“If you promote a man who is not ready to be a husband, then you have to struggle” Lilian Muli advice to Singles

Image: Lilian Muli with her community husband, Jared Nevaton

Lilian Muli has lately been raising eyebrows with her online posts that mostly talk about relationships; and if I am not wrong it appears that all is not well back at her camp!

As seen on her latest post, the mother of two has gone ahead to share an important piece of advice that will come in handy for single people. On her post the the Citizen TV news anchor goes on to quote Susan Nguttu, a relationship coach who talks about the importance of thinking through before deciding to settle down.

Well Lilian who seems to have made a few mistakes here; and there while choosing her life partners couldn’t agree more with relationship coach as she went on to post;

I came across this on and I thought it was very powerful.

Dear Singles, some people are good wedding material but are terrible marriage material. Some people are nice until they have finished with you. Some are good caring and available as long as they can use you for themselves. Some are ready for a glamourous wedding but unprepared for a blissful marriage.

Not all that glitters is gold

According to the two ladies some men are cut out to be great dad’s but not all can make good husbands. And of course many women tend to confuse the two and end up regretting this lifetime decision. Lilian Muli went on to write saying;

Some men are biologically ready to be a father but not mentally or spiritually ready to be a husband. Yet some ladies are biologically ready to be a mother but not mentally or spiritually ready to be a wife. They work harder on the wedding plans than they do on the marriage plan.

To cut the story short, Lilian made it known that there is no need of promoting a man to a husband when he is not ready for such responsibilities!

A wedding is for one day. Marriage is for a lifetime. Never you forget this. If you promote a lady who is not ready to be a wife then you have to struggle to make her who she is not. If you promote a man who is not ready to be a husband then you have to struggle to make him who he is not.

This however comes just a few days after she threatened to expose the female stalker photographing her car. Not quite sure what is happening in Lilian’s home – but truth is, Ms Muli either needs a hug or a break!

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