When it comes to matters of relationships, many people often say that people seldom know what they want.
For some people, the knowledge of what they want and what they don’t want often lead them to take decisions that some might judge irrational.
This may seem the case of this person, who is said to have ended his relationship with his lover.
What do you think about the man’s decision?
According to a tweet by @bekakaima, an unidentified man ended his five year old relationship with his man because he has never seen his girl angry. Even when he tries to get her angry, she never gets angry, the tweep says.
He however ended the relationship because he thinks she is pretending. He true colour will show after marriage, he allegedly says.
In recent times, there have been debates as to the question; who pays the bill on a date?
While some opine that the male should man up to take care of the bills, others feel there is nothing wrong with the woman paying the bill.
There have been cases where ladies are left in deep disappointment because their men refused to pay the bills on a date.
This, most times lead to the crash of relationships as ladies are quick to conclude that it is the duty of the man to pay the bills.
Some of these ladies sometimes go as far as eating and making orders on impulse trusting that their men has got it covered.
Sometimes, even though the man is totally capable of handling the bills, he lays back to see how rational/reliable his partner could be. It is sad however as most ladies fail to step up to take chare of the situation where the man isn’t ‘capable’.
In fact, most ladies are left disgusted when the man fails to clear the bills; this is a red light for so many.
Even though ladies are prone to say that they are capable of doing it on their own, they often demand a man who can take care of them without them asking.
There are some class of men who considers a lady paying on a date, a slap on his face. These class of men see such women as the type that would want to rub shoulders with him in future.
Who should pay?
When it’s all said, let’s ask ourselves, is it a crime for a man to want a lady whom he can rely on?
Then again, is there a rule that the lady should always rely on her man hence a man must take care of the bills for all dates.
Should a woman pay on a date or should each take care of their own bills (split the bills) or should the one who initiates the date take care o the bills?
What are your thoughts guys; who takes responsibility of the bills on a date?
Invest in a healthy relationship and be better for it.
Love can be regarded as one of the greatest possessions of man and healthy relationships are tool with which love is expressed. Certainly, nothing feels better than being loved right. Whether it is the love that comes from family or that which exists between friends, love, when done right can make a day feel like a minute.
When love goes south, it is often one of the most dangerous things on earth as nothing hurts more than a heart that bleeds from loving wrongly.
It however take two imperfect hearts that are willing to make love perfect. Even though there are no manuals for relationships, these are healthy tips to flourish your love life.
Don’t Nag!
If it takes two people to be in a e not relationship, one must always be ready to take a hard pill for the other. No one is perfect, you are not perfect, don’t expect your partner to be perfect either. It could be difficult at times to quietly talk things through when ye hurt of pained but it is obviously the right thing to do. Don’t nag, no one loves to be nagged at. be patient, be ‘reasonable’, understand your partner and settle amicably. Nagging always succeeds at one thing; Migraine! Sure no one loves it.
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Be Open, Don’t Keep Secrets.
This kills a relationship faster. Your partner shouldn’t have to find things out on their own.It could feel difficult to talk about somethings to your partner as it is always easy to assume that he/she won’t understand but trust me, if you don’t ask, the answer is always no. Talk about the most deepest of secrets to each other and together you would live above the most difficult times.
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Don’t be Nosy
As much as it is okay to share secrets, it is often very bad and disastrous to be nosy in relationships. This one comes with trust.If your partner is keeping it from you, trust that he/she has good reasons. It often hurt so much to find things out without being told. Not only does this affect you, it affects your partner too and may raise the first red flag of the relationship. Don’t go through your partner’s phone without permission, with time, trust will be earned, love cemented and the phone will be as good as yours, just be calm and build your relationship. Instead of being an FBI agent, be a lover and earn that trust, if there is trust, there would be no secrets.
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Play!!!
Yes! You read right, play! there is no better bonding times in relationships than playtime. Play like kids, do naughty things together. These are the memories you carry along when you are not together. Imagine thinking about the fun times you had with your lover and not being able to stop smiling in pubic. That is how strong those times can be. bring back the fun times, don’t be too uptight, be friends, play and be happy.
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Enjoy, not Endure
A relationship is to be enjoyed by both parties. Make every moment of your love life count. No matter where you are, far or near, make sure you are enjoying your relationship. The moment you feel you are beginning to endure a relationship, think again. Retrace your steps, go back to the drawing board and make sure you enjoy yourself. This doesn’t mean there are no bad times, in love, those bad times are born out of utmost affection for the erring partner not out of a sense of endurance. Don’t forget that the goal of every relationship is to journey to forever, how long can your endurance-bank last?
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Remember, there is no manual to a happy relationship but a spontaneous life with an imperfect partner makes everything perfect.
Celebrity DJ and daughter of Nigerian Billionaire, Femi Otedola ends relationship with Nigerian footballer, Victor Anichebe.
DJ Cuppy yesterday, announced the end of her relationship with Victor Anichebe which started as a rumour last year before she finally confirmed it in an interview.
She took took to snapchat to post the picture of the footballer leaving her house with bags with captions that suggested that they had broken up.
”My ex came to drop off my stuff, I’m harrassing him.. we’re cool tho
”When you’re cool with your ex”.
The DJ confirmed her relationship with the footballer last year when she appeared as a guest on Rubbing Minds with Ebuka Obi-Uchendu where she talked openly for the first time. She had posted a picture of herself kissing a man whose face she hid with an emoji.
DJ Cuppy and Victor Anichebe. Source: Instablognaija
During the interview, she spoke on how she met the footballer, she said, ”I was in New York at that time and she said I think you guys should just go for a coffee. I happened to be in London and he happened to be in London and we went for coffee and the rest is history.”
In October, last year, Victor Anichebe gifted DJ Cuppy a G-Wagon as a birthday gift which certainly came as a surprise to the DJ.
In a recent interview, Tonto Dikeh’s ex husband lashed out at those spreading unconfirmed reports of him being in a love triangle between actress, Rosaline Meurer and Reality TV Star, TBoss.
Mr. Churchill obviously got upset when asked asked about the rumors making rounds. He said, ”Listen to me, I am a very busy man and I don’t have time for social media banter and gists. I don’t know where these stories come from, it’s been lingering for a long time, any lady that works with me automatically goes online as someone I’m dating and it’s no longer funny. I don’t know where these stories emerge from but they are not true. At the moment, I am a single man and for all you care I can hang out with hundred women if I want, it’s no one’s business… Let me just shut this down once and for all; Rose is family to me, I’ve known her since childhood before she started working with the foundation and for the last time, she didn’t break my home.She’s and actress not my personal assistance as many people believe and in the real sense, a company cannot have an actress as a P.A. Anything you read online that doesn’t come from me is not true, there’s so many fake News sponsored against me by jobless people. My marriage crashed because of personal issues that we could resolve and I tried to fix it several times because of my son but it didn’t work out. As for TBoss, she was present as many other celebrities at the fire service event we did last month in Abuja so how does this translate to my dating any of them? I don’t think I owe any one any explanation, when and if I am ready to get married again, my family will know not the media. I will choose to keep my life private like it used to be”.
As for the reported domestic violence allegations against him, Churchill said they were not true as he was out of the country when his ex wife (Tonto Dikeh) moved out of his house with his son and all her things without his consent. He added that he has never raised his hand again a woman an never will as only weak men do that. ”…I’ve been trying to see my son but I’ve been taking it slow because I don’t want any false claims” he said.
