Vera Sidika is not over her ex, Otile Brown who we have to all acknowledge has actually won their breakup in leaps and bounds and that is probably a huge part of the reason why the former trollop socialite cannot come to terms with her past in so far as dating him is concerned.
And you do have to feel for her and more so for her partner, Brown Mauzo because when Otile and Vera Sidika Shikwekwe were dating, she was the bigger star of the two. But once she exposed him to a new audience, he took off and he is arguably a bigger star than she ever was.
And in contrast, there is Brown Mauzo who has been with Vera Sidika for a very long time and he cannot replicate the type of exposure that afforded Otile Brown his chance at being a superstar. He has not grown his following by much and his music isn’t being received by a wider audience.
But that has no factor on what we are discussing today and that is the fact that Vera Sidika is not over Otile Brown and we can see that in her response when people ask about him. You see, the opposite of love is not contempt but indifference.
And her reply to a fan who asked her whether she still has feelings to “OB” which is one of his monikers and she acted like she does not know him. The intent was to convey a contemptuous “I have never heard of that person”.
Instead, what Vera Sidika has done is to make me realize she is not over her ex. Why? What happens when someone is genuinely over a failed relationship and their partner from said relationship? They can talk about them without injecting their hurt to the conversation.
Time, as they say, heals all wounds. And if time has been allowed to do its thing, then it should have resulted in her hurt and pain at how Otile Brown did her should have healed enough for her to speak on the relationships and the lessons learned.
So Vera Sidika isn’t exactly over her ex. And clearly, she fell in love with OB more than she had anticipated and this shows her human side. Even trollops are women at the end of the day. Still, she should probably take time to heal and seek therapy. Otherwise, she is wasting Brown Mauzo’s time. And I cannot even imagine what this all spells out for Bwana Mauzo because he knows he is living in OB’s shadow -both in career and in love.
June 30, 2022