Amber Ray shares biggest lesson she learnt from losing her best friend

Socialite Amber Ray recently lost her best friend Sally aka Empresal, something she now refers to a big wake up call on the importance of appreciating life while still alive.

Days after the funeral the socialite is back to her old posting days and if you thought losing BFF Sally was going to help her tone down the her freaky lifestyle; then guess what – it actually made her worse.

Amber Ray

This is because Amber says she now see’s life from a different angle; and unlike before when she lived life according to people’s expectations – this time around everything will be on her own terms.

Also read: Amber Ray mourns late best friend in moving post, promises to take care of the kids she left behind

My biggest lesson from losing someone close to me is; You cannot lose what you didn’t have in the first place. A life lost is life itself reminding you that even though you are also on your way out, you are still here! I am still here! Now I will live like I have never before because I know now that I will one day be gone and in time forgotten by most.

Amber Ray – life is for the living

Her new decision to live life to the fullest is not new since we all know her slogan ‘life is for the living;’ that was dropped during her fight with Amira.

Also read: Shame on you all! Amber Ray issues statement following rumors surrounding her best friend’s untimely death

Amber Ray

But come to think of it, has Amber ever lived by the rules? I mean, she’s a mum to a teenage son and still posts nudes… Anyway to conclude her post, Amber wrote;

In the meantime, nitawasumbua in ways even I don’t yet understand. But first, let me get my skin back on track ????…. I will live even for those who cannot. Good morning world..

Zero chills! Sarah Kabu leaves no stone unturned while attacking Amber Ray and bestie, Phoina

Bonfire owner Sarah Kabu earlier this afternoon gave fans a reason to talk after her comment about Amber Ray and Phoina Tosha; who she claims are the most beautiful and fashionable women she has ever come across.

However despite all that beauty and glam – the Bonfire CEO still finds them petty; and for the lack of a better word – slay queens. The mother of 3 revealed this in Amber Ray’s comment section; where she responded to Amber who was throwing shade in a post where she wrote;

Amber Ray

Jabo jabo, If no one has ever labelled you a slayqueen … that means you have never dressed well or looked good ???? #Amberthebrand #tbt Outfit @_layiq ???? @muma_pix

Sarah Kabu hits back

Being one who doesn’t take criticism lightly – Sarah Kabu decided to hit back at thee socialite; and boy did she serve low blows to Amber Ray and Phoina.

According to Sarah Kabu – the two ladies may have  all it takes to turn heads; but when it comes down to the classy women lane – these two would remain basic. Mrs Kabu wrote;

Hahah Amber and Phoi when it comes to beauty hata hatuwezi bishana…nyinyi mko juu clapping ???????? ???????????????? I would vote for you as the most beautiful and glamour women in Kenya. Lakini niki attend mkutanoya First Ladies wa senators and governors, MP and top CEOs all over kenya najua siwezi kosa kustand out vile mimi hustand out kwa world travel awards ???? ???? ???? but much love from #thekabus enjoy your life many slayqueens are looking up to u…I respect lanes ❤️

Weuh…not sure why these two are serving low blows; but chances are that someone’s man may have caused all this drama.