Singer Jovial has used her Instagram account to explain that she is done trying to be a good person. She said that she has come to realize that being a good person can often feel like a curse.
Jovial explained that she has always been a people-pleaser, and that she has always put the needs of others before her own. However, she has come to realize that this has led to her being taken advantage of.
She said that people often expect her to be available to them at all times, and that they don’t appreciate her kindness. She also said that people often don’t appreciate her boundaries, and that they will try to guilt her into doing things that she doesn’t want to do.
Jovial said that she is tired of being taken advantage of, and that she is no longer willing to be a people-pleaser. She said that she is going to start putting her own needs first, and that she is not going to be afraid to say no to people.
“Hawakupendi, wanapenda unachotoa! Wahitaji tu kidogo, hawapatikani kamwe!
Wahitaji tu kidogo hawapatikani, kuwa na roho nzuri ni kama laana unahumia tu kufurahisha watu alafu unakufa maskini wanabaki kusema alikuwa mtu mzuri.”
She said that she knows that some people will not understand her decision, but she doesn’t care. She said that she is finally putting herself first, and that she is going to be happier for it.
Jovial’s decision to stop being a good person is a bold one, but it is one that many people can relate to. There is a lot of pressure to be a good person, and it can be difficult to set boundaries and say no. However, it is important to remember that you are not obligated to be a people-pleaser. You have the right to put your own needs first, and you should not feel guilty about doing so.
If you are feeling like Jovial, and you are tired of being taken advantage of, then it is time to start putting yourself first. You have the right to be happy, and you should not let anyone make you feel otherwise.