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Why no one takes Diana Marua’s marital advice seriously

March 08, 2023 at 10:58
Why no one takes Diana Marua's marital advice seriously

Diana Marua is currently embroiled in a spat with Andrew Kibe and for some reason, what she is saying only seems to resonate with bitter feminists who already had an axe to grind with Kibe anyway.

Say what you will but Diana Marua is a great wife

Don’t get me wrong, I am on record having said that I believe that from what we see between her and her husband Bahati, her’s is a rather well grounded marriage but she is an outlier and that is something alot of Kenyans are cognizant of so they do not take her rubbish seriously.

Diana Marua

You see, Diana Marua is a former heaux. Not a pro who is in it for the direct monetary gain, she was just the party girl people would pass around kama bhangi or a rite of passage before you become a fully fledged member of the Nairobi Boys Club.

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One truth that is universal is that a woman’s past behaviour is a great ndicator of her future behaviour so no one with a brain and self respect would ever publicly claim a heaux (current or former). As a result of being aware of this truth, she knows she must make her marriage work.

So we see her play a role; the doting wife and mother. Diana Marua is the consumate Stepford wife but that is a bid to rehabilitate her public persona. Bahati is a clueless schmuck who just happens to be reaping the rewards of her campaign. As a result, he cannot speak on marriage and have men take him seriously. If you asked him what makes his marraige work he will give you the bimbo response of “Ni God manze, ni Mungu!”

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In conmtrast, Andrew Kibe is a man who attempted to go that way. He made his marraige his entire world and lived by the creed of “happy wife, happy life”. He failed at being marraige and he doesn’t shy away from owning that failure. He has since rerforged himself and he now has become a man teaching younger men how to be men the right way. And I don’t know about you but I am not listening to the fool that has never had to swim in troubled waters so I am not listening to Diana Marua, a former heaux!

As Franklin Roosevelt said, “A smooth sea never made a skilled sailor”. Give me a man who I can talk to over a stiff drink as he regales me on his failures and the sessons learned (introspection is an important aspect in a mentor).

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