Why we need to defeat the growing single mother epidemic

When you listen to your favourite celebrities, women such as Carol Sonnie, Maureen Waititu, Akothee, tiffany Muikamba and the rest of them, you’d be led to believe that single motherhood is not only heroic but is also easy.

Reality of single motherhood dawns on young Tiffany Muikamba, she calls out deadbeat baby daddy – Bensoul

And when Father’s Day comes around a lot of celebrities celebrate their single mothers who raise them by taking on both the role of mother and father. The same happens on Mother’s Day, Women’s Day, hell even on Men’s Day. And we are led to believe that there is no nobler calling than that of being a single mother.

Carol Sonnie baby bump

But all of that is a trap. All of that is a lack of accountability and the resultant delusion meant to make single mothers feel good about their circumstances and also lower other women into the trap single motherhood. This is not to absolve the useless bums who get themselves caught up in situations where they either get baby trapped or are so reckless they have created multiple single mothers.

Akothee is proof enough why men should steer clear of single mothers

But when we go by concepts created by natural sciences such as Brifaults Law, we begin to understand that it is women and not men who are responsible for the creation of children as they select the men with whom to procreate with. If a woman does not use a man then he will not be able to procreate. And our history as a species proves this to be true given that in the past, for every one man that procreated, 17 women did so. Or to put it another way, for every 17 women who got to donate their genetics to humanity’s gene pool, only one man got the same opportunity.

There is clear evidence that single mothers get to choose the Men They procreated with and they are selecting the worst possible man to become fathers. They are selecting the “bad boys”: the irresponsible and immature men to procreate with.

Carol Sonnie’s revelation that single motherhood is tough is hilarious!

And for us to counter this speed of single motherhood we need to return back to the days when a woman would refuse to carry a child for any man who did not marry her. Marry before you carry.

And there are a lot of good reasons why we need to put a stop to the increasing numbers of single mothers. The statistics of single mother led households tell a rather damning tale. One that we should be very terrified of especially when we have situations of single mothers raising sons. When it comes to single mothers raising daughters we largely have to fear the fact that single mothers raise single mothers. Women who even though they might get married and up ruining their families by walking away when things get tough.

Amber Ray is the worst type of single mother there is

Of course that’s not to say that a woman should stay when her husband is abusive. And the fact that I have to clarify this in such autistic detail tells you that I am aware that feminists are waiting to twist my words to meet their ends.

But why is single motherhood the bane of any civilization’s existence? Why are my family against single motherhood? Let’s look at the statistics which will prove to you beyond the shadow of a doubt why we need to completely destroy single motherhood and return to nuclear families or even polygamous families before it gets too late.

Why Ms Morgan and other single mothers deserve no sympathy

90% of welfare recipients are single mothers
70% of gang members, high school dropouts, teen suicides, teen pregnancies, and teenage drug abusers are from single-mother households
63% of national suicides are done by individuals who grew up in single-mother homes
90% or runaway children are from single-mother households are from single mother households
85% of children with behavioural disorders are from single-mother households
80% of rapists motivated by displaced anger grew up in single-mother homes
85% of imprisoned youth grew up in single-mother homes

Yet another study I found revealed the following:

Children brought up in single-mother homes are:

  • 5 times more likely to commit suicide,
  • 9 times more likely to drop out of high school,
  • 10 times more likely to abuse chemical substances,
  • 14 times more likely to commit rape,
  • 20 times more likely to end up in prison,
  • 32 times more likely to run away from home.

And again because I know the feminist witch coven is waiting to swoop in and misinterpret what I am trying to communicate, I need to clarify with autistic detail that I am not saying all the children born of and raised by single mothers are destined to become criminals vagabonds and wastrels. What I am however saying and what science is backing up is the fact that it is a herculean task to raise children who become successful balance adults as a single-mother. For the sake of our society, we need to return back to our traditional values before it’s too late.

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Sources:

https://uaps2015.popconf.org/papers/150595

Safe Harbour

https://arstechnica.com/science/2015/03/neolithic-culture-may-have-kept-most-men-from-mating/

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2833377/

https://www.fixfamilycourts.com/single-mother-home-statistics/#:~:text=Children%20brought%20up%20in%20single%20mother%20homes%20are%3A&text=14%20times%20more%20likely%20to,to%20run%20away%20from%20home.

 

Tiffany Muikamba proves only foolish women try to baby trap men

Tiffany Muikamba is not exactly what I would consider a smart woman. If anything, she seems to be not just vapid but also surrounded by vacuous individuals who refuse to have difficult conversations with her -or perhaps they lack the intelligence and integrity required to have such conversations.

Tiffany Muikamba needs to stop complaining about Bensoul

You see, we cannot truly blame her for embarking on her relationship with Bensoul. He, after all, is a high net worth and status individual and any woman would jump at the chance to date him.

However, where we have to call her out is in her decision to carry his child (read: baby trap him) after only knowing him for a couple of months. There is no way anyone is convincing me Tiffany Muikamba wasn’t trying to baby-trap the artist.

Reality of single motherhood dawns on young Tiffany Muikamba, she calls out deadbeat baby daddy – Bensoul

And he is an absolute idiot which is why it was even possible, to begin with. Why else was he sleeping without any form of protection with a groupie jump-off he met after a performance in Mombasa?

Tiffany Muikamba’s baby daddy, Bensoul

But we have to pause to wonder why no one pulled her aside and gave her any advice on how to deal with him. Why did no one tell Tiffany Muikamba that this was a bad idea altogether and she would be better off playing her position and staying with him as his sidepiece?

Tiffany Muikamba denies beefing with baby daddy’s girlfriend “y’all forcing issues”

Because guess what she found out as soon as she realised she was pregnant? That he wasn’t interested in investing his future with her. She was just a quick nut and rinse in the sink. Yet she somehow got it into her head that a baby would force this man to stay and another single mother was born. Perhaps this is because her own mother is a single mother. After all, single mothers raise single mothers. Or perhaps it’s down to (again) the fact that no one around her cares enough for her to actually have tough conversations.

Tiffany reacts to tabloid posting her photos on social media

That is why Tiffany Muikamba coming out and revealing she attempted suicide when she realised her plan to trap Bensoul had failed was simply par of the course. Of course she’d feel dejected that her plan failed and she was now facing a tough life ahead of her.

Bensoul’s baby mama reveals “I was suicidal” weeks after learning about pregnancy

So what’s the moral of the story here? First, do not carry before you marry. Second? Only dumb chics think that can baby-trap their way into a happily ever after. And your child will have to grow up knowing on some level that daddy never wanted them but mummy tried to force them on him.

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Tiffany Muikamba needs to stop complaining about Bensoul

Tiffany Muikamba and Besoul’s love child is finally here, a healthy, bouncing daughter and though we thought this would be the end of her ranting, she doesn’t seem to be getting tired of that nonsense and she is sharing it for us to witness thinking she is doing something.

Reality of single motherhood dawns on young Tiffany Muikamba, she calls out deadbeat baby daddy – Bensoul

She has finally given birth and surprise surprise (to absolutely no one), her baby daddy is not exactly a dedicated father for their love-child. He has not shown any intent to be a fixture in his bastard daughter’s life and somehow, we are still being dragged into the drama they are experiencing.

Bensoul

When she gave birth to their daughter, Tiffany Muikamba was quick to run to social media to let us know that she is yet to receive any form of support from Bensoul even though he and his current woman marked the arrival of his daughter.

Why I do not sympathize with Bensoul’s baby mama, Tiffany

And there is no clearer indication that the baby wasn’t wanted by her father. Yes what he did was moronic, cheating without wearing any form of protection but he never envisioned himself playing house with his paramour as he was still committed to his actual woman. She was nothing but a sidepiece who attempted to baby trap him.

I am left wondering whether this girl doesn’t have friends in her life. No, not a mortley crew of cheerleaders and yes-men but actual friends who hold her accountable. If that is a stretch then how about aunties and a mother? Tiffany Muikamba doesn’t strike me as a woman who is intouch with reality and she doesn’t have anyone in her life that keeps her grounded.

Baby mama drama: Girl who baby trapped Bensoul demands respect

So what does that result in? A woman who has refused to come to grips with the fact she is never going to be anything more than a dirty little secret Bensoul is upset was exposed.

Bensoul’s baby mama showing off curves

Tiffany Muikamba has refused to accept the truth that her daughter is little more than an inconvenience for her father. But the sooner she listens and realises there is no one coming to save her, the better. Also, please stop telling us about all your frustrations. You chose that man and decided to carry his seed before he had committed to marrying you. That is entirely on you!

Why only fools thought Bensoul would be dumped by his girlfriend

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Why I do not sympathize with Bensoul’s baby mama, Tiffany

Bensoul impregnated a woman called Tiffany Muikamba who was for all intents and purposes a side chick. She might not have known that he was dating someone else seriously at the start of their fling but I am sure when she did some research on who she was sleeping with, she found out about his longtime girl, Noni Gathoni.

Baby mama drama: Girl who baby trapped Bensoul demands respect

She didn’t care about all that as she saw it as his business. That was not where the problem lay, instead, it was at the point she decided that having his baby was a great idea. They weren’t married, if anything, they were just having coitus but she saw her chance to land a high-value guy and she took it. Pity she couldn’t stick the landing.

And now, she is crying and complaining about the fact that she does not have that same man by her side as she goes through this journey of pregnancy. She recently had a live QnA session on her Instagram account and one of the questions asked to her was whether Bensoul would be present in the delivery room and she revealed that she didn’t think so as he had broken every promise he had made to her.

Bensoul’s baby mama refuses to be referred to as side chic, here’s why

Cue the world’s smallest violin playing the world’s saddest acoustic song. Sigh. This is a not-so-bright young lady. You should never carry for a man unless he has married you. I like that statement I picked up from my mentor. Moving right along, we have to wonder why she thought Bensoul would uphold any promises he made to her.

That is the prize she won herself when she decided to become Bensoul’s mistress. Them’s the breaks. Actions have consequences and her choosing to baby trap a man who is in a very public relationship will forever have her labelled as such, a single mother -and that will come with everything that pertains to her being exactly that including not receiving support from Bensoul.

Baby mama takes a swipe at Bensoul, mocks him for growing up without a dad

Is it fair? Damned if I know. But that is what is going to happen. Why? She will forever be the groupie who was nice enough for a romp but not worth leaving Noni Gathoni for. But who knows, maybe after that relationship runs its course, Tiffany and Bensoul can finally become a couple. And perhaps it is at that point that she will finally have a man whose hand she can hold as he leads her through life.

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Baby mama drama: Girl who baby trapped Bensoul demands respect

Bensoul has a baby mama who is one furious mamajama! All of this stems from her being referred to as his baby mama, a term she doesn’t find endearing and actually argues that is is downright upsetting and insulting because even though her entire antic was simply baby trapping the star, she is more than a baby mama.

Bensoul’s baby mama refuses to be referred to as side chic, here’s why

For some context, allow me to revisit what happened. Some blog decided to share a video of Tiffany Muikamba (baby mama) dancing and referred to her as the side chic and she got emotional and jumped into their DMs demanding they put some respect on her name.

Bensoul’s soon to be baby mama

According to her, she was unaware Bensoul was in a relationship (a quick social media scan shows him constantly cheering, toasting and celebrating his girlfriend and their relationship) and as far as she was concerned, theirs was a love-story that was unfortunately shortlived.

Baby mama takes a swipe at Bensoul, mocks him for growing up without a dad

So if you are going to refer to her, she is to be referred to as “the mother of…” and at this point I had to laugh. Why you as? Because someone is literally being described in an apt way -as Bensoul’s side chic- but she is unhappy about the fact. She instead wants to rewrite history and demands that the rest of us play along to keep her from hurting her fee-fees. That;s not how life works and the unfortunate truth of it is that she will forever be known as Bensoul’s baby mama, the woman who baby trapped the Sauti Sol affiliate and signee.

Bensoul

This is clearly a case of “play stupid games, win stupid prizes” because anyone who has enough foresight to plan for the next two years knows that her name will forever be suffixed by the phrase, “Bensoul’s baby mama” or better yet, “Bensoul’s former mistress”. It just comes with the territory. Am I saying she shouldn’t keep the baby? No. I am simply saying she shouldn’t have attempted to climb up the celebrity totem pole by baby trapping Bensoul.

Why only fools thought Bensoul would be dumped by his girlfriend

So what comes next for Ms Tiffany Muikamba? Well, she should start getting accustomed to being mentioned in nearly every social interaction that our crooner philanderer is involved in. He gets married? She will be brought up with bloggers wandering how she feels. He gets another child? She will be sought after for a comment. Even if she gets married, the headlines will read, “Bensoul’d former mistress/ baby mama ties the knot”.

Bensoul with sassy girlfriend Noni Gathoni

That is the prize she won herself when she decided to become Bensoul’s mistress. Them’s the breaks. Actions have consequences and her choosing to baby trap a man who is in a very public relationship will forever have her labelled as such. Is it fair? Damned if I know. But that is what is going to happen. Why? Because outside of her famous baby daddy, she is a nobody. She will forever be the groupie who was nice enough for a romp but not worth leaving his girlfriend for. But who knows, maybe after that relationship runs its course, Tiffany and Bensoul can finally become a couple.

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