Sfiso Ncwane’s wife writes emotional tribute

December 06, 2017 at 06:53
Sfiso Ncwane's wife writes emotional tribute

Yesterday marked Sfiso Ncwane’s first death anniversary. At just 37, he suddenly died due to a kidney failure.

His widow, Ayanda wrote a tribute on Instagram.



“My love you changed my life in 4 different times just like 4 seasons. In 2002 you changed my title to be a girlfriend, in 2003 to a mother, in 2007 to a wife, in 2016 to a widow! But sadly on the 5th I witnessed the most painful and brutal experience in my entire life. God decided to take you away from us, I can lie in front of the world and walk with bravery, smile with a bruised spirit, walk with silent screams, but the fact still stands. I weep deeply almost every night and I beg God to return you to me. I can’t get used to your absence! Today feels like I’m losing you over and over again!

“The pain of losing you never goes away, the wound is always fresh. It is the grace of God that keeps me going each day. Being angry at God for not saving your life can not help me.

“God is God! He does as He pleases. I guess He designed our lives exactly like this, my job is to adjust to His plan. I will always love you myeni wami…”

Sfiso was a God-fearing man who believed in helping the needy.


  1. This is beautiful

  2. So emotional and sweet

  3. This has touched me

  4. This is incredible

  5. Amazing

  6. Matladi Moloi : December 7, 2017 at 7:26 am

    Death is cruel, it takes those we love and cherish, but it’s the will of God,we all going there,be strong pray to God to give you strength

  7. I feel for you cc but what I like is that uyamazi uMhlengi wakho and nomyeni wakho bekamazi. The wound is still very fresh and sensitive. Mourn him as long you feel/want.

  8. nonhlanhlamalinga : January 13, 2018 at 10:46 am


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