Why Aeedah Bambi is still with Anwar Loitiptip

Aeedah Bambi and Anwar Loitiptip are still together and people do not understand why she chose to stick by a man who is said to have gotten violent with her two an alarming degree.

The Anwar Loitiptip and Aeedah Bambi situation is tricky

What was worse is that her man is said not to care about whether or not they are in public, delivering the beats even when they had attended Bahati’s album launch and his wife, Diana Marua happened to witness the incident that became the alk of the town which was allegedly spurred by what Bwana Senator perceived to be his wife flirting with some guy in attendance.

Aeedah with Senator Loitiptip

The internet was set aflame by feminists and other online in-laws who wanted to weigh in on the matter despite the fact that she has elected to remain where she is. That’s right, despite the fact that we all know that Aeedah Bambi is beaten black and blue by her husband, she still insists on standing by his side.

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And this is something that confounds a lot of minds who cannot fathom being in that situation But in truth, Aeedah really has no choice. You see, even before she made her relationship public, she was warned by Saumu Mbuvi, the woman who was dating Anwar Loitiptip before her whom she took the senator from.

Saumu Mbuvi attacking Aeedah Bambi?

She was partly to blame for some of the beatings her former best friend received. She was the reason bwana Senator felt at peace with battering Mike Sonko’s daughter because he knew he already was checked out of the relationship. And to make this situation all the more insidious, Saumu would run to her bestie for advice without realizing she was the “other woman” causing friction in her relationship. Who can she currently turn to who will empathize with her? She started off as the other woman who was warned that this would happen. Who can she go to when she needs refuge? None of her friends trust her with their men and the inverse is true because she knows she can lose the Lamu Senator at the drop of a hat.

Aeedah Bambi deserves no sympathy nor hugs

And from there we also have to accept the fact that Aeedah Bambi is not a self-made woman. She is entirely dependent on Anwar to provide her with the type of lifestyle she has become accustomed to. The cars she drives? She can’t get them for herself -not yet anyway. So she has to stomach the abuse she receives. If she wants to continue to rub shoulders with the political elite, she has to remain by her husband’s side. And that is a reality Aeedah is clearly aware of and she has made the decision to stick around whether or not you agree with it.

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Anwar Loitiptip is accused of assaulting Aeedah Bambi

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The Anwar Loitiptip and Aeedah Bambi situation is tricky

Anwar Loitiptip and Aeedah Bambi situation is a tricky one because of the manner in which their relationship started. And the worst thing about it is that there is nothing anyone can do until one of the parties involved decides to actually speak up about the reality of the situation given all the allegations swirling around.

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You see, the first red flag was when disgraced former Nairobi  Governor, Mike Sonko’s daughter Saumu Mbuvi first accused him of being quick to anger.

He came out to defend himself -not from the allegations but rather his motivation. Apparently, he was indeed the type to run a fade with Saumu Mbuvi because she is bipolar. She is crazy and the only way he knew to handle her outbursts was by flexing his wrist and smacking her around.

Saumu’s ex husband Anwar Loitiptip allegedly beating up his new woman like a Burukenge

Then came the stories about how Anwar Loitiptip and Aeedah Bambi had started their relationship by running around behind Saumu Mbuvi’s back and carrying on in an affair. That must have peeved Hera off to high heaven!

Anwar Loitiptip is accused of assaulting Aeedah Bambi

Remember too, when word went round about how at a certain album launch by singer Bahati, Anwar Loitiptip had turned his rage on his now-wife, Aeedah Bambi? Yup, so with all the rumours being circulated about the nature of their conflict resolution methods, how can one not start believing the rumours?

Karma? Aeedah Bambi allegedly beaten black and blue by Senator Anwar Loitiptip, she responds

And to make matters worse, when internet in-laws and busybodies tried to rally around Aeedah Bambi, she claimed the rumours were being peddled by jobless individuals. So all her fans and the vile feminists were stuck. No one knows how to help her.

Anwar shows off injured shoulder

And perhaps this is the type of situation that they thrive in as a couple… Because even before the dust had settled, Anwar Loitiptip, the sitting Lamu Senator, was accused and charged for allegedly shooting a woman. The woman has since come out to claim she was simply trying to protect Aeedah Bambi from her husband’s wrath.

But how do we as a society come in to help? How can any of the vile feminists swoop into the rescue of whichever party needs rescuing?

Lady shot by Anwar speaks

Theirs is a tricky situation. Nothin we can do but watch the circus act unfold. I am firmly in the camp “Not my monkey, not my circus” because this situation is so tricky, the first step would be a simple one. That’s how tricky it is.

Situations that require simple first steps are often the hardest to clear up -because often it indicates ego is involved. And that makes this a dicey topic.

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Aeedah Bambi deserves no sympathy nor hugs

Aeedah Bambi is the focus of the spotlight today after it was alleged by attendees at Bahati’s album launch and then seemingly confirmed by his wife, Diana Marua, that she was physically assaulted by her hubby, Anwar Loitiptip.

Karma? Aeedah Bambi allegedly beaten black and blue by Senator Anwar Loitiptip, she responds

Allow me to give you some exposition on the entire situation as it is alleged to have gone down: She was at the album launch party where she was chatting with different people including men and someone is rumoured to have pointed that out to bwana Senator.

Aeedah Bambi
Aeedah Bambi

It was at this point that he walked over to her and started berating Aeedah Bambi and accusing her of flirting with men and all hell broke loose for her only for him to realize Diana Marua was in the vicinity and he insisted they leave -according to the information given to Edgar Obare.

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But while all this was coming to light, she was busy defending her man and alleging that everyone claiming she was beaten was just an envious hater who was after her joy and peace, trying to steal it and destroy her union.

Anwar Loitiptip is accused of assaulting Aeedah Bambi

And ofcourse a lot of tears are being shed over this incident and the probable others that we do not know about. I, however, feel nothing for these types of women because she had been warned by her former friend, Saumu Mbuvi when she “stole” her man.

Saumu Mbuvi needs to accept that she has lost Bwana Senator to Aeedah Bambi

You see, when Aeedah Bambi was busy getting involved with Anwar Loitiptip, Mike Sonko’s daughter warned the world that Anwar is a violent man. That would have given any thinking human being pause for thought especially because he confirmed that he did indeed used to slap her around.

Saumu Mbuvi on Radio Jambo where she spoke about being abused by Anwar, Aeedah Bambi’s husband

With such a warning and confirmation, Aeedah Bambi looks dumb for choosing to stay and develop the relationship to the next level. So for a quick recap, she managed to get with a man who was cheating on her friend with her, that man was accused of being violent and he confirmed that he did indeed slap his baby mama, and now she is on the receiving end while defending the nonsense.

Saumu Mbuvi discloses heartbreaking details about the birth of youngest daughter with ex, Senator Anwar Loitiptip

So what good will your tears do? Let her suffer. Some people can only learn when experience rattles their brains. So allow her to learn from getting hit. Because the sensible thing to do would be for her to walk away but she is still focused on the sunken cost fallacy.

Aeedah Bambi seems to be more focused on not being mocked on social media for ending up with Bwana Anwar than she is about getting out alive and I say we let her deal with that mess and grab our popcorn. Perhaps the show might switch from being a drama to a horror flick but at this point, only she can save herself.

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Loitiptip ex-files: Lessons men need to learn about controlling women

Anwar Loitiptip is under the microscope because he is alleged to have pummelled his wife, socialite Aeedah Bambi, and this apparently started and partially happened in public at the Bahati album launch.

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According to the narrative being shared by witnesses, he went ape-shit ballistic because he thought she was flirting with other men -and I need all the men reading this to take note of what I just said… A sitting senator is accused of battering his wife because she was talking to “local celebrities”.

That is the greatest sign this man, this senator, Anwar Loitiptip, is a low-value man. And he is so low value that he is threatened by non-consequential men. And I am sure there are some cavemen saying what he did was right for him to defend his marriage but only troglodytes do things like this.

Karma? Aeedah Bambi allegedly beaten black and blue by Senator Anwar Loitiptip, she responds

You see, he was trying to control and alter her behaviour perhaps based on who he is and his lived experience or perhaps because he has seen her past flirty behaviour (especially given the history of how they got together while he was cheating on Saumu Mbuvi).

Aeedah Bambi
Aeedah Bambi

But however you chop this up, Anwar Loitiptip has exemplified the lowest of the low-value male behaviour. And I am not here to pontificate from a moral perspective but rather to let you all know that any man with a modicum of value and who knows he is the prize would not tolerate a woman he is with flirting with other men but he would simply have walked away. And do you know why he would have walked away? Because he would have options.

Saumu Mbuvi discloses heartbreaking details about the birth of youngest daughter with ex, Senator Anwar Loitiptip

If as a man, you want to control flirtatious behaviour in your relationship and marriage, you have already failed and deserved for her to keep doing what she does. Why? Because that behaviour is controlled from the very beginning.

Aeedah Bambi
Aeedah Bambi with Anwar Loitiptip

How? By displaying said high value. Women know men with high value and they know that these men have options. That creates a phenomenon known as “competition anxiety”. Intuitively, your woman knows she is competing for you with other women, she will self-police her own behaviour.

Aeedah Bambi showers Senator Loitiptip with praises weeks after snatching him from Saumu Mbuvi

Anwar Loitiptip has indicated that he is not high value enough to have multiple options. And he has also shown the world that he lacks the intellect to address issues without getting violent. What he needs to do is to leave this relationship and start again.

And the next time he pursues a woman, he needs to realize that he is the prize, being a man of power and means. And he doesn’t have to tolerate nonsense from any of them because he can replace them easily. Unless ofcourse Anwar is unaware that he can elevate himself to become that man. Low self esteem?

And he needs therapy too. He needs help unlearning these more harmful behaviours he has exemplified.

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Saumu Mbuvi needs to accept that she has lost Bwana Senator to Aeedah Bambi

Saumu Mbuvi doesn’t seem to have grasped the concept of moving on entirely. That is why she is constantly hitting out at Aeedah Bambi, her former friend turned love-rival who has ended up with her ex, Bwana Senator.

Saumu Mbuvi and ex-husband’s new woman savagely attack each other on social media

You see, Saumu Mbuvi is only some clown time. She is doing some circus nonsense as she keeps engaging the lady who betrayed her and we have to wonder at which point she will be ready for a healthy co-parenting agreement with Anwar Loitiptip.

Saumu Mbuvi
Saumu Mbuvi on Radio Jambo speaking about her relationship

Saumu Mbuvi and Bwana Senator had an explosive falling out and after the fact, she came out to accuse him of being violent and abusive. Mr Anwar admitted that he had to slap her on one occasion when she was attempting to attack him and it was caused by her bipolar disorder.

Saumu Mbuvi discloses heartbreaking details about the birth of youngest daughter with ex, Senator Anwar Loitiptip

Her behaviour validates the idea that she is the problem in all her past relationships with her two baby daddies. I say this because she seems to relish playing in the mud with Aeedah Bambi. And the most recent occasion of this was when the latter celebrated her new husband’s birthday:

Saumu Mbuvi, Anwar Loitiptip
Saumu Mbuvi with dad, Mike Sonko (holding his granddaughter) and Lamu Senator Anwar Loitiptip

“Some are busy chasing for fame, others money living life with no purpose and direction soon as you realize your time is up; it’ll be too late for you….so choose wisely hii dunia tunapita tu.”

And all that was simply because she is bitter and envious of the life she sees her treacherous friend living with her ex. And she set herself up for her ex to come off as the more balanced and mature out of the two when Aeedah responded:

Saumu Mbuvi: Incapability to remain single will make her a serial baby mama

The fact that you don’t like someone does not mean they will suffer or not succeed!!! Alaye God is not from your village.

Aeedah Bambi
Aeedah Bambi with Anwar Loitiptip

You have to wonder what she has exposed her partners to behind closed doors. But I think we can all think about what was going on. And the last time we spoke about Saumu, I was of the opinion that she needed therapy.

Aeedah Bambi, the traitorous friend

And the main reason why she needs to accept that she was dumped is that she needs to accept that she is only going to have a co-parenting agreement with Anwar Loitiptip. To make matters worse, her constant back and forth trading of insults puts off every other man who thinks about wooing her.

Saumu Mbuvi doesn’t understand what attracts and keeps men

Why would any man want to get involved with a woman so clearly hang up on her ex that she is busy insulting his new partner? That is a high-risk dalliance that could easily make a fool out of your brother so would you advise him to pursue mtoto wa Mike Sonko?

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Anwar Loitiptip and Aeedah Bambi: baby trapping a man doesn’t lead to marriage

Seeing as the weekend came with news of Anwar Loitiptip and Aeedah Bambi are now married, Saumu Mbuvi’s friends need to check up on her because only sweet jesus can help heal that one.

Saumu Mbuvi discloses heartbreaking details about the birth of youngest daughter with ex, Senator Anwar Loitiptip

You see, it was not more than two years ago that Saumu Mbuvi and her then man, Anwar Loitiptip had welcomed their baby together and were talking about settling down and him making an honest woman out of her by marrying her.

Saumu Mbuvi with dad, Mike Sonko (holding his granddaughter) and Lamu Senator Anwar Loitiptip

The pair would often not miss an opportunity to let us know that they were in love with each other and they were loving the attention their fairy tale relationship had garnered for them -until we found out that Anwar had dumped her and was now with her friend, Aeedah Bambi.

Meet the hot lady giving Saumu Mbuvi sleepless nights after snatching hubby, Senator Anwar Loitiptip

The scandal first spilt over to social media where Saumu Mbuvi who is disgraced former Nairobi governor Mike Sonko’s daughter revealed that their explosive relationship had a lot of violence and it was all due to infidelity on their part.

Anwar Loitiptip

Anwar Loitiptip on his part did something daft after this. He actually confirmed that he had indeed assaulted her but he accused her of being bipolar to justify his actions. that said a lot about the glittery relationship they portrayed on social media.

¨Lamu Senator Anwar is responsible for my pregnancy¨ an excited Saumu Mbuvi screams

Whatever the past had witnessed, Anwar is now a happily married man and this goes a long way to prove that any smart woman should never carry before she marries. It really isn’t a revolutionary concept but yet in today’s world, we seem to celebrate it less and less. Do not carry before you marry.

You see, Saumu Mbuvi seems to have decided that the best strategy for keeping a man is by first bearing a child for them. That is why she is a single mother of two children by two different men and not so much as an engagement ring to show for it.

Saumu Mbuvi: Incapability to remain single will make her a serial baby mama

Aeedah Bambi, for all her faults, managed to get to the finish line with Anwar Loitiptip because she, unlike her former friend, learnt from her lesson. The two ladies are single mothers but Bambi learnt that she should not bear children for any man who has not committed to her.

Perhaps Aeedah Bambi has something Anwr values that he did not get from Saumu Mbuvi. Perhaps it is peace of mind. Maybe it is cooperation or maybe it is not having a powerful father figure looming over the relationship.

Saumu Mbuvi doesn’t understand what attracts and keeps men

Whatever the case may be, I need to reiterate the moral of the story, do not carry before you marry. Make sure your partner has committed to you before you give him offspring.

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