A lady advised women should not lose their husband because of a boyfriend. She shared the story of how she married her husband just 2 months after they met. She had been in a long term relationship with someone else which didn’t to marriage
Read her post below:
Couple identified as Mr Monday Itoro and his wife Idoroyen are currently battling the paternity of their kids at the Police station. According to reports, the wife claims that their twins belongs to her lover and wants to return them to him. The embattled Monday has refuse to let go of the kids as he insists that the are his.
Sources gathered that the issue started after a yet to be identified male decided to lay claims on the kids. He was said to have threatened to expose Idoroyen if she doesn’t comply with his demands. He will tell her husband how they’ve been meeting secretly even after marriage he said.
According to a police source from the Ejigbo Police Station, Lagos State Command, Idoroyen told her husband the truth during a domestic quarrel. Stunned by the revelation, Monday contacted the police, urging them to arrest the man whom he said, wants to destroy his home.
The police swung into action but the lover escaped before they could get to him. This however angered the wife as she demands that her husband moves out of the house. She insists that the babies are for her lover and she would want him to move into their apartment.
He wrote…
Well, Mumma Gee has finally spoken up to give her own side of the story in an exclusive interview with Punch News. She said she was a dedicated housewife for six years and she suffered violence during this period. “For me to have taken a break (from entertainment) for six years, that’s enough to tell anyone I was really dedicated. I gave the marriage all my life, all my time, but if the persons involved are restless a bit, you can’t be in control,” she said.
“It is exactly one year ago that I separated from my ex- husband. But then, he gave the impression that the issue happened in December 2016. I put in my best as an African woman to ensure the marriage lasted. Because of his antecedent, I had almost called off my wedding. I had already done the traditional marriage. The sign that I saw then would have made me to call it off. I didn’t go ahead to do a court wedding after the church wedding. This is just the singular reason.
I saw what was coming. But I tried for six years to make it work. I gave up my career; I gave up all I had built over the years to become a full time housewife. It is enough sacrifice for somebody to say thank you. If I weren’t a good, submissive housewife, you would have long heard the story. It’s quite unfortunate that he decided to carry out a campaign of calumny against such a person that gave up her career just to build a home with him in the sight of man and God. If knees could peel based on prayers, mine would have had sores because I prayed ceaselessly for my marriage to work. I thank God I am not barren. God gave me three kids,” she added.
On allegations of abandoning her newly born baby to Abuja, Mumma Gee said she had to fend for herself and her children as her husband was no longer providing for the family. She said she left the baby with her mum who was with them at the time and at the time she returned from her one day trip, her husband had already left which wasn’t the first time they will be leaving them.
The singer spoke of all the atrocities her husband had committed in their marriage and how she held on and kept taking him back whenever he came back because she wanted to keep her marriage. She said the actor proposed to different women while they were still still married and that he slept with upcoming actresses in Nollywood. The last straw that broke the camel’s back was when he beat her and held her neck. She said “I would have still forgiven him as I always forgave him each time he walked out of the marriage and came back after a couple of months. But this last time, he held my neck tightly and said he was going to kill me. I was holding my two-month-old baby. He gave me a dirty slap and the baby was thrown out of my hand and the baby’s head hit the bed. It wasn’t the first time he would grab my neck and torment me.
He had beaten me a couple of times. But the last beating came with, ‘you are finished!’ he said he was done with me…I loaned him N500, 000 and when trouble started and I needed money to feed the kids, I asked him for the money. That was when he beat me, held my neck and said he was going to kill me and that I was finished. When he released me, I told him he was not God and that I was not finished. He packed out of the house and checked into a hotel.”.
Muma Gee said she had no regrets in putting her carrier on hold, adding that she wanted to shut down her old brand and build a new one, a plan she says she’s currently executing.
Source: Punch
Yesterday, 14th of September 2017 had Tonto Dikeh talking about raising her child without both parents rather than have him (King) raised in a violent home because a violent environment damages a child.
Today, Rosaline whom Tonto had claimed to be the other woman in her marriage in the middle of the crises between the actress and her estranged husband Oladunni Churchill but Miss Muerer debunked this claim in an interview with Media Hub stating that she sees him as her mentor and someone with a good heart.
The controversial actress (Muerer) however, today, in a series of posts on Snapchat gave a few words of advice on marriage…
Muerer’s Snap
Excepts from her snaps bellow…
”It’s a bond yo! An agreement with yourselves and God. Yes there are ups and downs and it’s not always all that rosy but hey we are born in a time where if something is broken we just throw it away! Why not try IF SOMETHING IS BROKEN, FIX IT!
There is no guarantee that your next catch will be any better. Embrace and keep in mind all the good sides of someone and work on how to deal with the bad sides. Your next partners bad side might be even worst. No one is perfect.
“I’m 25 years old. Never been married but hey it’s quite logical. Your marriage doesn’t have anything to do with anyone else but you and your partner. Y’all were made and item. Deal with whatever situation y’all going through and look at it as a phase.
Nawa o. All this marriage matter is so cliche. it’s not that serious oh. It’s something that just flows and happens. It’s not a do Or die thing. These days marriage has been made to look so scary. People are still happily married with zero worries”.
I guess we should just sit back and enjoy the new wave of celebrity advice.
Source: Pulse.ng
