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Reasons Why Long Distance Relationships Create A Stronger Bond.

Posted on July 16, 2018 by Deborah

Couples are often afraid of dating people who are going to move/ live far away from them. Long distance relationships have been a topic of discussion, as many refer to them as failed engagements. This article however, will make you believe in these types of relationships more. Here are some advantages of having your spouse live far away.

Independence:

When there is nobody next to you to disturb and nag whenever you fail to do something, then this will bring you growth and fulfillment. Long distance love helps in creating independence in couples. It brings about self reliance and the ability to stand tall and strong, alone, while at the same time defending your partner.

Freedom

If you know how disturbing it is to have someone constantly monitor your movements, then you are the right person to share in long distance love. You will be left to exercise free will, while keeping at the back of your mind, that you have someone you are loyal to. In addition to this, you can be as messy as possible, and definitely be yourself.

Cement Commitment

When in a long distance trial, you tend to always spend your days imagining what your partner could be doing. In this way, it helps you always learn to be the better person. To keep yourself, and hope that you are rewarded abundantly for that.

Effort

These types of relationships teach you what putting effort really means. When it is the day to meet your spouse, you tend to give your looks the best, go to the best salons, and wear the best outfits. You also show your partner the best moves in the world. This is because you had enough time to practice.

Communication

One of the most difficult things in this type of love is communication. Often times it emotionally drains many couples. It is through the failure to see someone everyday that you can appreciate the importance of communication. You will learn to engage in more difficult topics, in the little time you have to communicate.

Are Men Really afraid of being with women who are more successful than them?

Posted on May 16, 2018 by Desiree Miller

There are many stories about men who have suffered one sort of pain or another while they were in a relationship or marriage with women who are successful or rich. In fact If you have dated one, you know.

Disrespect

Success gives people a feeling of independence, and for some woman, that feeling can be difficult to control. Once they feel they’re doing well, they get the impression that they can hold their own without a man. They become less respectful, caring, and available to the man in their life.

Trust

The other thing is that due to past experiences or of those around them, women who are successful have a problem not believing that a man can love them for them, and not for what they have, own or the position they occupy in society. That belief makes it hard for them to open up and let their guard down to any man. And of course, that would always drive men away from them.

Men like to be in charge, so not so many men would be willing to be in a relationship where they feel like they’re unloved or unappreciated. No man would want to be with a woman who makes him feel like he’s not worthy of her. That is why I think most men run away from women who are successful. There’s also the notion held by a majority of the society, that men who run after successful women are gold diggers. That doesn’t help either.

Why your Friends Must Not Be Part of Your Relationship

Posted on May 14, 2018July 1, 2018 by Deborah

Friendship is a wonderful gift for all of us. We enjoy sharing information with our mates about what is currently going on in our lives. This may not be very fruitful in some circumstances however. Here are some reasons why your friends must not be part of your relationship.

Comparisons.

When we share about our spouses, and what we are currently involved in, it may prompt cases of comparisons. Your buddies may tell you about their experiences, and relate their own relationships with yours. This will bring upon a feeling of dissatisfaction in your life. You may start to compare your husband/ wife with your friend’s partner.

Friends will always be there, but some details should be kept out

Advice

Every relationship is different. They all have a different formulae. Sometimes we share our fears and hurts with others, and receive their advice to apply to our own moments. We all have to be aware that there is a lot of differentiation in context between other people’s lives and ours. The advice may be helpful, but not applicable to your life.

Snatchers

To some of our friends, the married people are the tastiest. Hearing about your fights and disagreements only makes them happy. It is a clear opportunity for them to jump and grab what does not belong to them. They will follow through your story carefully, and find the appropriate time to attack.

Protect and guard your relationship.

Why are most beautiful women always unlucky in love?

Posted on January 18, 2018 by Desiree Miller

“How can a beautiful woman like you be Single?” this is a statement many a woman have heard at least once in awhile. But have you ever stopped for a while to think why the women we describe as “very beautiful” seem to be unlucky in love? Here is a break down.

Some men are intimidated by this kind of beauty.

Famous and rich actress Halle Berry still struggles.

Crazy as it seems, people may believe that this woman is out of their league making it hard to approach her. Additionally since she gets a lot of attention, some men may subconsciously believe that she is proud and conceited.

Fear of competition.

Beautiful women like her have trouble finding the one

Some men believe that having a beautiful woman is too much work in the sense of having to ward off several men trying to court her. Always having to check who is talking to her or trying to pull a move is constant work which some men are willing to avoid.

She is a prize.

Julianna has openly struggled through such issues

One major issue you will hear beautiful women complaining about is how men “use and dump” them. Much as some men are intimidated, some are super confident just to say the famous “I hit it first” aka bragging rights.

Whatever any man’s reason is for avoiding or approaching a gorgeous woman, men should always remember that woman are not objects of desire and conquest. Their feelings matter and should always be put first in any relationship.

Secrets to Having A Lasting Relationship

Posted on November 6, 2017May 4, 2023 by Deborah

Relationships can.be hard to maintain, but it is no miracle when people tell you they have stayed together for more than five years. Today, we review the major things that make a relationship strong.

1. Respect When two people start to date, they both come from different and private lives. It is important to.respect not only your partner’s property but also their decisions and opinions. Do not snoop around. Respect their privacy, and learn how to live two independent lives but as one.

2. Love Love is not just a word that couples say at the end of every phonecard. It is also the ability to sacrifice the little you have to make another happy. Let your partner know how you feel about them, and shoe them that they are special to you.

3. Quality Time There is alot that goes on for the twenty four hours of each day. It is up to the two of you to create time for one another. Quality time with each other not only strengthens the bond, but gives an opportunity for you to learn more qualities about your spouse. Remember this is the very person you will stay with for the rest of your life.

4. Gift of Understanding It is very hard to know reasons behind each of our motives when it comes to.relationships. One must be able to put oneself in their partners shoes and react accordingly to each situation that presents itself. You should be able to interpreted why a particular situation occurred, before jumping to conclusion.

5. Honesty This is the most important quality to possess when.it comes to relationships. A foundation of lies crumbles when the structure is up. Also know, that one lie always gives birth to another, and the truth will always come out at the peak of your relationship.