10 questions to Ask before joining Marriage

Marriage today is a tough one. People meet on the slay streets of Facebook and Instagram and before you know. they are married.

People automatically think that their partner especially women will want children but what if she doesn’t?

let’s Give you a few tips on what to ask before you decide to jump into the marriage pool.

Do you throw plates, calmly discuss issues or silently shut down when disagreements arise?

It is important to know how your partner expresses their anger otherwise you will wake up to a bullet that you did not see coming.

Do you want Kids and can you change diapers?

This very important for you to get your priorities in the right place. Wouldn’t it be weird to want kids while the other person wants a dog?

Are you still friends with your Ex?

You need to mentally asses the situation and if you are ready to deal with it.

What is your religious stand?

Also very vital to the day to day running of your family and or if your are comfortable assimilating into their religion.

Would you bail me out of a tough situation?

It is always comforting to know that you have a ride or die partner. And that person will not walk away when the going gets tough.

What do you spend most of your money on?

This helps  you asses what your financial position will be like and also how to keep each other accountable.

How important is sex to you?

This is the holy grail of any relationship. You don’t want your back broken in the quest to meet your partner’s needs.

Is watching porn ok?

Is it defined as cheating or nah?

What are your pet peeves?

Wet towels, Slippers in the bathroom etc you need to know so you don’t irritate each other

Where do you see us 10 years from now?

Are they with you for the long haul or just a short date period.