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Nyaniso Dzedze gives his opinion on why Men Cheat

Nyanisos Dzedze took to Instagram to share an opinion on why men cheat.

In the lengthy Instagram post, he said one of the main reason Men cheat was that of sex.

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Here is what he had to say;

I am disappointed.

I am a little distraught… A little in despair.

I just saw a couple I enjoy keeping up with on social media torn apart by infidelity.

The news is “He cheated… Countless times”. He loves her. I know he loves her because I’ve seen it. I see him. I saw it in myself and I didn’t stop loving Yana when i “cheated” (those are the words we use right?) “he’s a lying, toxic, cheating dog”. My thoughts however are… “what’s going on with him?” There’s something going on with him. There’s something going on with all men that they keep making pornography, strip clubs, brothels and the rest of the sex industry one of the highest earning industries in the world.
Let’s be honest, it’s not just for pleasure that we are sex driven. We are sex hungry, and we are sex thirsty. EVERYTHING is sold with sex and MEN are the biggest consumers.
We are not just enjoying the pleasure of sex We are USING sex to COPE.
The most respected men. Men in great power. The big chink in their armour is sex. Whether rapists, infidels, porn addicts, serial brothel and strip club goers they’re related. S. E. X.
I don’t think sex is a problem.
I think excessive unconscious sex abuse, and using it as a coping mechanism is what is leading men down destructive paths.
We need to understand why we are going to sex when we do, and what might actually need to be addressed as opposed to using sex as a veil?
I am seeking the most impactful way to address – Men cheating – men and the unconscious relating to sex – men and the relationships we have (or lack thereof) with our cocks

For now, it seems
Initiating men into their power through the #TheEnlightenedSavageKing will be the platform I continue to use.

To keep interrogating the powerlessness, the surrender of our power to sex.
What would shift if we intimately knew our power, our capacity to hold ourselves? Would we still seek validation and holding from fleeting experiences such as sex?

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About this writer:

Molly Mwangi

Lover of Life

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