Vera to Kenyan women: Stop pushing your men to change

Socialite Vera Sidika was on Instagram this weekend to share that a man will never change for a woman unless he wants to.

According to Vera, men should not be pushed because at the end of the day, they’ll decide what they want to do.

She further to women that men they are trying to mould will never change because to them, they are not the lovers they desire.

“I’ve seen men leave 5-10 years relationships, turn around and get married to a woman he’s known for 6 months,” she said.


Vera also believes that men only change when they like you a reason why women should stop pushing them.

“And does all the things his ex always begged him to do. Word of advice. Stop preaching to these men, they hear you.

“He’s not going to ever be the man you want him to be because you’re not the woman he wants to be with, people change for who they want, period,” she wrote on her InstaStory.  

Vera Sidika says she has no beef with OG since their bleaching incident: He’s my favorite rapper 

Socialite Vera Sidika has denied that he’s not in good terms with rapper Khaligraph Jones despite their constant back and forths online.

In fact, the socialite said that Jones, who is one of the best rapper in Kenya, is actually her favorite.

She was speaking in a question and answer session on social media where she revealed the two have locked horns different times online but that doesn’t mean they hate each other.


Vera Sidika and rapper Khaligraph Jones first fired at each other sometimes in May 2017 following their bleaching incident. Since the two have been trolling each other online.

Sidika said the beef was all fake.

“The beef was fake, and people did not know that we created the beef. If the fans think we have beef then let them think so,” Vera Sidika confessed.

Kenyans can’t believe socialite Vera Sidika lost her virginity just 9 years ago, at age 20

Socialite Vera Sidika recently opened up on her sexual life, shocking many after revealing when she first had sex.

Celebs of late have been opening up on when they first had sex and for Vera, it all happened when she was 20 years. Okay, Vera is 29 years old now. Many have claimed she has been 29 for the past 3 years a thing that has always disturbed fans.


Anyway, according to the socialite, it all happened after taking Amarula, which, was also her first time to take alcohol.

The socialite was speaking in a question and answer session on her instagram page where she revealed several other things such as dating Kabogo’s son(she didn’t) and hoping to be a mother soon.

She also claimed she’s a friend of American superstar Drake and they speak once in a while.

Ataweza? ¨She has an amazing heart and I will do it all for her¨ Kenyan producer Jegede in love with Vera Sidika

Pacho records super producer, Jegede goes a mile further in expressing his eternal love for Socialite-cum-video vixen, Vera Sidika.

According to the choreographer, he is serious about the bootyful socialite, whom they have been in communication with for a while now.

Speaking to Radio Maisha, the gospel artist affirms:

I am not joking.

I want you to understand the seriousness of the matter.

We´ve met a couple of times in studio and in video shoot but she was in a relationship then.

Now she is single so….I want Vera.

Apparently, the artist cites that he even sent her a romantic DM.

The music sensation adds:

First of all, it´s not a stunt, I am very serious.

I think I can be the right man for her because the little time we chatted I could tell she has an amazing heart.

We do not have to post our relationship on social media I will do it all for her.

Even cook for her.

Surprisingly, the gospel artist dropped a bomb after stating he went under, to tan himself before re-emerging looking lighter.

I am just a normal Kenyan.

I have been missing so that the bleach can work out.

He seems proud of his new look as he can´t wait to unleash his new tint to the world especially to curvaceous Vera.