Jimal Roho Safi is about to make Wangari Thiong’o a 2 time baby mama
What has gone around that Jimal Roho Safi and his new woman, Wangari Thiong’o are expecting a baby together. What is even more interesting is that the announcement comes just days after his ex, Amber Ray announced that she and her man, Kennedy Rapudo too are expecting a bundle of joy.
It almost feels like the former lovebirds are in constant competition with each other trying to outdo the other. We should probably also add to this exposition the fact that the former lovebirds had suffered a miscarriage while they were together.
But that aside, I am willing to bet the house on the fact that Jimal Roho Safi is going to leave his current girlfriend at 2x single mother. Yes for those of you who are unaware she does have a daughter from a previous relationship.
The reason I am saying this is because first and foremost he has shown to have poor leadership skills and isn’t exactly the paternal type of man. We can tell this judging from how he dealt with his ex-wives Amira and Amber. Both those relationships ended up as giant train tracks and he bought a large portion of the blame for that outcome.
Jimal Roho Safi also has failed to do something that would have earned confidence in his new relationship and that is; introducing his girlfriend to his people. The truth of the matter is it is always smart too fast marry then have your woman carry. That is the right order of doing things as both of you gain a sense of stability and security within your relationship.
You also need to understand the cultural context from which I speak; he is an ethnic Somali. Not only as a culturally conservative but they are also practising Muslims which adds that much more taboo to the situation he has introduced his lady to. We should also note that more often than not his ethnic community does not like intermingling with other ethnicities.
Jimal Roho Safi does that for an ethnic Kikuyu such as Wangari Thiong’o to be accepted by his people is a long shot and in fact they could very well begin to interfere with in his “marriage”, common law though it might be.
All of these are strikes against their relationships and rather than attempt to do things the right way which would force him to man up and face any naysayers head-on before they finally commit to bringing another life into their circumstance he has chosen to take the coward’s way out and is hiding their situation from his people like dirty laundry.
This is one of those times when I truly do hope and pray that I am wrong but I am even more worried that I am going to be vindicated by time.