before venturing into marriage. This, according to him is for the security of ladies.

This message, he said, is prompted by the tons of messages and complaints he receives daily. Marriage, he said is not a way out of responsibilities.

His post below;

If you’re a single lady and you’re not earning at least N150,000 a month you shouldn’t be thinking about marriage yet. This is for your own security & sanity in marriage. Based on hundreds of mails I receive daily from posters. I’ve noticed a trend in behavior : Commitment before finances. Most ladies go into marriage with the hopes that the man will take care of everything . Some even see marriage as their way out of responsibilities such as paying bills, etc. A lot of married women are unhappy in their homes but can’t leave because they are not independent, some don’t even have transport money to go back to their parents house. Secure the bag first?”

Joro is a relationship blogger and psychiatrist, whose focuses on resolving relationship issues, via his social media platform.

“Give your woman oral sex 9 times a week” Joro Olumofin on how to keep a woman

Joro Olumofin explains how you can keep a woman

Relationship expert, Joro Olumofin has come again with tips on how men can keep women. Here are his most recent nuggets:

”Researching this Topic: 3 ways to keep your woman Happy.
– Give her Oral Sex 9 times a week
– Listen to her like a sermon – Give her money
Most importantly give her Head 9 times a week, you have 6 days of her period to rest but continue 2/3 days after her Period.
You will have a Happy Faithful partner. Thank me later”

Read why Yomi Fabiyi advised people to avodi getting married here

How to Determine if your Girl is Wife Material: “Wake her Up by 3A.M to Make Eba and Okra Soup”- Joro Olumofin

Joro Olumofin has once again suggested yardsticks for measuring wife material.

Love doctor, Joro Olumofin is known for giving relationship advice and counseling. In recent times, Joro has taken to giving lists on issues concerning making a choice of a life partner. This lists often give suggestions on what to look out for in a man or woman before choosing to spend forever with him/her.

Today, the love doctor has come up with a list on how to test if a woman is a wife material. This list will certainly get you cracked up.

According to Joro, here are the things to look out for in a woman to know if she is a wife material.

Dear Eligible Bachelors in Nigeria , any lady who doesn’t pass at least 15 out of these tests is not a wife material. This article is inspired by a conversation I had with a couple of friends at a resort over the weekend. We realized that unlike our parents times it’s very hard to identify the ONE because of social media, wedding pressures, most girls looking like barbies. Are there still loving traditional supportive women out there ?
Here are a few tests you can run on a prospective wife or lover

Joro
1️⃣ Ask her on a date using Keke Marwa, BRT or danfo Bus even if you have a car
2️⃣Tell her to go Natural. No makeup, weave-on or attachments
3️⃣Say you forgot your wallet on a date and see how she reacts
4️⃣Tell her you lost your job or you want to pursue your dreams OR you’re quitting your job to be a DJ or barber
5️⃣Wake her up 3am in the morning to make you Eba and Okro soup
6️⃣Tell her you’re celibate and you don’t want sex till marriage
7️⃣Tell her you want to resign your job to be a worker in the house of God with little income.
8️⃣Get her all dressed up and take her to a fast food joint.
9⃣If you have a beard, shave it all up ?Tell her to courtesy by kneeling while serving you food
1️⃣1️⃣ Propose without a ring
1️⃣2️⃣ Tell her your mother and 2 siblings are moving in with you after marriage
1️⃣3️⃣Tell her she must attend mid week service and join the choir mistress gild
1️⃣4️⃣ Tell her you’re going country, leaving the city and moving to Iyana Iba or mowe ibafo
1️⃣5️⃣ Tell her to add your mom , dad and all siblings on social media and bbm
1️⃣6️⃣ Only on April fools tell her you got a University girl pregnant. Only on Aprils Fool Day.
1️⃣7️⃣ Tell her you’re going for a course and she should wait for you. be it ( Msc , MBA, Phd )
1️⃣8️⃣ Tell her your mother will be cooking for you
1️⃣9️⃣ Tell her she can’t watch Zee world or Telemundo anymore.
2️⃣0️⃣ Tell her no makeup artist, professional photographer for your wedding that you’re saving up.
Fellas, trust me. try this. You will thank me later. Watch her facial Expressions and body language you will get the true “ID” persona / archetypes of your partner.

How many people agree with him on this one?

Do Guys Really Prefer Runs Girls to Decent Girls?

Relationship expert Joro Olumofin yesterday sparked an argument when he made a post to state why runs girls always mend up with the good guys.

in his post, Joro stated that runs girls/retired runs girls sadly, always end up with the good guys and eligible bachelors while the good girls wait in vain for average guys.

According to the love doctor, his survey and direct observations from the countless mails he receives daily reveals that ”most men fall for runs girls and girls who have runs girl mindset”.

He took a step further to de3scribe a runs girl as any girl who uses her beauty as a bait to get money from men who most times are older. He described this practice as a more flamboyant way of prostitution, these type of girls are classy and educated prostitutes.

The reason why a successful-eligible bachelor goes for a girl with runs tendencies according to Joro is the fact that a runs girl knows very well what a man wants and how to please him. ”Her body and mind is a moving encyclopedia filled with ways to please a man” he wrote.

A decent girl on the other hand is too busy developing herself mentally and occupationally to allow herself to be occupied with thoughts of how to please a man, instead, she is looking for a man to please her emotionally and romantically, she needs him to be a companion and meet her halfway but men find this this too taxing to keep up with. He added that a decent girl is hard to keep up with as she sets so many terms and conditions fora man to meet and does not have time to treat a man like a king and feed his ego because she knows she is a queen thus she carries herself like one.

A runs girl is free for all, she allows men to run wild and free and does not set any rules as long as she is getting paid and e3njoying all the luxuries that comes with it. A man that has had so many girls cheaply ”will never have the patience to go through the terms and conditions of a decent girl”.

Big Question: do eligible bachelors actually prefer runs girls or would you rather go for a runs girl/retired runs girl instead of a decent girl?

 

 

Source: Joro’s Blog