“You can’t hold my life” Anerlisa throws shade at ex with cryptic message

Anerlisa Muigai is mad and if you thought she will stay quiet about it then you’re wrong!

The Keroche heiress has left fans talking after sharing a cryptic message believed to be aimed at her ex where she wrote;

Exes Anerlisa and Ben Pol

If you start something, have the guts to finish it too. NKT.

On the same post Anerlisa went on to add that she is nobody’s baby mama; as she told off the unknown person saying;

N/B I am nobody’s baby mama so don’t think you can hold my life!!!

Anerlisa Muigai

Ben Pol is that you?

For the past few months Anerlisa Muigai has openly been bashing her ex husband, Ben Pol; and just like that – the newly married couple ended up parting ways barely a year after walking down the aisle.

Since their divorce, things have not been easy between the two; and the worst part is that they openly throw shade at each other on social media without a care in the world.

The last time Ben Pol went on to call out his ex wife in a post where he wrote;

Some people are so poor. All they have is money

Ben Pol to Anerlisa

And to make matters worse, Ben Pol went on to accuse Ommy Dimpoz of getting involved with Anerlisa Muigai; a statement I bet he regrets till date. The young father of one wrote;

Malengo yako ya mwaka ni kufanya collabo na Fally Ipupa na kumzalisha “A” kizazi unacho?

Ben Pol to Ommy

And looks like they’re back to it again!

Yes, wedding plans are still on but please be patient with us – Ben Pol insists

What really do we say about lovebirds, Anerlisa and Ben Pol? The two are already engaged, traditional wedding already done with, loved up moments going down like the two are in a love bubble.

These two started their journey back in late 2018 and it´s seems all rosy. Roughly a year later, in September 2019, the bongo sensation went down on one knee for his girl, Anerlisa.

During a recent interview with Tanzania´s Ijumaa newspaper, the singer disclosed that he paid an equivalent of ´hundred cows´ as Anerlisa´s dowry.

I paid an equivalent of hundred cows for Anerlisa´s dowry – Ben Pol discloses

If that is to be rounded up in terms of money value, it surmounts to nothing less than Ksh 5 Million.

Ben pol further insisted:

What many do not understand is that when it comes to planning a wedding, privacy should be paramount. Not everything should be announced online. So, I´ll urge those pressurizing us to wed to be patient and see what the outcome of our relationship will be. And when we tie the knot, they will still know, given a wedding is something that you can´t do in secrecy.

 

I´ll urge those pressurizing us to wed to be patient and see what the outcome of our relationship will be – Ben Pol insists

Before adding:

We are planning to tie the knot formally and start a family. Currently, I am in the process of putting things right. But if you´re asking if the wedding plans are still on, the answer is ¨ Yes, they are.¨

Flashback

Recounting days when they first met and started dating, the bongo flava star shyly expressed:

I remember we were in Dar es Salaam, where I held her arm, she held mine, I hugged her, she hugged back. I kissed her, she kissed back, and I immediately knew there was chemistry between us.

That is when I immediately knew there was chemistry between us – Ben Pol shyly admits

Ben Pol finally pays Anerlisa´s dowry

Bongo sensation, Ben Pol finally pays dowry to Anerlisa Muigai´s family at their home in Naivasha.

https://www.instagram.com/p/By-1Ef2Hbyy/

On Saturday, all roads led to Naivasha as Ben Pol paid rightful dues to the family of the love of his life, Anerlisa.

Treated with topmost secrecy, the event went down with only close friends and families in attendance and with the paparazzi locked away.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BzFr4qllvi7/

This comes just barely a month since Anerlisa got betrothed to the ´Moyo Mashine´ hit maker.

Flashback

It has been 6 months of dating, with an articulate Ben Pol going down on one knee at the Coast, to propose to the wealthy heiress.

However, it was only until early in the year when Anerlisa broke the news to the public of her love life with Ben Pol.

https://www.instagram.com/p/By706tpnyND/

 

Hardly 4 months ago, Ben pol met the family of the NERO CEO.

In what would best be defined as a clear indication of a blossoming relationship.

https://www.instagram.com/p/ByvJmArHYCb/

In a 48-second video, Ben is clad in white seemingly warmly mingling with Anerlisa´s family in company of a myriad of other guests.

Just a week ago, Anerlisa came out to slam naysayers after flaunting how mature and a stable gentleman the Tanzanian singer is.

First he is very humble, loving, God fearing,

he is not a user, he is not afraid to tell me the truth

and I have had the best and craziest time with him

also he doesn’t distract me from my work