Jimal Roho Safi reminded me of an old West African proverb my mentor keeps repeating: No man is a hero to his wife and it really does capture his situation.
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Why? Well, to answer that, you have to understand what this proverb speak to. A man might be a hero to sociaety but he will never have that allure over his wife.
Basically, Jimal Roho Safi is realizing that regardless of what youth in his area call him due to his business success; kiongozi, bingwa, bazu, he will always be Jimal wa Madeni to Amira.
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Why? Well, because whenever he was sick and he happened to spoil his pants, she was there to clean them, not Amberay. Amberay is simply the Jezebel spirit that gets to enjoy him after his wins and successes.
Jamal Marlow (as he is also known) has been with Amira through his struggles and insecurities. He has been with her as he spent countless nights trying to get his businesses off the ground. She has seen him at his most insecure and troubled aswell as at his best. What does he have to show her?
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And perhaps that is the issue. In Amberay he sees an opportunity to reinvent himself and he wants that chance. Or perhaps in Amberay he sees the universe paying him dividends for all his sacrifices and hard work.
Whatever the case may be, I can only hope that this shows Bwana Safi that he cannot scare his wife. She has seen him at his sickest and had to wash his soiled boxers and when he vomited on himself, she was right there to help him.
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Simply put, he needs to wisen up and become smart about how he deals with her.
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