Thee Pluto Speaks On The Dynamics Of A Healthy Relationship
Forex trader, real estate developer, and content creator Thee Pluto is throwing some cold water on the hot, filtered tea of Instagram relationships. He reminds us that most of what we see online, especially from “couple goals” accounts, is a carefully curated highlight reel, not the full story.
“Whatever online couples post online, is what they want you to see,” Pluto declares, dispelling the illusion of picture-perfect romance. Yes, these couples have real lives with ups and downs, arguments and imperfections, just like everyone else. But they’ve mastered the art of keeping their private struggles off camera, presenting a happy facade that often becomes mistaken for reality.
Sharing a candid photo with his baby mama, Felicity Shiru, Pluto emphasizes the point. They’re all smiles, holding hands, but don’t be fooled; they have their behind-the-scenes moments just like every couple. “We have our ups and downs, full of imperfections,” he admits.
“The most important thing ni kuficha our arguments or low moments na kuzisolve before zifike in public.”
So, the next time you scroll through those picture-perfect couples’ feeds, remember:
- Social media is a highlight reel, not a documentary. What you see is what they choose to show, not the whole story.
- Every couple has their struggles. Don’t assume online perfection translates to real-life bliss.
- Focus on your own relationship, not comparing it to others. Every couple is unique, with their own dynamics and challenges.
- Communicate openly and honestly with your partner. Don’t let unresolved issues fester.
Ultimately, Pluto’s message is one of authenticity and self-awareness. Embrace the imperfections in your relationship, communicate openly, and remember that the curated couples on social media don’t have all the answers. Focus on building a real, genuine connection with your own partner, flaws and all.
In his words, “
mi huambia mtu wangu mi si angel na sitawahi kuwa, na tukiwa na differences tusilale Kama hatuongeleshani.” (My partner is my person, not an angel, and when we have differences, we don’t sleep mad at each other and refuse to talk.)
So, let’s all take a step back from the filtered world of online relationships and appreciate the beautiful messy reality of love in all its forms.
