Tag: Love

Ykee Benda Shares Sad Story About his Love Life

Posted on by Deborah

If you are a Ykee Benda fun, than you know how much he roots for love. Whatever he does, is to show people the true meaning of love. The singer has shared with us the story behind his love stories, and about his first cut. Read below;

While at University I Met a girl (Algerian) we became best of friends….we shared almost everything apart from the physical….We fought on a daily about Islam vs Christianity…We did everything together…it was the very first time I fell for a woman without having the intentions when we first met…she changed my life…I have never seen a heart more pure…..we fell in love so deep a day apart I could barely accomplish anything…..I told her I wanted to marry her and bring her with me to Uganda …And she wanted nothing less but to spend the rest of her life with me…..As young as we were I asked for a sit down with the father….He agreed cause he had never seen his daughter that happy since she was born…..I gave my speech infront of him and the Daughter….He told me this could never happen and we should find it in our hearts to forget eachother…..I pleaded with him for over two hours making all kinds of promises And he told me he could never let his only daughter leave Algeria to marry a Ugandan…and I was left with afew months to come home….They blocked us from communicating or seeing eachother……I must say that was the toughest time of my life EVER…I came back home moved on slowly with the stories you all know of my love life…..But that was also the best love I have ever experienced….will I ever see her or a person like her?….only God knows ??

PRESENT DAY

Now the way the story ends shows she died no…she’s alive and well and infact engaged as of right now….It’s the LOVE that was buried by the stereo-types of this world of certain people can’t be together…Moslems can’t marry Christians ….certain races shouldn’t mix,certain tribes cant intermarry….I saw it first hand and it’s absurd I must say….so on that grave…Ykee buried the Only TRUE LOVE HE HAD EVER SEEN❤️….

Ykee has the hits that make the ladies cry

I have decided to release it today because today happens to be that Algerian girls ? birthday I can’t give you the names for her own sake…..NOW YOU KNOW WHY I DO EVERYTHING I DO❤️Lov you guys

Ladies here are 5 tips on how to make a move on a Man

Posted on by Desiree Miller

It has been a debate since time immemorial if a woman can make a move on a man.  We say why not?  If you are interested here a some things you can do to show him that you want him.

1. Is he single.

Many times women find themselves in a trap where they already fell for A man only to find out that he is not available. Don’t break your heart before you even start. Do your research than go in for the kill.

2. Make eye contact

Making eye contact shows that you are a bold woman and it is a secret weapon to make him blush as well.

3. respond to his questions with quetions

Mean like a challenge, they like you to push the boundaries a little bit. This keeps thing exciting for example if he asks “Do you want to spend the night?” you can respond “what if i don’t want to?” it will force him to look for a witty answer that keeps things spontaneous.

4. Body language

Body language is everything, it is a simple way of letting him know off your intentions with out trying to hard. lick your lips, play with your hair, smile till your cheeks hurt. it pays off.

5. Find out what he likes.

most men are not used to little surprises and sweet stuff so just find out what he likes and do the best of it. if likes a football tesm, get the jersey and watch the game together. This is a fool proof way of getting what you want.

Keep in mind, if your are rejected, there is nothing to worry about just keep moving it gets better.

Are Men Really afraid of being with women who are more successful than them?

Posted on by Desiree Miller

There are many stories about men who have suffered one sort of pain or another while they were in a relationship or marriage with women who are successful or rich. In fact If you have dated one, you know.

Disrespect

Success gives people a feeling of independence, and for some woman, that feeling can be difficult to control. Once they feel they’re doing well, they get the impression that they can hold their own without a man. They become less respectful, caring, and available to the man in their life.

Trust

The other thing is that due to past experiences or of those around them, women who are successful have a problem not believing that a man can love them for them, and not for what they have, own or the position they occupy in society. That belief makes it hard for them to open up and let their guard down to any man. And of course, that would always drive men away from them.

 

Men like to be in charge, so not so many men would be willing to be in a relationship where they feel like they’re unloved or unappreciated. No man would want to be with a woman who makes him feel like he’s not worthy of her. That is why I think most men run away from women who are successful. There’s also the notion held by a majority of the society, that men who run after successful women are gold diggers. That doesn’t help either.

Signs That He Is Not That Into You

Posted on by Deborah

There is a common saying that girls think with their hearts and not their minds. This usually lands them into alot of trouble. Many times they give their love unconditionally, only to be slapped in the face. Here are signs that he is not that into you, and you need to pack your bags and leave.

He is not communicating

The trick that some guys pull to get away from a woman is cutting all forms of communication/ contact. He will minimize on the text messages. He will avoid anything that may lead to him talking to you often, hence creation of any emotional attachments.

No more Compliments

When a guy likes you and is sure that you are the one for him, you will be showered with endless complements. Everything about you will be exactly as he has always wished for. When he starts to point out more of the negatives than encourage or build you, then it may be time to grab your bags.

Love will come with an extra effort
He is Always Busy

One of the key things that make relationships stand tall, is the amount of time that people spend together. There are guys who are genuinely busy, and then there are those that will definitely avoid you. There is only one way you can fight back, and that is by keeping distance, and silent.

 

Is she out of your league? Here’s how to make her fall head over heels for

Posted on by Desiree Miller

Is there a woman you fancy but a little worried she is out of your league?

 

1. BE A GENTLEMAN

 

Acting like a jerk who wants to get into her pants would only destroy your little hopes of having her. Be a gentleman and act nice not just to her but to others. Being a gentleman will get you the keys to her affections.

 

2. HAVE THE RIGHT REASONS

 

She knows she’s way too beautiful and lots of guys have probably told her same too. Trying to date her for her looks is pretty shallow and won’t enhance your chances of getting her.

 

You should try to know things about her before you even decide to date her. There should be more to her than her good looks.

 

3. ALWAYS BE THERE FOR HER

 

I am not asking you to stalk her. You should try to support her and always be there for her when she needs you.

 

4. HAVE A GOOD SENSE OF HUMOUR

 

Women are suckers for men who can make them laugh. Being a nice guy with a good sense of humour will improve your chances if you are going for a girl who is way out of your league.

 

Some guys take humour too far by making jokes at someone’s expense and this is wrong. It’s rude.

How do you know when a man truly Loves you

Posted on by Desiree Miller

How do you know if  a man that truly loves you.

Here are 4 things men only do for the woman they love

 

1. HE WILL BE WILLING TO COMPROMISE

 

A man who truly loves a woman will be willing to change his mind for the woman he loves. No matter how stubborn a man is, he will be willing to compromise if the woman he is in love with is involved.

 

2. HER OPINION MATTERS A LOT

 

When a man truly loves a woman, her opinion on issues matter to him. Men naturally like doing things their way and rarely care about the opinion of others but a man who is truly in love will seek for the advice of his woman and will also listen to what she has to say.

 

3. HE WILL FIGHT FOR YOU

 

A man only defends what matters to him so if your man is willing to defend you, he truly loves you. A man would never fight for someone or something he doesn’t care about.

 

4. HE WILL DO ANYTHING FOR HER

 

A man who truly loves a woman will do anything to make her happy. True love is about sacrifice and a man who is truly in love will sacrifice for the woman he loves.

 

If you have a man who does all of these for you, he is definitely a keeper.

Signs that you are not satisfying your woman

Posted on by Desiree Miller

Signs that you are not satisfying your woman in bed.  Men like to boast of the many sexual adventures the have withstood but the women have a different story much as they may not say it.  But here are a few.

Excuses

This obvious sign goes unmissed for some reason. While it’s possible she may be feeling unwell, but if she always has a headache or is tired or too sleepy or simply not in the mood when you want to get naughty, that should be a huge warning something is wrong. Sex is a wonderful thing and when one party passes it off because of ‘sleep’ for example, that could be because they do not enjoy having sex with you and they would rather skip.
She shows no response
Women express themselves differently. For example, she may give verbal cues or react physically by pushing or touching you in a certain way. If she does not, she is not enjoying herself. Other physical signs to look out for during sex are panting, arched back, curled toes, touching back etc. If she does not and just lies there, you are not turning her on.

She masturbates more

If she would rather resort to other measures to get an orgasm, it is obvious you are not satisfying her

She gives directions

If you find her pushing your body a certain way or putting your hands somewhere take the cues. She might even let a few words out like ‘faster,’ or ‘do it like this.’ This should be a sign that you’re not giving her pleasure. Good thing is she is trying to show you how you can improve and help her get there. Don’t take it wrongly. What works for one woman does not necessarily work for everyone. Every woman is different. Get to learn her body and pleasure needs then take it from there.

Here are some places to find lasting love

Posted on by Desiree Miller

Lasting love seems to have evaded the world in these days of tinder and snap chat. But hey it you are still as traditional as the few that f us you can still find love everywhere you Just have to look.

Here are a few pointers on where you can meet people.

Weddings

Just like in the movies, the wedding scenes usually end up with people falling in love and in real life it could happen  to you. There are usually more single people at weddings than you would know if anything just to get an inspiration. Ask the bride and to introduce you to their friends and family because why not?

Work

Yes Work is a good place to find love but first you have to find out the terms on dating in your organization. As you know, there are many younger single people in the workforce and given you see each other everyday, there is more time to get to know each other well.

Gym

The gym at peak hours maybe one of the better places to find love especially if you are a regular. You may be connected by having a common goal and working to achieve it together.

Church

This is the oldest one in the book. You are likely to meet someone with whom you have similar beliefs, fellowship and have more people to look out for his character and friends.

Now go ahead and find your price charming just in time for Valentine’s.