Anerlisa Muigai recently gave advice to women looking to get with married men and she reminded me of the old adage; “the road to hell is paved with good intentions”. This is because her advice amounted to her mocking every single man she has ever been with. Let’s start off with what she had to say to women looking to be side-chicks and second wives:
A moment of silence to those women who come to a relationship thinking they will be better than the wife the problem is that you see men looking nice on social media not knowing that the wife put him together so given the chance you can’t maintain that.
And it would seem the irony of making that statement is lost upon her as she was once married and failed to maintain her own marriage. You see, Anerlisa Muigai has failed to understand why it is most women go for men who are in committed relationships. The reason for that is called preselection.
To understand this we need to understand the fact that as human beings evolved women quickly learnt that there are benefits to being with certain men; the type who will provide and protect for not only themselves but their offspring too. Back in the days of our ancestors, the most vulnerable time for any woman is when she was pregnant or had infants and toddlers nipping at her heels demanding her attention.
So as human beings evolved and Civilizations grew most women simply land that rather than going through the problem of vetting their own men, they could simply get with a man who had already been vetted by another woman. Anerlisa Muigai I need to understand that this is why having a wedding ring on a man’s finger is seen as an aphrodisiac to most women.
Beyond this, what her statement tells us is that she selects for man-babies. That is the only reason why a fully grown man who has either pursued a career or a business is still in capable care of himself let alone others.
She has literally told us that she selects for men who are immature. The type of men who date a woman seeking to place her in the role of their mother. You know, picking out their clothes colour coordinating their wardrobe and sharing their socks and torn making sure they have clean underwear to wear.
Any man of high value comprehends the need to be well put together. That is because when certain aspects of his life are in disarray his own career will be cluttered. No man who is updating age should be so inept as taking care of himself that a woman is needed to organise his life rather than be the cherry on top.
Besides, why would anyone feel to take advice from someone who failed at her own marriage about relationships? Make it make sense.
February 3, 2023
February 3, 2023