Anerlisa Muigai still hasn’t learnt from Ben Pol divorcing her
Anerlisa Muigai just doesn’t seem to have learnt a single thing from her divorce from Ben Pol… Or rather, she hasn’t learnt a thing from the fact that ben Pol divorced her and you just can’t make this mess up!
It is clear for all to see that she chooses not to surround herself with people who would foster personal growth from her by helping her face and answer difficult questions. Instead, she is surrounded by yes-men.
Ben Pol and Anerlisa Muigai had a rather difficult marriage after what was a whirlwind romance that took East African by shock. We had no idea how the Keroche heiress and scion of the wealthy Karanja family met with Tanzanian singer Bwana Pol.
Whatever happened, happened and what transpired from that was the pair eventually dated and ended up walking down the aisle together to exchange wedding vows. The wedding seemed like a shotgun wedding and the couple didn’t particularly strike me as being prepared for the actual marriage.
When the wedding went belly up, I suggested that both of them should take the time to seek counselling to deal with any underlying psychological scars the divorce left. Let’s face it, Anerlisa Muigai probably took on the worst toll from the divorce and it doesn’t help that it lived up to the pattern her previous relationships took.
Life after divorce: Anerlisa Muigai leaves no room for imagination with tiny skimpy top giving many wild thoughts (Photos)
She decided to conduct an interview with -get this- not a Kenyan publication but rather a Tanzanian one, Bongo 5 and we already can guess why she did that… It’s her way of hitting out (or should I say reaching out) to Ben Pol.
She is just as aware as we are that if she had given a Kenyan publication the interview, Tanzanians would probably not have noticed and if they had, time would have passed thus dulling the sting of it. But Anerlisa Muigai wanted her message to be fresh when it was delivered.
According to her, she found Ben Pol’s handling of their marital issues immature especially the way he chose to handle the dissolution of their marriage. But the thing is, she forgets that this is actually an indictment of herself. She CHOSE TO DEAL WITH HIM. She was not forced into the union. If she couldn’t tell that he was immature then we have to wonder why that is. And actually, for all of us looking in from the outside, Ben Pol was the more mature of the two.
While they were married, he remained mum on the goings-on in his marriage. He never let out a peep, unlike his wife who was quick to always run to social media with her “cryptic” posts about life, love and happiness. He only spoke about the marriage and its ultimate conclusion when it was finally done and he hasn’t spoken about it since then.
Clearly, Anerlisa Muigai has not learned a damn thing since the dissolution of her union and we are probably going to see her make the same mistakes in her subsequent relationships and the next few partners will all suffer the punishments she will inflict on them because she has not dealt with her trauma and damage.