Amber Ray and Kennedy Rapudo have introduced each other’s families and they’ve declared their decision to become a family. man and wife.
Now that the introductions are done, we have to have some rather unpleasant conversations. And we’ll start with the fact that the couple is moving too fast. While that wouldn’t really faze Faith Makau (her government names), it should give Bwana Rapudo some pause.
That is because he cannot say he has really tested his wife-to-be. He cannot claim to have any idea of how she reacts while under pressure nor have they even discussed important topics such as their views on money and saving, parenting style and conflict resolution.
This is just one of the reasons I feel this couple will be short-lived. And that’s not even mentioning the fact that Amber Ray is carrying a lot of buggage from her past relationships. She is a damaged woman who has a child. Why do you think she has been unable to remain with a man and starts family with him? It’s because she is damaged, incapable of pair bonding.
And she hasn’t gone to counselling to help her deal with said issues. One of the issues that doubtless still haunts her is the fact that she has dealt with a violent ex. Those scars don’t just fade away, they have to be actively healed.
Add to this the fact that she is carrying the buggage of people like Jimal Roho Safi who has refused to let go of her. Amber Ray seems to attract crazies and while Kennedy Rapudo thinks he can handle the situation right now, he cannot claim to be prepared for the type of interruptions clowns like Jimal would visit on the family.
Kennedy would do well to also be very wary of the fact that she has dealt with some very high-power individuals. No, not out of envy nor jealousy but because it also speaks to the type of woman his wife-to-be is. She is the type to seek out men for the transaction of who they are and what they can do for her. Raising the question of whether Amber Ray is truly into him because of who he is or what his position is at Amref. Add to this the fact that the more men a woman has paired with in her past, the less likely she is to be satisfied with marital life.
All we can do is wish Kennedy Rapudo and Amber Ray the best of luck as they embark on this new chapter of their lives but we aren’t too confident that they’ll make it a long read.
December 5, 2022
December 5, 2022