“It was such a waste” Actress Kawira regrets losing her purity to ex husband

Former Papa Shirandula actress Kawira is still bitter with her ex husband, a man she met in church, fell in love, got married and lost her virginity to…..and months later had twins.

Sounds like the perfect woman especially in this generation where sex is considered more of an entertainment ‘gig’ and unlike back in the day – these days there is no attachment and last i checked…I heard everyone is responsible for their enjoyment, so if you dont get there blame yourself, kwani akili ilikuwa wapi.

Former Papa Shirandula actress – Kawira

Okay – not proud of it but iris whar iris. Anyway unfortunately for Kawira who grew up back in the village and had parents who passed on the teachings they receibed from their parents; but when she came to Nairobi, the capital school of Character development – she learnt the hard way and still regrets her choices.

Regrets losing virginity

Well, speaking recently about her ex husband – one thing she was clear about is that losing her virginity to him was a waste. Actually she said;

I wish it was with someone else and not that person. It was such a waste

Actress Kawira with ex hubby


I did holy matrimony for real. I never slept at his place and I wish I did that, I was a virgin. He was violent and yet he was a pastor

Okay…i understand breakups are tough but then again – they make you stronger in that – once bitten twice shy. But for Kawira it seems she cannot let her past go and being 2 years since she walked on the guy…I just feel that maybe she shouldn’t be discussing him every now and then.

However thanks to him, Kawira now says;

Nikiskia the word marriage kichwa yangu inasikia baridi.

Why Papa Shirandula’s Kawira regrets being too faithful and submissive to ex husband

Actress Kawira Joy is popularly known for TV show Papa Shirandula and although she has been missin in action since she got married; looks like the actress is slowly trying to bounce back now that she is a single woman.

Former papa Shirandula actress, Kawira

Well, despite the star studded wedding she had 8 years ago – Kawira says she ended her marriage during the pandemic season after realizing the man she was married to was not the same person she’d earlier dated. In Simple words call it – character development.

Speaking about her failed marriage a while back – Kawira said;

Actress Kawira with ex hubby

If you feel in your heart that you are not in the right place, please quit, don’t stay there. You will live to fight another day.

Follow up

Well since the first interview – Kawira has been maintaining a low profile until recently when she once again spoke of her failed marriage revealing that she wishes she’d done things different.

From what she says is that she wishes she’d been more aggressive in terms of showing up late for dates – just to see how he’d handle the situation. A statement that shows things might have been violent.

I did not provoke things and that is one way I failed. While dating, try to do something like coming late for a date to see their reaction and how they handle anger.


However despite putting up with the union for 6 years, Kawira says that’s one of her biggest regrets since she wishes she’d left earlier.

I regret that I would have left early so we could move on early. We would have moved to another chapter by now.

When asked whether she’d tried working out things before settling for separation, Kawira said;

We called for delegation but still, it did not work. I am yet to find out why my marriage did not work coz I still don’t understand. I don’t understand why I had to go through that yet I was a church girl.