Akothee remorseful for ruining her daughters’ happiness, but also blames ex husband!

Singer Akothee continues to blame both herself and ex husband, Jared for ruining their daughters happiness when they were still young. If you follow up with Akothee, you realize that her youth was not as merry as those of other girls!

This is because she got married at the age of 14 years; and by the time she was 18 Akothee already had children keeping her busy in the house. She however says that life as a housewife back then was not hard but manageable; since hubby Jared always made sure they had paid their bills on time.

However things changed after a while and according to Akothee; her ex first lay his hand on her after she came home drunk. The singer says this is after being lied to by a friend – but hey, this was just the beginning of the wake up.

Also read:Akothee shares tearful information about ugly divorce experience with her first love

Akothee with daughter, Vesha

Akothee blames Jared too

Anyway with how things turned out, raising her daughters without a father; the singer says she can blame no one else but herself! As seen on one of her posts, she also holds her ex husband accountable for running their girls lives. She wrote;

Also read: “I used to feel like an orphan” Akothee’s daughter narrates how divorce tore her family apart

I & Jared played a part in ruining our children’s happiness while growing up; we broke their hearts to the core ????I know; and we all know that it can never be the same.

Akothee’s daughter with her father

In conclusion, it is good to know that the 3 girls forgave their mum and dad and life for them remains the same.

Inside them, there are broken girls ,thank God they forgave us and we are living as a family now.

“He beat the hell out of me,” Akothee continues to wash her dirty linen in public

There is no smooth marriage in life! In fact I believe life gets harder when one decided to commit themselves to another and Akothee will tell you this for free!

Married at 14 years, Akothee did not enjoy her youth so much as she got pregnant; and by the time she realized life as a married woman can never get easy – she had already sired 3 girls with Jared.

Yes, at first life seemed okay and even though there were problems here and there; they always overcame them as a family. However with time things started to change but little did she know that this love boat would be shaky all through.

Akothee weds Jared

My own Jared was and still a humble man, he was never violent ,he had never beaten me up in front of our children, I don’t remember when we argued, we lived in harmony ,most people admired our family life ,yes we were not really broke but we were trying ,Jared was earning a salary of 15,000 ksh as an accountant,with this money ,we had to manage our 3 daughters, and live the life we understood.

Also read: What a woman! Akothee fiercely weighs in on Tanzanian actress Shilole’s domestic attack

Aiming for the good life

Having married early, there are a few things Jared and Akothee could not achieve; but this did not stop her from aiming at the good life. Through her instagram page, the la went on to reveal how selfless Jared was towards his family; and for such small reasons she remains grateful to date.

His small salary covered their bills and clothed his children; making it hard for the neighbors to tell whether they were struggling on the low. This motivated Akothee to step in as a housewife since they couldn’t afford a house help.

Apart from being the perfect wife, Akothee goes on to reveal that she had always been submissive to her husband. She not only cooked but ironed, brushed his shoes and ensured his bath water was ready right before he sat down to eat.

Also read: Akothee: One of my children is paying 650k per term yet they are 5, how many men will I sleep with to cover this

Akothee during video shoot

Jared would bring food Every Time he came from a trip, he knew my weakness was the kitchen, he never ate at the neighbors, he always rushed home for lunch ???? I prepare his bathing water ,and by the time he comes from the bathroom his cloths and shoes well ironed and shoes brushed ,when he was ready in the bedroom, breakfast was ready for him on the table.

Also read: Shilole left looking unrecognizable after receiving serious beating from young husband (Photos)

Violence

Speaking about the first she was beaten, the singer says she was lied to by a friend to take alcohol; and being a

It’s unfortunate that the love ended without a notice. That’s the only time violence appeared, His attention was diverted and I felt left alone ????; so a friend of mine gave me alcohol and I came home drunk. That’s when ja SDA beat the hell out of me ????, Jared knows No violence. It was triggered by confusion, I had never told my children this. I was waiting for the right time to tell them why violence emerged after living peacefully for 10 solid years with their father. Some of my friends ,cheated and mislead me; one of them who used to cheat on her husband????. lied to me to save her number as if she is my boyfriend , so, she was to call me midnight and make Jared jelouse; on the other hand she alerted jared too. That I have a boyfriend???? who calls at midnight, be careful with WOMEN.????

Akothee shares tearful information about ugly divorce experience with her first love

Singer Akothee has seen it all! From getting married at a young age to living one of the worst life experiences ever witnessed.

So far the singer’s life has become public and there is nothing Akothee keeps away from her loyal supporters; expect her current, which I am very sure would entertain many!

Anyway as seen on her latest post, Akothee talks about her divorce with Jared; who happens to be the father of their 3 girls. According to Akothee, divorce is way worse than death! This is because it brings out the ugly memories and of course push and pull where children are involved.

Also read: “Don’t mess with my kids!” Akothee hurls unprintable insults at Massawe Japanni, promises to use her as example to the rest

Akothee talks about divorce

It’s easier said than done ,but I tell you , dirvoce is worse than death , especially when children are involve ????.I would never ever wish for any parents to divorce after living together for years and bring up their children as a family, I am not saying you stay in a toxic, violent unsatisfactory relationship, but if it ever happens that their is need to break up ????then please try do it discently without involving your children????.

Be mindful of your children

According to Akothee, through out the whole nasty experience; she made sure that her girls did not view their father as the Villain! However bad a situation was, she ensured to take the fall for him – just to make sure his daughters never saw the real him!

The only medal CUP I gained is trying as much as possible to enemy ???? it was hard ,I took bullets , I broke down when bills were overwhelming,my children never saw my tears , after my dirvoce ,they only learnt about my struggles on social media ,when I started sharing my past . My children will never understand when I have have money or not , they have never seen me struggle ????they think I have all solutions in the world ????????and that’s my strength. I bought them gifts every time my other children’s fathers came to visit their children with gifts,I made sure I received the gifts first???? combine with mines and present as a family .

Also read: “I used to feel like an orphan” Akothee’s daughter narrates how divorce tore her family apart

Dating other men as a single woman sometimes becomes hard as anything can happen. Your children may refuse to bond with the new man or the new man might not be ready to play the role of daddy to another man’s children. Speaking about her dating life, the mother of 5 said;

I forced every man in my life to love my children equally ????, but never asked them to call any of them daddy until OYOO WAS BORN it came automatically,They still had their biological father ,whom they Loved so much ,still love him ,they call him DAD . It was difficult at times when they insisted they wanted to talk to him, This broke me down severaly ,knowing he has moved on with another family and calling him will distruct his peace and the other family might feel like I am interfearing with their peace ????. I took them out Everytime if they were not in school ,we spent all our Saturdays and Sundays on the beach .

Lastly Akothee made it known that even the smallest of things could trigger her girls to remember the ugly experience from their past. She concluded by saying;

Also read; “I’m tired of sleeping alone!” Akothee in need of a male companion

We went to church once in a while ,since the songs sang in church would trigger the memories of the children since we brought them up in a strong church environment. ???? I & Jared played a part in ruining our childrens happiness while growing up ,we broke their hearts to the core ????I know and we all know that it can never be the same ,inside them ,there are broken girls ,thank God they forgave us and we are living as a family now ????

Akothee discloses the identity of the man who took her virginity back in the day! (Photo)

Singer Akothee rarely filters what she posts on social media; and neither does she care what critics have to say at the end of the day.

Just recently the singer unveiled a new photo taken during her union with her first husband Jared; who also happens to be the father of Akothee’s 3 girls.

As seen on the post, Akothee laughed off at how humble life was back then; not forgetting the oversized outfits they both wore on their wedding day. To describe this post, Akothee wrote;

Also read: Singer Akothee unveils never before seen photo from her Church wedding (Photo)

We my friend ,I was legally married in church ????????????????????, , don’t find me twerking naked on shoshomidia and imagine I just emerged from the streets of koinange ????????????????????????????????, But Daddy ,why oversized
AWENDO SDA CHURCH ????????????????????????????????????
Me and my first Love , Haki Mimi narudi , Nani anapinga ????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
Jared hawa watu hawanielewi
Halafu why were all the things so long haki ????‍♂️????‍♂️
See #Gameshoe

Sex life with Jared

Well, as seen on a new post shared on the singer….we understand that Jared was the first man Akothee had ever been with sexually.

Akothee with husband, Jared

I just don’t know why this love ended ???????? see romance shaa , just imagine I dint even have any idea of Sex ,I was just showing up in bed ????????????, I discovered Sex in 2010????????????,

According to the singer, back then she knew nothing about sleeping with a man admitting that her game was whack; however after years of perfecting her skills Akothee now wants a rematch!

On the lengthy detailed post Akothee went on to add;

Jared should try me now haki ????????, The ambulance should be packing downstairs , a patient will be visiting the doctors and that patient is not me ????????????.

We could have blamed Akothee’s posts on the aftermath caused by Corona virus pandemic; but truth is, Akothee has always proven to be special in her own way. She concluded the post:

I really feel like I should show him my new styles and the things I learnt on earth after I left ????????I have advanced ????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
God bless you and your family Jakamagambo
Sani Atwera proper , jogi kiaya ????????????

Stop bragging! Akothee attacked after begging fans to stop fearing Silverstone Planes 

Singer Akothee has found herself on the wrong side following a plea to fans not to be afraid of the Silverstone Airlines which have been involved in several accidents.

The singer who is the brand ambassador of the airline was recently on social media to say that she uses the airline always and it’s world standard.

However, didn’t buy her statement saying that she only talks about the planes in a good way because she has been paid.

No apology

In the long statement, fans wondered why Akothee didn’t promise any improvements, corrections or apologies but just went on a bragging spree saying how she’s flies a lot.

Read the statement below:

Goodmorning people . Well I have been offline due to things being different on the ground. For the past 2 years we @silverstoneairservices have made 10,000 safe landings ,flying 1 million frequent flayers and operating 14 daily flights ! You have never heard any complaints of funny incidents, personally I have my bedroom in the plane, I spend more time at the airports than in my homes, so I will clearly tell you that the two incidents that Silverstoneairservices has hard is not new,it happens if not daily then couple of times on different airlines, ! The only challenge here is SILVERSTONEAIRSERVICES is a famous airline , The celebrity Airline with many fans and haters too! Well we have to admit that safety is key and measures should be taken to ensure that our customers are safe , but let’s go back to history , we have been flying for over 2 YEARS ????‍♂️, I personally fly all my family, friends and fans @Silverstoneairservices, do you want to tell me that I am risking my life and the life of my beloved ones? I will be flying the 19 models to malindi together with my own daughter do you think I am risking the life of my children ? Common , please as a frequent flayer, I will tell you that nothing is new, just the other day we had our own Kenyan flight turn back for emergency landing in jkia ,it dint reach Tanzania due to technical issues , have people stopped going to Tanzania? I have been flying over 15 years, I live in between the counties and countries I dont remember the last time I did road ????‍♂️, years back before Silverstoneairservices, we have heard tire bursts, engine failures, delayed flights , planes leaving the runway off the grass, but it has never been news since this planes are not famous , personally I have taken a plane from kisumu to Nairobi, only to find ourselves ontop of Indian Ocean, pilot saying nothing, only to be told, ooh, sorry we lost our way and now heading back to Nairobi ????????, I have been in a plane that left the runway upon take off and ended up on the grass????‍♂️, the other day another plane landed on the heads of the wild animals in maasai mara it was not news,the same plane had a tire burst yesterday ,on the runway

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I will still go back to parliament in a short skirt- Akothee Screams 

Singer Akothee was recently in trouble over her dress code in parliament. The singer visited parliament in a very short skirt while pushing for her foundation something which angered many.

In an interview recently, Akothee confessed that she will still wear the same skirt in case she’s going to parliament again.

“Given a chance back, I will do the same dress code. What shocked me was the fact that people forgot my aim of going to Parliament. They started focusing on my dress code, which doesn’t feed anyone. The people I’m feeding right now in Turkana are actually walking naked. Why isn’t anyone talking about Turkana people who are hungry and naked?” she said. 

Legs

She further added that that the skirt wasn’t the problem it was actually her legs and didn’t understand why there was so much fuss around it.

“That was one of my best dress code. We got an email from the PA saying we should wear suits, I wore a suit. My legs are the ones longer than the skirt. If it was worn by another woman, that would have been a maxi to her. When I wake up, I dress according to the occasion.”

Nelly Oaks disses gossipers who have been all over his business 

Akothee’s manager Nelly Oaks has launch an attack on gossipers who have been spreading fakes stories about him.

The manager, who was also rumoured to be dating Akothee, has been attacked severally online for allegedly flaunting Akothee’s wealth.

Tagging

In his post, Oaks posted a clip flaunting a convertible Audi urging people to stop gossiping around.

“People gossip. People are insecure, so they talk about other people so that they won’t be talked about. They point out flaws in other people to make them feel good about themselves. Look do not tag me in any rubbish or I block you completely. All this bullshit going around social media has nothing to do with me or her. Nelly’s class is above anybody’s payroll,” he wrote.

Watch him flaunt the car below:

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Ezekiel Mutua praises Akothee just weeks after shaming her for parting legs on stage 

Kenya Films Classifications Board (KFCB) CEO Dr. Ezekiel Mutua has no problem with Akothee’s dress code.

Speaking in an interview with NTV, the popular moral cop said that though he was against her controversial performance, he likes her dress code and she should continue looking good.

“Akothee is a performer and she has to look good I have no problem with her dress code as she said her legs are longer than the skirt. You know Akothee is a superstar and she has reformed she looks beautiful,” he said.

Content

His message comes just a few days after Akothee was kicked out of parliament for wearing a rather short skirt. Mutua said that he doesn’t have issues with people’s dress code but just their content.

“I will only have an issue with inappropriate content when it is displayed in the public. However, if such was in the privacy of their homes, then KFCB will have no business with it,”  he added.  

 

Akothee is officially tired of dating

Singer Akothee will not be looking for a man again anytime soon because it’s frustrating and draining her.

The singer took to social media recently to reveal that she doesn’t want a man anymore because relationships have been stressing her.

“Single and not searching let everyone live a afree life that makes them happy, relationships drains me , I forget myself and start investing on my relationship. I have officially taken a break from dating anyone or anyone dating me . leave me alone ???????????? I have papa Oyoo and papa Ojwang in my head ,its enough headache ????????” she posted on social media.

Times

It’s not the first time the singer has made such comments. several times Akothee has claimed she doesn’t need a man but has always ended up in the dating pool.

Akothee’s ‘parting legs’ performance that Ezekiel Mutua and other Kenyans hated made her very rich

Singer Akothee has come out to reveal that the performance she had at Papa Remo beach, Watamu that left Kenyans pissed, mostly morality cop Ezekiel Mutua, was a true blessing.

Taking to social media, the singer claimed that she made a lot of money from the performance because it trended positively in Italy despite people hating it here in Kenya.

Akothee said she has also been booked to perform for Italian dignitaries after the “lovely” performance.

“Stay around people who love you for you and lights your candle! Roberto invited me for a show in his Hotel in papa Remo for the Valentine’s. Which to Kenyans they thought I was a disgrace, the show trended negatively locally, and trended positively internationally, Kenyans called me a disgrace but Italians called me MADONA OF KENYA,” wrote Akothee.

Thank you

Akothee took the opportunity to throw shade at Mutua saying that he really blessed her by mercilessly attacking her performance.

“Someone tell Mutua he was a blessing, I thought you should know that, if you ever fought for me online it has brought blessings,” Akothee concluded.

“The show trended positively in Italy and that changed the position of my pocket and a breakthrough in my career, because of this show I will be performing exclusively for Italian dignitaries on the 7th September in Kilili baharini everything was already paid for, and I have an invite for another exclusive show in MONACO I am here to finalize the purchase of my new home in Watamu.”

Akothee cries like a baby after finally realizing she’s almost 40 years with five kids and no husband (video)  

Akothee has been preaching a lot about women not necessarily needing a man in their lives. It seems that song has changed tune.

The controversial singer was recently on social media to post a rather confusing clip of her crying because she’s almost 40 years old and doesn’t’ have a husband.

We don’t know whether it’s her usual theatrics or this is  serious business. The mother of five announced her plan to be someone’s wife before 2020 and her fans quickly supported her.

In the video, she cries while her daughters are trying to soothe her.

 

“In 2 years I am 40 .I have to stoppe all the bulshit and settle down????????????, you dont understand? I need to get married have a child and thats it 2020 ????????????????❤” she said. 

True or not, it’s not the first time the singer has posted such a message. Several times Akothee has talked about adding one more child and trying her final luck in settling down.

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Akothee takes us down memory lane with her first love in a long moving post

President of Single Mothers, Akothee comes clean on what transpired in her past after being chased away from their village with her first baby daddy.

Madam Boss shares a vintage photo with her first baby daddy and in a long post, humorously captions:

See my first love ????????, the man who broke my virginity , the father of my 3 beautiful daughters @veshashaillan@rue.baby @fancy_makadia ,

Yes the man who taught me that people kiss,????????

I always ran away with my mouth, I was wondering why I should eat somebody’s siliva????????

However daring, it was not a smooth sail after the two got chased away from their village, without a place to call home.

The support

Good thing is how supportive her first love was to her, even if he knew he was risking his education.

Apart from us breaking up , this guy had my back, we went through shit together ,

Even when his parents said no to me , he stood by me, we were thrown out together to go back in the village ,

He was still a student, so when his parents chased me away, he said he is coming with me.

The two were literally deported from home having to struggle to make ends meet and still accomplish their youthful goals.

So we Were deported from awendo to the village KANGA , where they had built us a house ,

He was still a student at moi University ,

So when schools opened he gave me 3000 ksh from his porket money , to survive with our 3 children ,

So I looked at this money and said, if I shop with this money , I dint know when I will set my eyes on the next shilling????

The growth

Like the thoughts of a mother, in order to see your children survive the test of time and still sustain yourself.

The then mother of 3 chose to reap benefits long term.

So, I decided to put up a business ,

I went to kisii daraja mbilli and bought stock of omena, tomatoes and cabbages ,

I started a grocery in our local market Kanga????????,

However, it still pained Akothee´s mother to see the fruits of her own labor, waste away due to life choices she had made.

My mum was always ashamed when she saw her learned , bright intelligent daughter selling omena yet we came from a good family,

But I had messed up and grew wings I could not fit in my mothers house anymore with a hand full of children ,

I grew wings I had to fly ,

Back to the main agenda, the International baby mama still respects her first baby daddy because it was through him that she was able to bloom.

RESPECT MAN JARO ,

My grocery grew and I rented a shop , then I expanded my business into selling cloths ,

When I was stable small , I went back to school because this was my mothers dream ,

Respect my own Jared you be my MCM ,

To top it all up, Akothee reveals how successful her first baby daddy currently is, glad that even though it never worked out, he never walked out on her.

Most of you could be wondering what he does for a living well ,

He has masters degree a senior accountant with a very stable family and 2 kids

plus mine 5 one word for jakamagambonani ????????????????????

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