Akothee’s sister, Cebbie Kokeyo is engaged to be married after her now fiance threw down a really grand proposal for all to witness. The engagement was a rather interesting affair that say Cebbie’s guy gave her a car as a gift.
Akothee’s advice to her younger sister, however, was just as interesting as what was going on during the engagement. Incase you haven’t read the advice, this is what Akothee had to say:
SISTER, TELL ME WHERE YOU HANG OUT, I COULD ALSO MEET ANOTHER CITY ENGINEER WHO CAN EVEN GIFT ME A BICYCLE HAKI🙈🙈 OR DOES HE HAVE A FRIEND OR A WORKMATE 🤔 HOOK UP A SISTER
PROUD AND HAPPY FOR YOU MY DARLING SISI, CONGRATULATIONS CEBBIE_KOKS_NYASEGO. BUT DON’T GIVE HIM FIRST, AS YOUR ELDER SISTER, NATAKA ZA MACHO, HATA KAMA NI MPESA NI SAWA, BEFORE I TELL HIM 🤣🤣🤣🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️
So is that great advice? Is Akothee right in telling her sister not to engage in coitus with her fiance? I would argue that it really depends on what side of the gender divide that you fall on…
You see, for a woman, this might actually be a great piece of advice. It keeps the fiance waiting upon baited-breath and wondering about how magical the wedding night will be. Whether or not it will indeed be magical isn’t anything to worry about because at the end of the day, it is about the mind and how magical it was and all that will be remembered through rosy-tinted glasses at the end of the day.
As for the man, all I can say is that when the wait is long, the juice is rarely ever worth the squeeze. Why? because at the heart of it, when it comes to seduction and attraction, women only make rules for the men they feel are beneath them. But that is my own anecdotal evidence. However, unless your woman is a virgin, it makes no sense for you to decide to hold off from pursuing carnal pleasures simply to uphold her notion of confusion as to what a European wedding is about.
So whatever you decide to believe about Akothee’s statement, chances are that when you do, your gender will strongly come into play because the only two ways to make any sense of it is either by viewing it whimsically/ emotionally or from a more grounded/ pragmatic approach.
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