Anerlisa Muigai Urges Women To Keep Secrets
Businesswoman Anerlisa Muigai has urged women to be more mindful of the secrets they share with each other. In a post on her Instagram stories, Muigai said that it is important to keep what you know to yourself, even if you are told something in confidence.
“It’s very common for women to discuss each other, but the problem comes in when you are told something and you take it to the other person then it becomes she said, she mentioned, oh she talking behind your back, etc,” Muigai wrote. “It’s very important to remain quiet and keep what you know to yourself.”
Muigai also said that it is important to be neutral when it comes to other people’s business. “I can know so much about someone, but I’d prefer to be quiet. I can never change towards the target, too, because I don’t judge people from what I have heard,” she wrote.
Muigai’s advice is a reminder that words can have a powerful impact, and that it is important to be mindful of the things we say, especially when it comes to other people’s secrets.
In addition to the potential damage that can be done by gossiping, there are also other reasons why it is important to keep secrets. For example, if you are told something in confidence, it is a sign of trust that should not be betrayed. Additionally, sharing someone else’s secrets can damage your relationships with both the person who told you the secret and the person about whom the secret was told.
If you are ever unsure about whether or not to share something that you have been told, it is always best to err on the side of caution and keep it to yourself.