It appears Oga Obinna has trouble back at home with one of his baby mamas by the name of Mama Adalola who claims the fella has been bad mouthing her around the kids and as you knows – kids listen, and without thinking- just act because they heard it from an adult.
Anyway from the screenshots shared from Mama Adalola’s page we believe that a lot has been happening behind closed doors; and this being a family matter – probably it’s best to watch from the sidelines.
As seen on one of the screenshots, the lady implies that Obinna is the kind of man that would rather take his kids from their mum in order to support and give them a good life; and not one who offers child support if the kid remains with the mum. Tricky sana. But I can promise he is not the only one.
Obinna vs baby mama
Although Obinna might not have the best reputation on social media at the moment, there are those who have applauded him for refusing to engage Mama Alola in bitter online exchange.
Actually what he did is respond by saying he will not out her for what she does or tells (insults) him behind closed doors – only because she is the mother of his two daughters. Otherwise social media would get to know who she is.
lol. Mambo ni mengi masaa ni machache. Niponge Ama nisiponge!! Wheh! Do I release audios or I take the insults as a man? Since huwa sipigani na wamama and for the sake of the kids lemme keep quiet and take the beating.
Obinna from toxic family
I know in a relationship there’s always that one person that loves more than the other, there’s also those who trauma bond; and sometimes you end up with someone with toxic traits borrowed from those who brought them up.
In this case – we all know that Obinna did not have a good relationship with his father. Speaking about their relationship as father and son – Obinna says his dad always picked on him for being too cheeky.
According to him, no matter what he did – his dad never seemed to approve which means he may have developed a defense mechanism; where ‘he tries to always be right’ just to feel in control since – you know his dad reduced him to nothing by making him his least favorite child.
And now that he has money and has made it in life…his baby mamas have to either live by his rules or leave the kids with him. Those who refuse then have to struggle on their own.
Anyway – like I always say, family issues can either be resolved at a family court, meeting with elders – but not online. Basically because we all have our problems – imagine if we all brought them online?
