GBV- Society Being Hard On Men Than Women

As most people would purport, ‘mwanaume ni kuvumilia’. It’s a stereotypical statement that most people maintain to make men feel like they shouldn’t exhibit their emotions; unlike women.

To put things into perspective, it’s not peculiar for Gender-Based violence to occur to men. But how seriously is it taken when it comes to men being the victims? It’s in black & white that not much is done.

A good example is comedian 2 Mbili’s case.

The brutal assault on the YouTuber by his baby mama has sparked uproar and discussions about violence against men.

2Mbili recorded a video of himself all bloody in the face as he explained he had been beaten silly by his baby mama.

The video was shared online by Kiss FM presenter Obinna who said the YouTuber has been enduring domestic violence for a long time.

Men On The Receiving End

Similarly, legendary radio presenter Shaffie was fired from radio over remarks which was translated to taunting women. The veteran media personality, however, revealed that he was fired not necessarily because of his blunt commentary but rather something deeper and much more complicated.

Comedian YY contributed to the latter paramount conversation; claiming that men are being discriminated.

 

GBV Imbalance- Boys Are Being Neglected

The past week has seen some horrendous news of a young boy whose eyes were mercilessly gouged out in a matter of hours in Kisii County. The saddening news left netizens flabbergasted with most questioning the atrocious act.

The baby, identified as Sagini, was found dumped at his family’s banana plantation on Thursday with his face covered with blood after being kidnapped on Wednesday evening.

Alex Maina Ochoki, 26, who is the main suspect, was arrested by detectives from the Directorate of Criminal Investigations (DCI) on Sunday evening and was held at Marani police station.

At Ikuruma village, shocked residents who are yet to comes to terms with the nature of cannibalism inflicted on their very own say they fear for the lives of their children, locking them up as the Christmas festivities approach.

Suspects in Baby Sagini case to face attempted murder charges - The Standard
Main Suspect in Sagini’s case- Google

No Place For Boychild To Run To

Despite the news, it saddens even more to learn that in Kisii County has no boys rescue center. It’s not the only county with such a problem. And the boychild is now struggling with Gender Based Violence, most of which go un-noticed. The girl-child has overtaken the boychild after being prioritized in such situations; which is of course, unfair. It’s high time the Gov’t balances both and equip each county with a rescue center for both boys and girls.