Marya Prude is wrong, marriage is an achievement

Marya Prude has come out to speak about her abortive marriage to Willis Raburu while she was 23 year old and she feels that it (marriage and being married) is not an achievement.

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I woke up this morning with so much to do in my mind and I just remembered I got married at 23, yes yes! Mind-blowing ???? 23! Idk what the fuck i was thinking.

I would be so far rn if I wasn’t busy serving society and other humans their expectations of me as a married woman coz I would be doing most of what I’m doing rn to catch up.
Alafu pia marriage isn’t an achievement ok bye…

Ex couple; Willis and Maryaprude

But thing is, she is wrong and science is here to save the day from people making their reality, their necessity a virtue. Especially for women.

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Understand that unlike what your favourite feminist will tell you, I believe men and women are better together. That is because we were created to be together. And so I need to correct the silly notion Marya Prude is pushing.

Young Maryaprude living life to the fullest

You see, the most unhappy demography are single, childless women aged between 45-70 because life gets pretty lonely. And there is a Yale paper on this called the Paradox of Declining Female Happiness.

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So where do marriages come into all this? Well, for starters, Marya Prude is 100% wrong when she claims that they aren’t an achievement. Why? Because they are the best way for us to raise the next generation. Seriously, children born to married or otherwise committed couples have a better chance of raising successful, balanced and happy children.

MaryaPrude flaunting baby bump

And then there is the fact that feminists over the years have been shaming women for wanting to be mothers, wives and homemakers while hypocritically calling for women to be anything they want to be.

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And Marya Prude arguing that marriage isn’t an achievement means she has swallowed that lie… Or maybe she’s still bitter. And who can blame her? Her marriage came to an end due to some horrendous situations borne of two miscarriages.

Ms Marya Prude Ngami

But the truth is, women who do not have families tend to be heavily on antidepressants and that’s something we need to appreciate. Also, it takes hard work to make a marriage and the subsequent family a success. Make no mistake about it, it needs you to be fully plugged in.

But then this is the one task in life that is its own reward. And it’s why it is so satisfying for both men and women. Ultimately, we are organisms whose drive is to procreate and the best setting for healthy successful offspring is a family so ofcourse marriage is an achievement.

Unless ofcourse, you’re a modern woman whose only idea of success is a hollow notion that wasn’t even you’re first whim as a child but rather from feminists who don’t even know that older feminists have come out to disavow the bullshit they spewed.

That also stems from the modern way of thinking that claims that a modern woman isn’t fully experiencing life unless she is in the workforce, aiming for a career and also sexually promiscuous. And this is all false. There is no shame knowing from the jump that what you want is a monogamous relationship.

Marya Prude needs to go for therapy and counselling because it still feels like her ideas on marriage are informed by her failed marriage because on the flip side, her ex-husband moved on to a new marriage and he is happy with his wife and their children.



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Willis Raburu recently opened up about what led to the demise of his relationship with Marya Prude, his 1st wife and it all boils down to the unfortunate miscarriage she suffered that led to the end of their unborn baby.

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While on the face of things, it would seem like a small issue that any couple can resolve but this is a symptom of a bigger underlying problem that young couples usually face that leads them down the path of divorce.

Marya Prude Raburu and hubby, Willis Raburu

And what Willis Raburu and Marya Prude’s story exposes is just how romanticised the notion of love and marriage are and this is why so many marriages these days lead to divorce and unhappy, angry divorcees.

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The symptom that broke their marriage was the miscarriage but the greater underlying problem was that their marriage was built on the flimsy BS notion of “love”. And I am here to tell you today that you cannot base a marriage on so fleeting an emotion.

Celebrity couple, Marya Prude and Willis Raburu

You see, there is a huge disconnect between our generation and the older ones. Previous generations understood that marriages were not about love. That is an emotion that comes and goes, it wanes and waxes. That is why when Willis Raburu’s was rocked with misfortune, they didn’t stand a chance.

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And that is how many modern marriages are set up. Rather than understanding, they are meant to focus on long-term goals such as creating a stable environment for their kids, securing their legacy and building wealth, they are focused on feelings. So right after the honeymoon, all things are downhill for a while but largely undiagnosed.

Willis Raburu and his wife Mary Ngami

Also, that gap between generations I spoke of earlier? It explains why modern couples do not turn to their elders for advice when their marriages are rocked. Willis Raburu and Marya Prude grew apart because they were all engrossed in their grief and personal tragedy and any wiser older couple that has survived the same would be able to give you great advice on how to ride out the tumultuous waters.

But he has since moved on to a new marriage, the hope is that he has learnt from his previous mistakes and will translate them now so his is a long-lived marriage to Ivy Namu.

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Marya Prude Found Out Her Options Might Not Be On Willis Raburu’s Level

Marya Prude and Willis went their separate ways long ago, enough so for Willis Raburu to have moved on and started yet another family with Ivy Namu.

Willis Raburu vs Marya Prude: The difference between how men and women handle broken marriage

The thing about that is that while she still bears some ill-will towards Willis Raburu, even though he has tried not to say anything negative about his ex because he chooses to respect the woman who almost gave him his first child.

Willis Raburu’s ex wife

On her end though, Marya Prude has been trying to move on to no avail. She posted a funny video on her Instagram stories in which some guy was complaining about the state of dating in the modern world.

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It was rather hilarious for me to realize that the main reason why she was having such a problem is because she is directly attempting to replace Willis Raburu with a replica and she cannot find one in the dating market.

Willis Raburu’s ex wife

While we think it would be easy for a lady as attractive as her to simply replace a guy like Willis Raburu, one thing people do not realize is that he is actually of higher value than most men in the dating pool.

Willis Raburu’s wife Marya Prude seems to be moving on

He is a celebrated news anchor, a popular radio personality and an artist. Regardless of whether or not you think he is cool, he has status.

Marya prude looking adorable

If she thinks she can easily replace him, she has to look to the top 3% of men. Yup, that makes things really tough. Because he not only has status but is also on an insane level of income.

So she can play the field but she will eventually have to settle for the lesser men -unless by some miracle, a high value man decides to look her way and ignore the fact that she failed at marriage.

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Willis Raburu vs Marya Prude: The difference between how men and women handle broken marriage

Willis Raburu and Marya Prude were dating ever since word spread that he and his ex had broken up under a cloud of suspicion of infidelity. In truth, the relationship started under that dark cloud but has since moved on and gone full circle.

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You see, the two dated and then got married and the marriage between them has now ended -though they are still separated and not actually divorced. Willis Raburu on his part has maintained silence. It is Marya Prude who drops hints and snippets about the failed union that keep tongues wagging.

Willis Raburu's ex Marya Prude
Marya Prude Ngami slaying

So what happens at this point? Well, Willis Raburu keeps getting dragged in the mud for his chosen silence. No one is around to stand in the role of his advocate. Marya Prude, however, gains all the sympathies and even comes off as the aggrieved party.

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When she talks, she does so about her realization that marriage is a scam and she wouldn’t be too keen on getting married anytime soon. Or she talks about it not being a worthy endeavour to try and change an individual. It is actually a very telling way of saying what she thinks without having to say the words herself.

Willis Raburu and Marya Prude
The Raburus when they were still a couple

And this left me wondering. Why is it that when men and women end their union, the woman always goes out of her way to paint herself as the victim? Why is it never just the natural way of things to be left unsaid on social media and private between the couple?

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You don’t see Willis Raburu going around either trying to defend himself or demonize his ex-wife. You will however see Marya Prude posting little snippets on social media. At this point, it would make sense for the grown woman to either come out and say what she wants to say and stop being passive-aggressive or for her to simply remain silent.

Willis Raburu
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It is almost asthough she forgets that she willingly exchanged vows with the man and now cannot act like she was surprised by what she had signed on for. She should have done the due diligence of finding out who the type of man she was marrying is.

Yet here we are, Marya Prude busying herself with playing the victim and refusing to take any accountability or responsibility on the matter. Instead, she lashes out with passive-aggressive blanket statements about marriage. At the end of the day, the fact that I agree with her on marriage is immaterial because she is the one who selected to make an investment without doing her due diligence. And we should not be making excuses for her.

There were two people in their union. Whatever happened, if there is blame to be apportioned, it should be done so equitably. Afterall, they had dated for over two years by the time she decided to finally settle down as man and wife.

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With the way Marya Prude is healing, Willis Raburu’s marriage is truly dead

Marya Prude and Willis Raburu’s marriage has been in the doldrums and has been rocked by what whispers claim are infidelity issues. And while many fans and friends of the couple are praying for them to come back together and re-ignite their love, I would argue that light is dying faster than the GoK’s (Government of Kenya) Covid19 enthusiasm.

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Marya Prude, unlike most of her contemporaries with failed marriages such as Betty Kyallo and Amina Mude, she hasn’t gone on the offensive. Marya Prude hasn’t been talking smack about her marriage, she hasn’t been talking ill about her marriage and she hasn’t even gone on to start posting sexually suggestive posts.

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Willis Raburu’s ex-wife, Mary Ngami with a lifted spirit

Marya Prude is all about healing and posting actually positive vibration posts on social media.

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She, unlike her contemporaries, hasn’t even bothered to breathe a word about her former husband. And while he has been out and about visibly enjoying his life, Marya Prude has been silent. She has been so quiet, it has been deafening. It may not speak but it breathes.

marya prude and Willis Raburu
Ex-couple, Marya Prude and Willis Raburu

Anyone who knows women knows that when a woman is fed up, she no longer has the energy to engage.

I had actually forgotten just how many classic songs R.Kelly had but this isn’t about urine or potentially criminal awesomely talented RnB singers.

marya prude at her wedding
Marya Prude and Willis Raburu

At the end of the day, we need to also temper our enthusiasm of the fact that she is moving on because we do not get to see what life really is like for the former couple off social media and everyone knows social media is highly curated but I am really impressed that she has managed to keep a lid on her emotions.

And Willis raburu too doesn’t seem to be in a hurry to fix his marriage and the more time passes by, the more difficult it will be for them to actually fix things. But what do I know? Though, it is rather interesting to see her work to shed some of her relationship weight. You know what they say about the changes women make when they are preparing to get back into the dating pool right?


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Willis Raburu’s wife Marya Prude seems to be moving on

Willis Raburu, the celebrated Citizen TV media personality who was reported to have had a falling out with his wife Marya Prude before they subsequently separated seems to be witnessing a shift in his wife’s mental space as she switches to focusing on healing and moving on.

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A sense of acceptance can be seen to have washed over Marya prude who has silently been striving to strengthen herself for the next phase of her life and regardless of what happens, the woman who emerges from this trial will be different.

willis raburu

And to his credit, Willis Raburu isn’t exactly sitting around waiting to see what the future holds either but this article is meant to celebrate the wholesome way Marya Prude has moved on.

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A quick look at her social media shows a woman focused on her everyday struggle of making ends meet but when you delve deeper, you see a healthy mind moving on from the traumatic experience of suffering a miscarriage then the demise of her marriage.

willis raburu and marya prude

And celebrities like Tanasha Donna, Zari and even Akothee should borrow a leaf from her book because she is what young girls need to model themselves on as they face the inevitability of heartbreaks.

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There are no attention grabs with photographs of a sexually titillating nature and there are definitely no cheap quips and posts made to dig at Willis Raburu. They have decided to handle their affairs privately. And though it can be argued that they have taken this move in an attempt to work on salvaging their marriage but this, in essence, displays a sense of maturity.

marya prude and willis raburu

The understanding they have is that not everyone who hears about their issues has their best intentions at heart. So rather than expose their marriage to any negativity cloaked as help, Marya Prude and Raburu are dealing with things privately.

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Or perhaps this is truly the end of their marriage and the trip to America did little in way of salvaging the situation, instead cementing the decision to split up. But whatever the case may be, Marya Prude has done herself some justice by maintaining bother her own and the honour of her ex-husband.

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Infidelity scandal: Why everyone is concerned about Willis Raburu

Willis Raburu was a hot topic afew days ago when words spread that his marriage was in the ICU after he kicked out his wife, Marya Raburu (former?). According to the rumour mills, Willis even has a new spleng ting who has been occupying his mind and keeping the cold of the season at bay.

Fresh twists in Willis Raburu’s wrangles with wife

And Kenyans are eating up this scandal. Everyday conversations have become about the couple. And with good reason, Willis Raburu and his wife had opened up their private lives to the public, allowing us all in to witness their love and their shared fervour for Christ. They were the quintessential family.

Willis Raburu and his wife
Marya with Willis Raburu

So it should come as no surprise the morbid fascination with which Kenyans are watching the new developments of their lives unfold. The same fascination they fostered is now coming back like a boomerang to bite them in the ass. But why are people keeping a keen eye on and an open ear out for the issues afflicting the Raburus? Let us find out for ourselves.

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The first obvious reason is schadenfreude. People love to see the famous fall. We as a society loved seeing Willis Raburu and his beau loved up. And now we love seeing him fail at love.

The Raburu couple
Marya Prude and Willis Raburu

The second obvious reason is that Kenyans became invested in their marriage. How could we not when their lives played out right before our eyes like a soap opera? We were their “internet in-laws”.

The relationship finally feels real. Finally, we can see them as actual human beings and their failings are all too real. They re just like us and struggle just like we do. This has humanized the couple.

Willis Raburu, Marya Prude
The Raburus

And for most men, Willis Raburu’s story is one that harbours the promise of success after your wife. Can you imagine that? Willis Raburu isn’t exactly a looker. And he is a fat man at that. But he has been putting in the work to improve his body for his own health. And as a result, he is healthier and full of energy so even his craft has been improving. And all that has allowed him to get another hot woman.

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Some of the things we were shown in their relationship were troubling. For instance, we were once treated to a shot in which Marya was trying to change her husband “for the better” and other garbage short stories. So seeing him get himself back up, dust himself on and keep it moving allows us some catharsis.

And even if you can argue that this was a joke, people tend to joke about their real-life situations. We become what we admire after all.


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