“Not everything our parents teach us is right” – Sonia Ogbonna

“Not everything our parents teach us is right” – Sonia Ogbonna

Sonia Ogbonna has served another of her motivational talks on Instagram and this one is about re-learning somethings our parents taught us.  To her, parents are only humans and they can’t teach what they don’t know or have ever experienced.

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Sonia Ogbonna gives more of her feminists opinions

Sonia Ogbonna gives more of her feminists opinions

Sonia Ogbonna shared more of her feminists’ opinion in her recent Instagram post.

She wrote:

”Jokers. Lol but y’all dont wanna talk about you NEEDING a woman to step up and take a part of “MALE RESPONSIBILITIES” and participate in hustle EQUALY (if not even more) as men do {cuz nowadays one person making bread can’t feed/sustain the whole family most of the time -meaning men partly failed in fulfilling their fundamental duty-sorry*notSorry fact only } or cuz you don’t want a babe who “just sits her ass at home and does nothing”(besides cooking,cleaning,raising kids,taking care of the whole home including you and maybe your parents too)yuck unattractive .

You want her to hold you down when times get hard but she must do it with her head down & she can’t just have a mind on her own when it comes to making decisions as she must “submit to u and show respect” so someone won’t feel a less of a man. But then,still expect her to carry on with ALL THE DOMESTIC & NON DOMESTIC DUTIES the very same way your great grandmother from the village did.  Oh wow! Otherwise we judge- is she really a “wife material” ? Bye! I’m not a bitter lady and I love and respect men (I’m raising one duhh) but don’t ever neglect the fact that A LOT is expected from a woman in this 21st century (it’s not even realistic) and very little credit is given in return, (just childbirth & pregnancy alone-is it beans?lol) and then ,when we stand for ourselves- “feminists this ,feminists that”. We are indeed super humans. And im so sad when I see a fellow woman who is not aware how important is for us to support each other. And let me tell you straight up- I dont care how much money u make and how independent you are sis, or how strong you are to stand for yourself-you still deserve to be SPOILED and treated like a lady,a Queen that you are by any man who wants to tap into you blessings ,time and space.. Argue with ya whaaaat? ?you already know? All Love ?

 

IK Ogbonna’s Wife Asks that People Mind their Business, Amidst Breakup Rumours

Following rumours and speculations that everything isn’t well with her marriage, actor, IK Ogbonna’s wife, Sonia Ogbonna, has taken to Instagram to make an attempt at shutting people up.

According to her, it is better for people to mind their businesses. She however, advises that they should,’t exhaust their data on blogs.

IK Ogbonna’s wife says there’s nothing classier than facing one’s business.

According to the Colombian beauty, it is better for people to face reality and their lives. This, she say is better than the imaginary worlds that people have created for themselves.

She knows this because she has experienced it, she said.

Don’t allow ur data finish on blogs. There is something waaay better then imaginary world u created for yourselves, its called “real life” and something called “your life” and facing it can be super fun and exciting.

Trust me, I talk from experience ? I’m really not bothered, if u like continue making order people’s life a priority, but remember nothing is more classy then minding ya own business.’

The mother of one is currently taking some time out, away from her husband, in France.

IK Ogbonna’s Wife Seemingly Confirms Breakup by Flaunting Ringless Finger

Nollywood actor, Ik Ogbonna’s wife, Sonia Ogbonna, has been in the news lately, for issues bordering around the fact their all isn’t well with their marriage.

It all started when a video of the mother of one rocking a guy that is not IK, on the dance floor. The speculations however, heightened when she went ahead to remove the actor’s last name from all her social media handles.

IK Ogbonna’s wife post picture of her ringless finger.

It seems like Sonia is determined to tell the world that she is done with her marriage to the actor. In what seems like another hint, she has taken to her Instastory to share a picture of her finger without  a ring.

IK on his own part, has however remained silent about these speculations.

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Actor IK Ogbonna’s wife, Sonia has dropped his last name on social media

Actor IK Ogbonna’s wife, Sonia has dropped his last name on social media

Whatever might be happening is yet unknown, but IK Ogbonna’s wife, Sonia has dropped his last name on all her social media accounts. Although they still follow each other, the name has gone from Sonia Ogbonna Morales to Sonia LaReina. Sometimes ago, Sonia who is a life coach posted about overcoming some difficulties in her marriage. She was also happy that the marriage problems didn’t lead to divorce.

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“Not every relationship must lead to marriage” Sonia Ogbonna says

 “Not every relationship must lead to marriage” Sonia Ogbonna says

Wife of actor IK Ogbonna, Sonia Ogbonna made a post on Instagram about all relationships not ending in marriage. Read her thoughts below:

“let me start with à gently reminder-marriage isn’t any form of achievement like some of you might think . You make yourself a Queen,no one will do it for you. Achievement is to be happy. Period. Let me explain further: everybody was sent to our lives for a purpose,but NOT EVERYONE was meant to stay. Some are meant to teach you things you need to know to continue your journey towards your destiny ,but without them. Your paths will split after their mission is complete ,and that’s not a tragedy but a huge blessing’.

‘You helped each other out now its time to go. No regrets,no hard feelings because EVERYTHING sent your way is ALWAYS a GIFT. Experience is the greatest source of wisdom,and be thankful for it. Real purpose of it is not to teach you about others or to make you develop a negative stereotype about them (“all men this/all men that”) but to allow you to get to know YOURSELF better.

That’s the real purpose of interactions with others-to trig a knowledge that will help you understand yourself better,to understand what you really want and what you can/can’t deal with

To help you learn about your own capacities and weaknesses and above all to help you open your eyes about what you truly deserve and how worthy you actually are. Without experience you are most likely to settle for any kind of rubbish treatment and poor relationship assuming its all “normal” and “the way it was suppose to be” because you simply have no clue about life and you barely know yourself so you can easily fall a victim of manipulation and COMPLETELY LOOSE YOUR PERSONALITY in process.

Take your time. You gotta stop FORCING things-it can only lead to to MISERY,relax,enjoy life,love yourself,follow signs and hear your guts out: whatever feels off,trust me, probably is’.

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Not All Relationships Lead to Marriage- Sonia Ogbonna Cautions

Sonia Ogbonna has dished out some relationship tips.

Wife of Nollywood acror, IK Ogbonna, Sonia Ogbonna has again dished out some relationship tips and this time, she speaks on how to handle breakups.

According to her, everyone that comes into one’s life is for a purpose. Not all relationships are meant to lead to marriage she said. If it doesn’t feel right, she said it probably isn’t. She however advice that people should take everything that is sent their way as a gift.

Her words below;

let me start with à gently reminder-marriage isn’t any form of achievement like some of you might think . You make yourself a Queen,no one will do it for you. Achievement is to be happy. Period. Let me explain further: everybody was sent to our lives for a purpose,but NOT EVERYONE was meant to stay. Some are meant to teach you things you need to know to continue your journey towards your destiny ,but without them. Your paths will split after their mission is complete ,and that’s not a tragedy but a huge blessing’

You helped each other out now its time to go. No regrets,no hard feelings because EVERYTHING sent your way is ALWAYS a GIFT. Experience is the greatest source of wisdom,and be thankful for it. Real purpose of it is not to teach you about others or to make you develop a negative stereotype about them (“all men this/all men that”) but to allow you to get to know YOURSELF better.

That’s the real purpose of interactions with others-to trig a knowledge that will help you understand yourself better,to understand what you really want and what you can/can’t deal with

To help you learn about your own capacities and weaknesses and above all to help you open your eyes about what you truly deserve and how worthy you actually are.

Without experience you are most likely to settle for any kind of rubbish treatment and poor relationship assuming its all “normal” and “the way it was suppose to be” because you simply have no clue about life and you barely know yourself so you can easily fall a victim of manipulation and COMPLETELY LOOSE YOUR PERSONALITY in process.

Take your time. You gotta stop FORCING things-it can only lead to to MISERY,relax,enjoy life,love yourself,follow signs and hear your guts out: whatever feels off,trust me, probably is’.

“Marriage is not an ultimate life achievement”- Sonia Ogbonna says

Sonia Ogbonna will continue to slay on and not subject to “wife material”

After a fan asked Sonia Ogbonna when she will start behaving like a married woman, this was her reply:

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”Message is very simple: you are a QUEEN. And marriage is not an the ultimate life achievement nor validation of a woman’s worth ,nether is a curse. So keep looking like a QUEEN that you are forever & ever. Stay fly ,stop shows everywhere you go and love you some you and your life will become more fun,beautiful & fulfilled and yes, other women’s appearance wont get at you in a negative way no more. #SlaySistaA woman too is a human being and yes she too has only one life to live. Stop supporting oppression,it’s enough we gotta deal with period every month ?#SoniaOgbonna”.

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‘‘Couple Goals’ is the greatest illusion of the 21st century” – Sonia Ogbonna

Sonia Ogbonna says she doesn’t like being termed submissive.

Motivation blogger, life coach and wife of actor, Sonia Ogbonna in a new article,speaks about the concept of ‘couple goals’. According to her, the concept is an illusion as perfect IG pictures does not mean perfect life.

Speaking in depth on marriage, she stated how she was never a fan of marriage and how her husband (IK) has been her backbone. According to her, though she is a very difficult person to handle, IK has done a good job so she appreciates him.

Her post below;

Couple Goals” is the greatest illusion of 21st century.You think someone’s life is perfect because of a nice picture on IG. Lol.My friends,my wisdom didn’t come from books. My write ups are result of many lessons I have learnt from my struggle,pain and frustration.

However, I choose to keep it real because there is light in truth&we don’t have to feel like losers just because things don’t seem to be perfect all the time. Honestly, I have never liked the idea of marriage,I hated it cuz it seemed like a zone where we appreciate nothing and demand for everything just because. Even today I feel like the whole “marriage” thing is not there to serve us, but to serve society by impacting tones of norms that are meant to control us, lock us inside the box and decide what is wrong and right on our behalf.

It took me time, tears, depression, endless arguments and literally madness to understand the purpose of two people coexisting together. But it clicked somehow,somewhere.. UNION. Just two people and their own world. I do love the idea of deep, HONEST friendship that forgives imperfections and helps us grow and become better. But I’m also aware that that’s something we gradually need to learn how to apply in real life.

At times we all forget to count blessings for a moment or two. We become greedy, we seek for flows, we forget to appreciate. We demand love but we don’t ask ourselves if we are giving it out as well.

Many times I forgot to give credit to this man of mine for everything that he is. Do you know how difficult I am to handle? Strong minded woman with revolution on her mind 24/7. Lol. Average man’s pride can’t deal with me. Ever. I made many mistakes but the biggest one is not appreciating u every moment of my day.

Thank you for babysitting me from the time I was barely 23?I know its not easy dealing with a savage like me that doesn’t like being tamed/”submissive” (I hate that bloody word)?And freedom u gave me is the highest proof of love u have for me. Nothing is perfect about us, but at the end of the day we always remember to go back on the right track whenever we get lost. I love you Boss?

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Sonia Ogbonna Replies Follower Who has Issues With her Son’s Nigerian Accent, Says her Son Will Grow Up to be Proudly Nigerian

Sonia Ogbonna gives epic reply to follower’s trolls.

Actor, IK’s wife, Sonia Ogbonna has given an epic reply to a follower who thinks it is improper for her (Sonia’s) son to speak with a Nigerian accent.

Sonia took to Instagram to call out the follower who advised that she speaks to her son properly. According to the follower’s comment, the boy has to be thought how to speak in proper foreign accent.

This is in reaction to Sonia’s video of her son who was trying to steal a kiss from her. He advised that Sonia speaks properly to her son so that he won’t develop Nigerian accent.

Sonia in reply told the concerned follower that her son will grow up to be proud of his African heritage. She then advised that people should drop the post colonial mentality.

Her words below;

Ace Ikechukwu Ogbonna oh take note ? Why would Ace sound so Nigerian at the first place? Its not like he lives in Nigeria or like he’s Nigerian duhhhh From now on ,u cant sound Nigerian ,or else u will be grounded. ? I will also go for British English classes so we can form together ??But nah! He will grow up to be proudly African,he will speak his native language and embrace his original (not impacted or westernized) heritage,with proper knowledge and TRUTH about the history of his people that many call “barbaric” out of pure ignorance and due brainwashing that came along with colonialism, so he can understand the power of blood that runs through him, have self CONFIDENCE ,so he won’t have inferiority complex & need to be,act or speak like someone he is NOT. This post-colonization trauma needs to stop. Africa to the world ❤️

Bear in mind that Sonia is not of an African descent. Despite this fact, she has chosen to embrace her husband’s African heritage fully.