“The son I sneaked into Switzerland illegally to try fight and for…” Akothee’s long, emotional letter to eldest son as he turns 11

Kenyan singer, Akothee marked her son’s 11th birthday, recounting how much she suffered, carrying a pregnancy that was rejected.

Akothee recalled how she met her ‘heartbeat’ – Prince Ojwang’s father back in 2008 at her restaurant in Shanzu THE STOMP 196, we they became friends before falling in love.

The mother of 5 was then invited over to Switzerland where she conceived Prince Ojwang, to her then lover, aged 48 years old.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY SON ❤️
We both made a decision of having you my son. Back in 2008, I met your handsome dad , my heartbeat , my coro ????‍♂️????‍♂️ and my onion ????????????????‍♂️, at my restaurant in shanzu THE STOMP 196. We became friends/ lovers and later he invited me to Switzerland, we both agreed to have you @princeojwang .

Akothee with son, Prince Ojwang and his dad

The news of her pregnancy was received with jubilation, as the couple went out for dinner in preparation for parenthood.

We looked for you day and night in Switzerland, both of us were happy to have a baby boy. Your dad was 48 years old then, when I finally announced that the period went missing. ????????your handsome dad took me for dinner ,and we went into a new life of parenting

Unfortunately, 5 months later, tables turned and Akothee with her pregnancy, were no longer welcome into Switzerland and in her man’s heart.

until hell broke loose????‍♂️????‍♂️ when we were 5 months pregnant. I sneaked into Switzerland illegally to try fight for your space ,but all was in vein. Being afraid of being deported once they found out I had no correct documents to stick around in Switzerland. I had a schengen visa, and Switzerland was not schengen then ????‍♂️????‍♂️????‍♂️

Akothee with son, Prince Ojwang

Aftermath

Since that very day, Akothee went through hell and back, just to see her son live and survive the storm.

I have continously chopped onions day in day out, I have gone days without food and sleepless nights ,asking myself several questions , yes love dies ,or maybe he got bored , it took me time to accept that papa has nothing anymore to do with me, I kept hurting myself by sticking around thinking he would change and have us live as a family ????????????‍♂️ ????????????????,

Akothee with son, Prince Ojwang

It took her time to understand what exactly had happened to the man who had been so loving to her, only later to realize he needed his own space and the time to explore.

The black beauty then resorted to finding a new home, a new man to keep her mind sane and her heart warm.

Akothee with son, Prince Ojwang and his dad

Baby daddies

That is how, she ended up with two ‘white’ baby daddies – Papa and dad.

No ,I was wrong, papa was right ,Papa loves us yes,but he needed his space, papa was still young and needed to explore life, I understood this very late.so I had to find another Dad since life had to continue ????????????????, And that’s how we ended up with 2 fathers Papa & Dad

That is how Akothee’s two sons, Oyoo the Prince and Prince Ojwang hail from different fathers.

Akothee with her two sons, Prince Ojwang and Oyoo the Prince

Urging Prince Ojwang – the elder son – to just understand how he has a small brother – Oyoo the Prince, whom he needs to handle with care.

I love them equally , you see now you have a brother @oyootheprice even if he gives you headaches he is your younger brother handle him with care ????????????????❤, we still have our house in Switzerland, papa is taking care ,after Corona, we are going to stay with papa abit ,I guess he is missing us , we miss him too ????????????????,

Aww! as she closed off, her sweet message read:

take care of Dad, you and your brother be nice to Dad ????????????????may God protect all my baby daddies who made me a great mom
HAPPYBIRTHDAY ALFONS MARKUS MEYER OJWANG @princeojwang

Akothee with son, Prince Ojwang

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Gloria Katunge